What's on this guy's mind?

[_Cathy_]

Hi Cathy for you

Perhaps that's the main problem, maybe because your friend just broke up recently with her long-time boyfriend, she's craving for attention-- the type that she used to receive. At this point, she's way too vulnerable, too vulnerable to think straight, and this guy simply took advantage of her vulnerability. And he will continue to take advantage of her as long as she allows it.

Maybe it will help if your friend can confront the guy and ask him the exact question that you are asking us. She should be the one to ask her what exactly was on his mind when he kissed her. Your friend should have the courage to ask the guy-- did he do it because he liked her and would want her to be his girlfriend?

My friend told me that the older guy even gives more attention than his ex. It's like he could anticipate the needs of the girl. My friend doesn't accept his help but she appreciates the gesture. She doesn't like the older guy do because he's too presko or aggressive.

My friend told me that judging from the guy's stories he's the type who doens't believe in long time courtship and it seems like he's the type who wants to get involved physically or go to private places like the movie house or out of town before the girl is even her GF . Parang si BLUTUT

[woohoo]

you can't take that from a father...hehehe. hay, woo indoctrinate niyo talaga ni wifey ang bata...that's really for her own good. ngayon na appreciate ko na yung dicipline na pinipilit nila noon. i was once a difficult teen ager just as i saw my parents as difficult ones. had they relented, i wouldn't perceive the world in a way i am perceiving it now...they were cruel but they have become kind in doing so.

Abby: I forgot to add...

Buti na lang wala akong anak na babae... Nyahaha... Nakow, kawawa siguro siya (kung meron) sa strictness...

[_Cathy_]

Woohoo, what kind of kiss were you thinking of ba? hahaha. This is the kind of kiss that you do to a child. My parents did that to me as well when I was little. Basta hirap i describe.

[FullThrottle]

My friend told me that the older guy even gives more attention than his ex. It's like he could anticipate the needs of the girl. My friend doesn't accept his help but she appreciates the gesture. She doesn't like the older guy do because he's too presko or aggressive.

My friend told me that judging from the guy's stories he's the type who doens't believe in long time courtship and it seems like he's the type who wants to get involved physically or go to private places like the movie house or out of town before the girl is even her GF . Parang si BLUTUT

Har har har natawa ako dito a.

Seriously speaking, I honestly think your friend should confront this guy. Your friend is already 28 and at this point in her life it doesn’t make sense wasting her time on a 41-year old guy (btw, are you sure that this guy is still single?) who has the qualities you just mentioned in your post above, qualities that do not make a good boyfriend (read: commitment). Never mind if he gives a lot of attention to your friend / can anticipate your friend’s needs, any gigolo worth his salt can easily do the same thing just to get inside a woman’s pants.

[bolantoy]

double post

[bolantoy]

Mahirap basahin ang isip ng tao na manipulative. Sino ba ang gusto ng pinapaikot diba?

Whew! It's been a long time since I posted again Alam mo miss cathy, hindi magiging manipulative yung guy kung hindi nagpapa manipulate yung friend mo...

He can manipulate all he want as long as she's not affected. who cares?? di ba?? The problem is your friend liked the guy too, she doesn't know it yet kaya nung ninakawan ng halik bumigay agad.

Kung hindi mo gusto ang isang tao, halikan ka man sa lips or kung saan man, hindi mo pa rin gusto...

[_Cathy_]

^Oh my. Ganun ba yun? So the girl never knew all along that he liked the guy and then when he stole the kiss, that was what triggered it?

Kasi nung una she didn't like the kiss. Pero nung biglang hindi na siya binigyan ng attention (biglaan) ng guy, dun na siya nalito.

[ab_initio]

^^ classic case of a player. tell your friend to stay away from him...

maraming good kisser diyan. mabait. matalino. mayaman. accomplished. successful. self-made man. yung mga ganyan, mababaw ang self-esteem. they wanna see their girl playing head over heels...ang mga lalaking di kilala ang sarili and low self-esteem are classic candidates for psychological incapacity. does she want the court to declare him as such? oH no! a resounding NO!!!! my friend.

please, the sooner she'll forget that a-hole kisser the better it is for her. malapit na ang day of hearts...she better take her away from her psyche...poocha lalaking amoy kutong lupa lang yan! sorry...na high blood lang ako.

[ab_initio]

Har har har natawa ako dito a.

(btw, are you sure that this guy is still single?)

honga...still fooling around? baka badingerz! at 41, not in a relationship, never been married nakoh! tita siya! ANO BA TALAGA ATE? dapat tanong nung friend mo...baka gusto niya lang yung eau de toilette nung friend mo...di niya ma wear wear kasi mabibisto siyang badingerz!!! harharhar!

[shadow]

Cathy, hinde ba talaga ikaw yang "friend" mo?