WTH! You're only in your 30s? Baka mas matanda pa ko sayo. I thought you were in your 50s already because you sound so mature.
I wonder if having kids makes a person mature (in a good way) My single friends and I were talking about how our lives are in a totally different spectrum from our friends who have kids. Parang ang bilis ng progress ng buhay nila. Maybe having children gives a person more motivation to succeed.