LOL at OP looking for sosyal pretty women. Strong stalker.
First, sosyal women (by definition, those who are from old rich clans) are not found in bars. They're mostly at home if not travelling abroad or travelling to remote countrysides doing philanthropy. 90% of the time, they're working in the family business. Yes, i'm talking about the marriage material women in their mid-20s.
What you will find in bars and similar places are broken women. Women who may be rich but are in dire need of attention (who will give you tremendous headaches in the future). Those who had grim pasts and can't get over it. Women who have terrible self-esteem and can easily give in to peer pressure (such as smoking, drinking, drugs, orgy, etc). 95% are social climbers (people looking for sosyal people themselves).
BTW, it's a misconception that you need to have money to be with real deal socialite girls.Their breeding (often from international schools), does not let them to allow guys to spend for them. In fact, they'd rather spend for you.
If you're just looking for *** (which is 99.99% of the time), marami jan. As in women are everywhere. Use your skills in luring, uhm, I mean, attracting women. It's very easy.
IF you're ugly and lame, you can hire prostitutes (since you have money anyway).
horsepower:
yepWhat you will find in bars and similar places are broken women. Women who may be rich but are in dire need of attention (who will give you tremendous headaches in the future). Those who had grim pasts and can't get over it. Women who have terrible self-esteem and can easily give in to peer pressure (such as smoking, drinking, drugs, orgy, etc).
so right
many have issues, painful past
a lot of cokeheads out there
These are the women who live in Utopia corner Shangri-la. Dr Maria Mangahas is a case in point. She is one in a billion. Beauty, intelligence and a good heart. You hear her talk for the first time, it's like the voice of an angel.
This is a hasty generalization in my opinion.
The problem is that "sosyal" is subjective. If it means, living in an exclusive village, studying in an expensive school, having perfect grammar, flawless skin, aligned teeth, beautiful hair, being well trained in social graces and belonging to a family with old money, then I don't think these girls would settle for anyone who is not at par with them. Guys who do not belong from old rich families stand a chance with these women given that they are highly intelligent, talented and driven. Guys spending for women knows no social class. Any normal girl from the poorest to the richest families would appreciate being spent for. Not for the money but for the gesture.
I cannot get guys who take pleasure in women spending for them ALL THE TIME. Where's the pride?!? Poor chauvenist is an oxymoron.
Last edited by _Cathy_; December 6th, 2008 at 04:28 PM.
You're right. It should have been "mostly broken women".
I don't think there's a guy who is willing to be spent for all the time. In time, he'll be embarrassed upon feeling the guilt of uselessness - especially if he's a hardcore chauvinist. Sadly, some men are still stuck in stone age and still believe in chauvinism. I, however believe that women and men are equal.
I do appreciate it when my ladies spend for me. Like concerts, movies, gifts, things I need in the house, etc.
Not that I require them to reciprocate every thing I give but rather, knowing that they are willing to spend for me too is a bit comforting because there are women are far stingier than a rock. Mahirap kasama yun. hahaha.
Last edited by Horsepower; December 6th, 2008 at 06:30 PM.
laos na ba ang Faces?yan ang favorite club ng mga "sosyal" na magaganda noon.
meron akong kakilala. ang kanyang strategy: tumatambay sa loob ng mga universities. may fake identification pa sya.
A STORY OF A RICH MAN MARRIED TO A SOCIALITE
In many ways it was a storybook life. Summers in Salzburg. Holidays in Vail. Weekends hunting pheasant in Connecticut. Evenings at glittering charity balls. Mornings with Socialite strolling through the Renoirs, an aria on her lips. Their West Highland terrier, Pookie, walked each day by the liveried servant. Of all the stories, the one told most often was of the night Rich Man surprised his socialite wife in bed with an eye-popping emerald necklace. When she wore it to a Council of Fashion Designers cocktail party, it was the talk of the crowd.
'WHERE DID YOU GET THOSE?', ASKED A LONGTIME FRIEND.
'I FOUND THEM UNDER MY PILLOW', SOCIALITE REPLIED.
' AND WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN SLEEPING?'
'IN THE RIGHT BED'.
---barbarians at the gate, burrough and helyar
MOds sorry ha kasi ung replies ko dami, dami rin kasi dapat sagutin..
ang tindi nito ah, sanay na sanay na lolz but a good suggestionYou may ask "hi, I noticed you seem to know your way. Do you come here often?" .... then check if she replies. From there, tuluy-tuloy na.
Kung mag-uusap kayo, invite mo muna ng coffee sa UCC, or Coffee Bean, etc., etc. Huwag na starbucks, tubig na lang sa kanila iyan. Samahan mo na rin ng isang slice ng pastry o cake.Di makakatanggi iyan!
Tapos, pag patapos na usapan ninyo, simplehan mong pumunta sa counter, mag-take-out ng isang souvenir item (e.g. stainless mug, etc), tapos sabihin mo pag inabot mo na sa kanya, "here's something for you to remember and "hold" me by... hope we can meet again soon...." O, eh di Ayos na!
fortunately im not looking for *** its more of companionship, sinu bang ayaw ng girl na marunong magdala ng sarili, sometimes kasi sosyal ladies are accompanied with the idea of being sophisticated and independent, im attracted to women who are strong willed and fashionable just as long as down to earth, mahirap naman ung maganda nga matalino, independent sakit naman sa ulo, mahirap iuwi sa bahay ung ganun di mapakilala sa mga parents :D IMHO