panliligaw - need expert advice

[isketi]

:lolabove:

[safeorigin]

based on the answer, maybe more than 5 na

[uls]

hahaha

pero dudes nakaka amaze how gwapings get away with stunts like that

[Asus700]

since magkaibigan na kayo, you have an advantage.

go for the kill, ask her out but using russpogi's advice.

eh baka gusto mo lang mag post ng pix dito nung girl, hehehe

[safeorigin]

hahaha

pero dudes nakaka amaze how gwapings get away with stunts like that

not to mention having the girls to sign for an autograph pagkatapos mag pa kiss.

anyway, ala akong picture niya since ala ako digicam dito. nasa cellphone ko pero IR lang ang kulang para mai-upload ko dito. kaya sorry na lang kayo. wahahaha. tbh, i even look at her picture before i sleep everynight. hahaha. or am i just being not normal?

[Lucius]

ilang palad na kaya dumapo sa mukha ni lucius

Hahahaha you have no idea. Pero wala pa naman sa 3 digits. Anyway, no pare! That doesn't mean that you have to be in a "contact-ok zone" to kiss her. Touching helps, really. Wag kang torpe torpe or mahiya. Don't ask for permission, just do it. It really works I tell you. Don't be too nice. Cos basically girls are fed up with "badboys" and "nice guys" so be in the middle.

Kaya nga may song diba na maginoo pero medyo bastos. Try mo maging ganon wag lang manyak

[Lucius]

Obsessed ka na yata bro hahahaha!

[wildthing]

eto style ko na ginamit sa taong kakilala ko na and somehow kaibigan na rin...

....magrequest ka samahan kang kumain (assuming kumain na siya)... pag sumama e di kuwentuhan na kayo... before you leave or maghiwalay... (look straight sa mata nya) at itanong mo kung magagalit ba siya kung ikaw ay manligaw sa kanya....

pagsinabi niya YES eh di sabihin mo sige tama ng friends na lang tayo (sabay smile) .... this is your back-up plan para iwas busted.

pero pagsinabi naman niyang HINDI eh di sabihin mo...hihingi ka na ng formal date sked sa kanya (preferably next day agad or if you were with her ng lunch, ask for a dinner date).

From there I think you can have a GF in less than 15 days of courting...

PS...that was my personal style...exGF ko na yun...wife ko na kasi

[jmj74]

you said that this girl has been hanging out with you for a while now, and she's been turning down many suitors. did you ever think that maybe the reason why she's been turning 'em down is because she's waiting for you to make a move? tell her that you like her and ask her if maybe she feels the same way about you. i know one thing, if she's just waiting for you, and you don't make a move, she's not going to wait forever.

I agree with this. remember bro baka maunahan ka. mahirap na. if you really want her-Act now. let passion of execution be involve. and IN DOING THIS,
One of the
things you have to remember about execution though is that it doesn't
mean you have to be successful every single time. Part of execution is
learning how to fail yet rising up again.

gO get her na

[Lucius]

^ true. That's what I did with my girlfriend now. There are to many competition. Know what I did, I sneaked it out of nowhere and boom, kami na. Going 2 months now I guess. See what happens when you go for the kill, kahit yung ibang matatagal and matiyaga wala ng magagawa. Cos she's mine now hahahaha

[chua_riwap]

eto style ko na ginamit sa taong kakilala ko na and somehow kaibigan na rin...

....magrequest ka samahan kang kumain (assuming kumain na siya)... pag sumama e di kuwentuhan na kayo... before you leave or maghiwalay... (look straight sa mata nya) at itanong mo kung magagalit ba siya kung ikaw ay manligaw sa kanya....

pagsinabi niya YES eh di sabihin mo sige tama ng friends na lang tayo (sabay smile) .... this is your back-up plan para iwas busted.

pero pagsinabi naman niyang HINDI eh di sabihin mo...hihingi ka na ng formal date sked sa kanya (preferably next day agad or if you were with her ng lunch, ask for a dinner date).

From there I think you can have a GF in less than 15 days of courting...

PS...that was my personal style...exGF ko na yun...wife ko na kasi

+1000

Another expert advice. SafeO, subukan mo ito. Mukhang ok.

[Lucius]

Dare nga bro, sabihin mo picture kayo together upload mo lang sa friendster. Tapos PM us your friendster link. Ok ba yun? Don't worry, most of us in a relationship/married ang status. Di namin susulutin yan like on the other thread! Hahaha

[Lucius]

ilang palad na kaya dumapo sa mukha ni lucius

Ay palad pala to hahahaha namisunderstood ko. SWEAR BOYS! It never failed! Just kiss her at the right time. Timing is everything.

[russpogi]

Agree.

DO NOT DISTANCE YOURSELF. That's one thing you don't want to do: send a message THAT you need her attention. WRONG MOVE.

Rather, spend MORE time with her. Casual lang. Take a long walk, chika dun, study together, gimik. You said she's comfortable with you, so don't abuse it. Use it to your advantage, puntahan mo sa bahay, introduce yourself to her parents and sibings, cats, dogs etc-etc.

Then find a neutral place: park, playground, etc.

A conversation goes like this:

Ikaw : Uy, dami mo nang nabasted. Taas yata ng standard mo guys.

Siya : So?

Ikaw : Ano ba hinahanap mo sa guys?

Siya : (Fill here _____________________.)

Ikaw : That guy doesn't exist.

Siya : Of course he exist!

Ikaw : (Pa-innocent effect) Huh? Sino? Swerte naman nun.

Siya : His name is ___________.

Pag pangalan mo lumabas, inuman na! Pag hinde, inuman pa rin! :D

Honestly, humor her. Girls loves a guy who has a good sense of humor. What do you think Dolphy and Vic Sotto have in common?

If I were you, I'll give it more time. 6 months max. Nothing beats starting as friends, learning each other's personality before you move on to the next level.

And in my entire life, never akong nanligaw. It just fell "naturally". Gets?

Goodluck!

Tama! Try this! Hehehe!

Kung nasa UST ka, mag-EB tayo at isama mo ang girl tapos ibi-build up kita. hehehe. Nasa UST lang din ako.

Sakin, humor usually works (masayahin kasi ako). Saka try to show na interesado ka sa kanya. Ask about her, her family, etc to make her feel that you're not just playing her.

May "tulay" ka na! Si Boss OTEP and pinaka-matinik dito sa Tsikot!

[Syuryuken]

naglabasan na ang mga matitinik sa chicks

[isketi]

kasi pare para sa akin ah, maski baduy ang ibigay mo pero pag gusto ka kikiligin iyon! :D

Agree, agree!

And corollary to that, kung type ka rin nung babae, kahit na gaano ka corny/pathetic ng jokes mo tatawa at tatawa pa rin siya.;)

[empy]

ano pala qualifications para matawag na "expert" sa panliligaw? :hihihi:

[Syuryuken]

ano pala qualifications para matawag na "expert" sa panliligaw? :hihihi:

pag may hawak ng most humurous person award

[empy]

^akala ko yung expert eh yung laging busted....kasi sila ang laging may practice :evillaugh

[Syuryuken]

^akala ko yung expert eh yung laging busted....kasi sila ang laging may practice :evillaugh

mga expert ng mabasted mga yun.... makakapal ng mukha sa panliligaw :hysterical: