panliligaw - need expert advice

[chua_riwap]

+2 sa Style ni Clark Kent...then kapag hinanap ka na nya...

yun na ang gagawin mong 1st move....

then kinabukasan...bigyan mo na ng flowers.hehe

Ehe-he-he! Pa'no pag di na hinanap?

Pero, think positive. Hahanapin ka rin nyan............

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[safeorigin]

sana nga lang. knowing her, she might text me kada tanghali pag di ako nagpakita. ang prinoproblema ko lang is baka magtampo tapos baka lalo ako ayawan. huhuhu
thanks for the moral support though.

[Flagg]

No flowers, no gifts, no avoidance either... most of all, don't even tell her you like her, or worse, "love" her.

Instead, use up all her leisure time para ikaw lang ang nasa buhay niya. Then, gradually magpa-kapal muks ka na... in a nice way, of course.

Di na me magbibigay ng additional secrets to instant love, mahirap nang makita ng mga girls ito e. PM nalang if you want more... Wala me problem about sharing, out of the competition na naman me e.

HTH.

[claRkEnt]

sana nga lang. knowing her, she might text me kada tanghali pag di ako nagpakita. ang prinoproblema ko lang is baka magtampo tapos baka lalo ako ayawan. huhuhu
thanks for the moral support though.

that's better and would make it easier. Kung magtampo man yun, ek-ek lang yun.

Once she confronts you on the reason for the "no communication", yung explanation mo ang pinaka-KEY on your success. But you have to accept whatever the outcome would be. Pero base sa mga sinabi mo, medyo leaning towards positive result.

Goodluck!

[safeorigin]

aba e lalo tayong ala progress nyan, kasi ganun na ang ginagawa ko ngayon. pero i'm more than welcome for some useful pointers anyway.

[safeorigin]

ewan ko lang kung positively biased ang situation kasi ala ako maisip na good explanation. from my assesment, success is only at 33% considering all the factors revolving me and her. but looking at the bright side, mas mataas yung success rate ko ng infinite times kasi sila 0%.

[claRkEnt]

ewan ko lang kung positively biased ang situation kasi ala ako maisip na good explanation. from my assesment, success is only at 33% considering all the factors revolving me and her. but looking at the bright side, mas mataas yung success rate ko ng infinite times kasi sila 0%.

ohhh boy!!!

explanation??? there's no explanation to be given other than this: nahihirapan ka knowing na hanggang magkaibigan lang kayo. etc etc.... read her expression... it would tell a lot.

[safeorigin]

oh, didn't quite get what you posted there. finished recon though. nasa sb.

[sean-archer]

my advice is do not "court" her, ang difference lang naman if syota mo sya or kaibigan is, pag syota mo may kiss, holding hands, embrace, at ibapa, hehe., pero just the same, as per your previous posts, may time naman siyang binibigay sayo, thats your opportunity, ask her out, watch a movie, eat out, go party together, but NEVER tell her that you love her or even nililigawan mo sya. just make her wonder, then she'll be the one to ask what you feel towards her.

[russpogi]

Eto advise ko para sa yo safeorigin:

Ask her out. DO NOT ask her, "would you like to watch a movie tonight?" or anything like that. It might be too assuming for the situation. Instead, ask her like: "Samahan mo ko sa mall mamaya. May bibilhin kse ako eh." Yan! At the mall, ask her, "Tara kain tayo!". Then when you get the chance, "Tara nood tayong sine!".

If you observed, casual lahat ng lines. That's exactly the point as you want the girl to be really comfortable with you, alone. Then when you're alone, try to talk about her, like what she likes, and stuff like that. Then sundutan mo ng mga tanong like, "Ano ba gusto mo sa isang guy?". Of course, dapat maganda ang timing and place. Like walang istorbo or the likes. A good venue is a park (like Greenbelt), by the beach/sea (Harbor Square).

Then, find out if she longs to be with you. How? Appear busy at times. Find out if she misses you. How? Don't call or text her for some time. Give her the chance to miss you.

Yan! Ewan ko na lang kung di pa mapalapit loob nya sa yo! hehehe!

[chua_riwap]

^^

Take it from the experts, SafeO.

[66bunny]

Eto advise ko para sa yo safeorigin:

Ask her out. DO NOT ask her, "would you like to watch a movie tonight?" or anything like that. It might be too assuming for the situation. Instead, ask her like: "Samahan mo ko sa mall mamaya. May bibilhin kse ako eh." Yan! At the mall, ask her, "Tara kain tayo!". Then when you get the chance, "Tara nood tayong sine!".

If you observed, casual lahat ng lines. That's exactly the point as you want the girl to be really comfortable with you, alone. Then when you're alone, try to talk about her, like what she likes, and stuff like that. Then sundutan mo ng mga tanong like, "Ano ba gusto mo sa isang guy?". Of course, dapat maganda ang timing and place. Like walang istorbo or the likes. A good venue is a park (like Greenbelt), by the beach/sea (Harbor Square).

Then, find out if she longs to be with you. How? Appear busy at times. Find out if she misses you. How? Don't call or text her for some time. Give her the chance to miss you.

Yan! Ewan ko na lang kung di pa mapalapit loob nya sa yo! hehehe!

Agree.

DO NOT DISTANCE YOURSELF. That's one thing you don't want to do: send a message THAT you need her attention. WRONG MOVE.

Rather, spend MORE time with her. Casual lang. Take a long walk, chika dun, study together, gimik. You said she's comfortable with you, so don't abuse it. Use it to your advantage, puntahan mo sa bahay, introduce yourself to her parents and sibings, cats, dogs etc-etc.

Then find a neutral place: park, playground, etc.

A conversation goes like this:

Ikaw : Uy, dami mo nang nabasted. Taas yata ng standard mo guys.

Siya : So?

Ikaw : Ano ba hinahanap mo sa guys?

Siya : (Fill here _____________________.)

Ikaw : That guy doesn't exist.

Siya : Of course he exist!

Ikaw : (Pa-innocent effect) Huh? Sino? Swerte naman nun.

Siya : His name is ___________.

Pag pangalan mo lumabas, inuman na! Pag hinde, inuman pa rin! :D

Honestly, humor her. Girls loves a guy who has a good sense of humor. What do you think Dolphy and Vic Sotto have in common?

If I were you, I'll give it more time. 6 months max. Nothing beats starting as friends, learning each other's personality before you move on to the next level.

And in my entire life, never akong nanligaw. It just fell "naturally". Gets?

Goodluck!

[OTEP]

Kung nasa UST ka, mag-EB tayo at isama mo ang girl tapos ibi-build up kita. hehehe. Nasa UST lang din ako.

Sakin, humor usually works (masayahin kasi ako). Saka try to show na interesado ka sa kanya. Ask about her, her family, etc to make her feel that you're not just playing her.

[D_rock_777]

Eto advise ko para sa yo safeorigin:

Ask her out. DO NOT ask her, "would you like to watch a movie tonight?" or anything like that. It might be too assuming for the situation. Instead, ask her like: "Samahan mo ko sa mall mamaya. May bibilhin kse ako eh." Yan! At the mall, ask her, "Tara kain tayo!". Then when you get the chance, "Tara nood tayong sine!".

If you observed, casual lahat ng lines. That's exactly the point as you want the girl to be really comfortable with you, alone. Then when you're alone, try to talk about her, like what she likes, and stuff like that. Then sundutan mo ng mga tanong like, "Ano ba gusto mo sa isang guy?". Of course, dapat maganda ang timing and place. Like walang istorbo or the likes. A good venue is a park (like Greenbelt), by the beach/sea (Harbor Square).

Then, find out if she longs to be with you. How? Appear busy at times. Find out if she misses you. How? Don't call or text her for some time. Give her the chance to miss you.

Yan! Ewan ko na lang kung di pa mapalapit loob nya sa yo! hehehe!

take this advise from the expert

samahan mo na rin ng pag punta sa bahay nila and spend time with her and her family & get acquianted with them.

[froshie1]

una pare, act normal lang. hanggang sa nakapagbaon ka na ng maraming "act normal" lalabas na lang yan.

wag mo kukulitin pero wag ka naman sobrang bagal. magaling ba humor mo? kung magaling ka dyan patawanin mo lang ng patawanin.

sa pasko bigyan mo ng bulaklak na hindi ganun kaengrande. isang rose na tama lang ang ganda. tignan mo reaction. kasi pare para sa akin ah, maski baduy ang ibigay mo pero pag gusto ka kikiligin iyon! :D

[Lucius]

Go for the kill agad (KISS HER)

[safeorigin]

lucius,
hwaw?! patay tayu dyan.

topic: done with the "act normal" phase, i think. nasa "no contact" phase na ako ngayun. bukas ko pa malalaman kung ma-mimiss ba ako o hindi. ilalagay ko na lang dito yung message nya if ever mag-text siya(i'm expecting it anyway).

[chua_riwap]

Go for the kill agad (KISS HER)

Yan ang mga move!

Ayos ka talaga Diether............

[mhelskie]

involve her family sa mga usapan nyo, that would send a message to the girl that your interest in her involves her family background which would mean that you are serious in knowing her better. Gamitin mo lang ung mga tanong sa family nya pang break ng usapan, or you could also tell something about your family(wag lang magyayabang ha?) :D

[Syuryuken]

Yan ang mga move!

Ayos ka talaga Diether............

ilang palad na kaya dumapo sa mukha ni lucius