panliligaw - need expert advice

[safeorigin]

mga sirs, pwede pong magpacoach po manligaw in less than a month(preferably 15 days)?
paki detail po ang mga suggestions and possible diskarte for that time frame.
i'm expecting EXPERT advices both from experience and the OTHER factor.

target: 5'2", medyo maputi, younger than me, medyo singkit
hunter: 5'7", kayumanggi, geeky(atleast honest), alang ride at the moment(nasa probinsya e)

[Asus700]

15 days? You need a ride

[shadow]

:megaphone: tinatawagan si lucius aka diether ocampo/dingdong dantes....

[uls]

kulang pa info dude.

ano age ng girl?

ano personality and history nung girl? (outgoing ba? gimikera? mabisyo? conservative? dami ba sya boys? dami na ba bf? who are u competiting with?)

location, location, location (madali lang ba sya puntahan? malayo? araw-araw mo ba nakakasama? bihira lang makasama?)

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hindi kaya nililigawan din yan ni lucius?

hehe

[safeorigin]

hmm... in my assesment, looks like marami na siyang nabusted saka conservative and luckily nakikipagkwetuhan naman sa akin kahit paano. di ko lang alam kung paano ko didiskartehan. location wise, mukang malapit lang from uste(since parehas kami ng school). gonna do some recon work later this evening.

[niwde11]

PM mo florida boys namely (in order of priority) hybridevo and empy. wala ka mintis dyan.

[ghosthunter]

15 days? You need a ride

actually, he might need a "proxy"

[HIFI]

Here's my 2 centavos.

Be yourself and act as you normally do. Don't be someone you're not.

Kung ayaw niya sa iyo....perhaps you're not meant for each other, and that's the end of that.

[safeorigin]

well, i do act as myself. problem is, i really do need some coaching because i haven't done it before and the girl is somewhat attached with me for about 5 months. plus, she has a clean plate when it comes to suitors as in busted lahat ng dumaan sa kanya. kaya nga kailangan ko ng matinding coach for this one.

[uls]

attached to you for 5 months na?

naku baka PRENDSHIP na ang tingin nya sau.

Kaya she "attached" herself to you coz she thinks ur different from other guys na gusto syotain sya.

U will scare her away if u make ur move dude

[Syuryuken]

attached to you for 5 months na?

naku baka PRENDSHIP na ang tingin nya sau.

Kaya she "attached" herself to you coz she thinks ur different from other guys na gusto syotain sya.

U will scare her away if u make ur move dude

nakow malamang hanggang friendship na lang yan

mas magandang subukan mo pa rin pero bakit nagmamadali kang mapasagot yung girl?

[uls]

well, ya... subukan mo parin.

no risk, no reward

[safeorigin]

well, i'm not rushing things actually. just being unrational for a moment with 15 days. tbh, i really do like her but right now, i'm just a sitting duck since i'm the classroom geek(in a cool way ofcourse) and i'm expected to be such, sigh. no moves yet at the moment though pero sabay naman kaming mag lunch to the point na meron mga chismis minsan pero being myself, alang pakealam palagi. ewan ko ba. WAAAAAA, i need help!!!

[cocoy_01]

Give her 15 letters all at once. With instructions for her to open one letter everyday.

Haven't tried this on a 15-day basis.. Hope this helps hehehehe.

[safeorigin]

sounds good. gonna try it, i think.

[mikaztro]

Rule no 1.

1. Be yourself
2. Be honest
3. Be gentle(maginno per medyo bastos)
4. Wag mayabang

and last but not the least....

5. Do not forget rules no. 1 to 4

tips:
- give her nice txt quotes
- respect her, be polite and don't be arrogant in txt or in person
- ask her to go out with you on a dinner date, gimik with friends or a cup of coffee.
- ask more about her background, to give you more ideas on her.
- when you are with her, try to listen to what she is saying and avoid interrupting her as she speaks.
- fetch/escort her from/to work or school
- give her more space and dont be too aggressive
- send her flowers thru delivery signed with your initials, to keep her guessing
- learn to like what she likes doing.
- try to help her in things that she doesn't do well.
- introduce new ideas, hobbies, things that would fancy her curiosity or bring her to nice places, but not necessarily expensive.
- dont be uptight and just be yourself.

at ang pinaka importante sa lahat, you need TSIKOT.


Good luck!

[mikaztro]

Oh and I forgot, you do have one advantage over the others...and that's what we call--PROPINQUITY to the target. Most often than not, we often fall in love with someone who is a close friend of ours simply because of PROPINQUITY.

[wren]

you said that this girl has been hanging out with you for a while now, and she's been turning down many suitors. did you ever think that maybe the reason why she's been turning 'em down is because she's waiting for you to make a move? tell her that you like her and ask her if maybe she feels the same way about you. i know one thing, if she's just waiting for you, and you don't make a move, she's not going to wait forever.

oh btw, flowers always seem to work. good luck.

[safeorigin]

problem is nasa probinsya yung tsikot ko and probably wont need it since we're within walking distance fron uste. although i admittedly want it here. well, like you said, be myself. problem is paano ko kaya didiskartehan yung first move? good tips though.

[mikaztro]

Invite her to watch a movie or school play without friends of course!