My Date's Dad Is Hitting On Me?

[Calistro]

Looks like your sense of self has been tied with this guy, maybe since your formative years?

I think you need to change a lot in your life in order to move on and get distracted. Your everyday routine, work, meet a new circle of friends, do a new hobby or heck even move out of the country. For all this worrying and anxiety he's giving you, you're wasting your life and your time. No one can help you but yourself. It's a decision that you have to stick to and stand firm with. Time to DO something. You're in analysis paralysis and stuck on it.

Just think about it before time runs out. The world is, what, 50 billion people, and to tell a bunch of strangers that you can't get rid of one guy in your life. If he was really special, then we should have heard of him in some social media feed. Or a tabloid.

Go scuba diving or skinny dipping to clear your head. Yosi will not help.

[minicarph]

*cath wants all of you to decide. You post here all judgmental and all-knowing, the guy is a bum, a late-bloomer old bum because his dad probably didnt have time for him while he grew up. and yet, he's always there when *cath needs him. He may be cruel like the movie cruel intentions but when *cath's car breaks down, he's there.

Kay o mga tiga-tsikot, would you buy an electronic air compressor worth P1000 and stock up in your car and wait til the moment when *cath needs you pag na-flat-an sya, ikaw *uls" *shadow. You post intelligent advices here but di ba dapat magpakabir na kayo ng tow hitch ngaun sa cars the moment *cath needs you to to tow her vehicle even if she's in tagaytay and say you're in SM north edsa.

You dont have that dedication that the guy has. And yet you talk here like aristotle.
If you will scold and or wanna help *cath then have that dedication the guy has.

and yes, *cath watches **** like most of you do. Do your partners arouse you when you're feeling angry or low. The guy knows *cath well and he turns into this *** monster just to please *cath. Tell me do your wives and gfs do that for you when they catch your browser history with **** stuff.

This is what *cath has . A dedicated man, an action man. Not like you who just post here thinking that you are all righteous and stuff.

Talk is cheap. Action speak louder than word.

So decide now, kayo ba ang mali o sya?



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[_Cathy_]

Well, the guy IS unemployed. He has no job to take up his time and make him too tired to drive to you.

Question. Are you even attracted to the guy? Kasi if you actually liked him diba matutuwa ka sa mga surprise visits and sasagutin mo mga tawag at text. Diba joke nga yun, na kapag gusto mo yung guy, cute yung ganoong paghahabol, pero pag di mo type, creepy. Haha.

Also, this evolution from stalking to pursuing, then verbal abuse followed by an apology to make you come back. Sounds like and episode of Criminal Minds. Orrr a domestic abuse case in any legal drama where the wife apologizes for her scumbag husband. Ang diperensya, hindi pa nga kayo ganyan na sya.

Thanks kai. It's nice to have another woman's perspective. Please don't give up on me

My ex of 5 years was also jobless but lazy to make an effort and so 50 yr old guy was relatively better. BUT my ex was never verbally abusive or manyak with me. He really respected me. He just doesn't give me as much attention as 50 yr old guy.

I never considered him in my 20s, in fact I didn't want to be seen alone with him then because he was way too old for me. But now I don't know how I feel about him. Sometimes I like him, sometimes I don't. I avoid him because I know that he will just make me manyak when he does see me and I don't like that.

There was even a time when he got mad at me because he wanted to french kiss me in public. This was at Greenbelt! And he went all mad saying in Europe everyone does that. Wala naman kami sa Europe? And he is not even my BF. I just let him give me a smack just to shut him up. I don't know what is it with him why he can convince me to do things I am uncomfortable in doing He is really the only guy who can do those things to me, the rest of the men I went out with are very respectful and would not even dare ask for those things from me. None of my BFs did that to me also.

Now I feel bad kasi na manyak na naman ako and he has not called or texted since then. He always tells me that he is there when I need him but I am never there for him. The only thing he wants in return is for me to spend time with him, but the reason I avoid him is because I know mamanyakin lang naman niya ko. Pinagbigyan ko na last Sunday because he said he will not attend my birthday if I don't see him beforehand. Now I cancelled my birthday plans with him and my friends all together because of what he did Lalo tuloy nasira.

Ever since I turned 30 he would go ballistic on me telling me I am old, fat and not even as beautiful as the women he normally dates so why the heck is he pursuing me that. Minsan natatawa ako when he goes ballistic like that but over the years I think it sunk in my subconscious.

Nakita ko rin yung evolution from 7 yrs ago (I made a thread about him) That was the first time he stole a kiss from me. Now he goes on demanding it from me. It makes me wonder if I am in an abusive relationship.

hehe

hoy good morning

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re that guy verbally abusing Cathy, those are just his psycho episodes

Cathy knows a lot about psycho episodes (hehe) kaya she tolerates him

Good morning Why do I get the feeling that you want me to end up with him?

I also go psycho on him as I expect him to respond to my text ASAP and when he doesn't I would get mad at him. He tolerates those episodes of mine.

50 Shades of Cathy

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Does he have a dungeon?



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Their house does look like a dungeon (huge adobe walls) I told him it looks like a haunted house. The house isn't well maintained, since the Mom died, all of their househelp left and they are only left with 3.

[minicarph]

Babae yun kai s. Ano yun full surname mo ms, kai. Search ko sa facebook


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[_Cathy_]

*cath wants all of you to decide. You post here all judgmental and all-knowing, the guy is a bum, a late-bloomer old bum because his dad probably didnt have time for him while he grew up. and yet, he's always there when *cath needs him. He may be cruel like the movie cruel intentions but when *cath's car breaks down, he's there.

Kay o mga tiga-tsikot, would you buy an electronic air compressor worth P1000 and stock up in your car and wait til the moment when *cath needs you pag na-flat-an sya, ikaw *uls" *shadow. You post intelligent advices here but di ba dapat magpakabir na kayo ng tow hitch ngaun sa cars the moment *cath needs you to to tow her vehicle even if she's in tagaytay and say you're in SM north edsa.

You dont have that dedication that the guy has. And yet you talk here like aristotle.
If you will scold and or wanna help *cath then have that dedication the guy has.

and yes, *cath watches **** like most of you do. Do your partners arouse you when you're feeling angry or low. The guy knows *cath well and he turns into this *** monster just to please *cath. Tell me do your wives and gfs do that for you when they catch your browser history with **** stuff.

This is what *cath has . A dedicated man, an action man. Not like you who just post here thinking that you are all righteous and stuff.

Talk is cheap. Action speak louder than word.

So decide now, kayo ba ang mali o sya?



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ULS did offer to me help me with my car problems. But I didn't want to bother him since he is from QC and I know he normally doesn't drive all the way to Makati There is also another Tsikoteer from San Juan who offered to go to me to Makati when my car broke down in the middle of Pasong tamo, he stayed with me on the phone until the mechanics arrived and gave me advise on what to have repaired. Those are things that mean so much to me and I will never forget. Mahirap kasi mag-isa lang ako sa buhay, that time my whole family was abroad. People would normally say swerte ang only child but it's far from it.

50 yr old guy is not good at *** BTW. That is probably one reason why he can't maintain relationships. He told me he has never gone down on a woman in his life. I think that says a lot. Plus what my friend told me that he is selfish in bed. That really is an issue for me because I would want to be with someone I could have *** everyday with. I've saved it for so long and would want to make the most out of it. I think if we end up together I would be very ***ually unhappy.

[uls]

Good morning Why do I get the feeling that you want me to end up with him?

I also go psycho on him as I expect him to respond to my text ASAP and when he doesn't I would get mad at him. He tolerates those episodes of mine.

haha tanghali na nagising

bagay kasi kayo

[minicarph]

Their house does look like a dungeon (huge adobe walls) I told him it looks like a haunted house. The house isn't well maintained, since the Mom died, all of their househelp left and they are only left with 3.

Kung ala-dungeon, pwede dragon, Malamang kasya elepante



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[dreamur]

What does "namanyak" mean? [emoji45]

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[minicarph]

haha tanghali na nagising

bagay kasi kayo

*uls, I just like to see you post all flirty and cute,


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[minicarph]

What does "namanyak" mean? [emoji45]

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Helo, ang galing-gaing mo hulihin si du30 tapos yan lang di mo pa maintindihan. Sus!


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[_Cathy_]

haha tanghali na nagising

bagay kasi kayo

Kayong 2 lang ni OB ang for 50 yr old guy hehehe

What does "namanyak" mean? [emoji45]

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Basta he either makes me feel harassed or used He demands physical acts from me. He says we are in a relationship but I don't think so. What kind of relationship?

I don't know how I went from being conservative to being someone's ***ual object.

[MR_BIG18]

What does "namanyak" mean? [emoji45]

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when i was in college, we called it, na pitohan...

[_Cathy_]

*uls, eto yung video

[dreamur]

Helo, ang galing-gaing mo hulihin si du30 tapos yan lang di mo pa maintindihan. Sus!


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Hindi ko talaga makuha OB. Bisaya ako like your pres. HJ or BJ ba considered as namanyak? Or fondling and petting lang?

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[MR_BIG18]

Hindi ko talaga makuha OB. Bisaya ako like your pres. HJ or BJ ba considered as namanyak? Or fondling and petting lang?

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ano ba yan? you guys trying to sound naive....

[_Cathy_]

I don't need to spell it out...

But we're not having *** though I know that is something he wants from me. He tells me I have cobwebs down there and we should be having ***.

[MR_BIG18]

I don't need to spell it out...

tama....maam we hope the best for you....charge it to experience

[dreamur]

I don't need to spell it out...

But we're not having *** though I know that is something he wants from me. He tells me I have cobwebs down there and we should be having ***.

Okay, I got it Cat. I am asking because petting, fondling, groping are just normal reactions for people who are ***ually attracted to each other. Verbal abuse is something else though, unless it turns your 50-ish friend on. He has premature ejaculation or ED issues right, so baka ung dirty talks excite him. If it does not translate to physical violence, I guess he is just after the verbal stimulation. Does he turn into a purring kitten after the release?

[_Cathy_]

Okay, I got it Cat. I am asking because petting, fondling, groping are just normal reactions for people who are ***ually attracted to each other. Verbal abuse is something else though, unless it turns your 50-ish friend on. He has premature ejaculation or ED issues right, so baka ung dirty talks excite him. If it does not translate to physical violence, I guess he is just after the verbal stimulation. Does he turn into a purring kitten after the release?

I meant verbally abusive when he calls me old, fat, expired, bitch, psycho etc. He turns into a stranger after he gets what he wants.

We saw each other Sunday, I texted him when I got home and when he did not reply, I went psycho on him and then I blocked him from calling or texting. I don't think he called yet because I checked my reject logs, wala naman and no calls at home. I got mad at him because I think he is doing to me what he did to our girl friend. He told me he was just forced to have *** with her and the reason why he has PE is because he wanted it over and done with. He said he feels the opposite way about me and feels very horny around me. He said he would not have said it if he felt the same about me and our other girl friend.

Anyway uls knows how the other girl looks like. Uls knows how we all look. She said the other girl looks typical pero 50 yr old guy says she is ugly, and yet he slept with her. He says I'm the one who really wants (because I am younger I guess and he hasn't really conquered me)

[StockEngine]

When Im are busy or preoccupied. I tend to slightly curse the disturbance... I feel like 50.. lol

Men single or married young or old will sleep around if given the chance.

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