Marrying a Single Mom

[akosijhay]

Tapos, marami ang magpo-post ng ganito sa social media..



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[akosijhay]

10 to 14 having s3x. What the hell? I was still playing with barbies my whole grade school. Kaya parents ko ayaw sa coed schools, but then again nasa tao pa rin yan. Ang maganda lang dyan, by the time they reach their 30s tapos na ng college mga anak nila while others are starting to have babies pa lang hehe

At kung mas maituro siguro ng mabuti ang s3x education, baka mas bumaba siguro ang teenage pregnancy..

[uls]

matagal naman na nangyayari ito

kahit wala covid

pinoys specially those in lower socioeconomic levels start having s#x early

wala kasi guidance ng magulang

[_Cathy_]

Tapos, marami ang magpo-post ng ganito sa social media..



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May nabasa ako sa US forum regarding that phenomenon na single Moms who feel like their being a single Mom is a prize. May threads pa nga na warning, don't date single Moms (and Dads)

[uls]

pero pagdating sa need for companionship madami lalake nangangailangan ng babae pero di papasa sa pure single girls

so next best nila is single mom

may mga kilala ako single mom dami nanliligaw

you'd think wala magkakagusto sa single mom pero the reality on the ground proves otherwise

madami kasi ineligible men needing companionship so they'd go down the value heirarchy hanggang may pumatol sa kanila

kaya it's far from end of the world for single moms who are still attractive

dami may gusto

[akosijhay]

pero pagdating sa need for companionship madami lalake nangangailangan ng babae pero di papasa sa pure single girls

so next best nila is single mom

may mga kilala ako single mom dami nanliligaw

you'd think wala magkakagusto sa single mom pero the reality on the ground proves otherwise

madami kasi ineligible men needing companionship so they'd go down the value heirarchy hanggang may pumatol sa kanila

kaya it's far from end of the world for single moms who are still attractive

dami may gusto

Kaso gaano kadami ang lalake na willing mag shoulder ng responsibility na maging instant tatay?

Karamihan ng mga kakilala ko, pag tinanong kung willing ba sila maging pangalawang tatay, hindi sila maka sagot ng diretso. Tipong "yan din pinag iisipan ko pre eh, mahirap magpa aral, mahirap ang buhay, etc.." mga madalas nila na linya.

[_Cathy_]

Kaso gaano kadami ang lalake na willing mag shoulder ng responsibility na maging instant tatay?

Karamihan ng mga kakilala ko, pag tinanong kung willing ba sila maging pangalawang tatay, hindi sila maka sagot ng diretso. Tipong "yan din pinag iisipan ko pre eh, mahirap magpa aral, mahirap ang buhay, etc.." mga madalas nila na linya.

Saka parang ang hirap ng may constant reminder ng anak ng asawa mo sa ibang lalaki

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[uls]

Kaso gaano kadami ang lalake na willing mag shoulder ng responsibility na maging instant tatay?

Karamihan ng mga kakilala ko, pag tinanong kung willing ba sila maging pangalawang tatay, hindi sila maka sagot ng diretso. Tipong "yan din pinag iisipan ko pre eh, mahirap magpa aral, mahirap ang buhay, etc.." mga madalas nila na linya.

of course madali para sa lalake magsabi ng "ayaw ko ng single mom kasi..."

pero as they chase desirable women (young, pure single) and fail.... eventually their need for companionship will overcome their high standards

when men of any age were asked what age women are most attractive...



so imagine the demand for women in their early 20s

it's unlikely that any man who wants a young, pure single woman will get one

it's not like there's an oversupply of such women

Men who can't catch such women will have to lower their standards -- move down the quality heirarchy

go for older, less attractive, even single moms

[_Cathy_]

of course madali para sa lalake magsabi ng "ayaw ko ng single mom kasi..."

pero as they chase desirable women (young, pure single) and fail.... eventually their need for companionship will overcome their high standards

when men of any age were asked what age women are most attractive...



so imagine the demand for women in their early 20s

it's unlikely that any man who wants a young, pure single woman will get one

it's not like there's an oversupply of such women

Men who can't catch such women will have to lower their standards -- move down the quality heirarchy

go for older, less attractive, even single moms

It's the younger ones yung nabuntis ng teens. Bata nga hanap ng lalaki, papatol na lang sila sa may anak e di sa bata na.

Also men who go for women young enough to be their daughter is kind of creepy and that came from the alpha males I know. Pwede siguro playtime pero ilan kilala niyo nagpapakasal sa anak na nila ang age gap

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[uls]

just look at the message requests and notifications sa fb ng mga magandang babae age 18 to 23 (let's call them class A)

sa dami they have men to burn (parang money to burn)

they can afford to ignore hundreds of men and still have dozens leftover to choose

sa dami ng lalake narereject nila pupunta mga yan sa class B

pag wala parin pumatol sa kanila pupunta mga yan sa class C

they'll keep going lower hanggang may pumatol

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may friend ako single mom in her 20s she shows me messages from suitors

andami "mahal kita" "i love you"

minsan she let me listen to a conversation on speakerphone nagdadrama ung lalake

"i miss you" "kailan tayo magkikita uli"

o diba?

a single mom yan

[ray_noel]

kaya it's far from end of the world for single moms who are still attractive

dami may gusto

Yes! I know someone na hot girl, nabuntis nung college and got married pero not the guy who got her pregnant...

Meron din girl kahit nabuntis still much better sa mga single na wala pang anak... i believe in that...

and it’s very much possible na yung single guy can still be the knight in shining armor sa mga single moms...


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[dr. d]

Yes! I know someone na hot girl, nabuntis nung college and got married pero not the guy who got her pregnant...

Meron din girl kahit nabuntis still much better sa mga single na wala pang anak... i believe in that...

and it’s very much possible na yung single guy can still be the knight in shining armor sa mga single moms...


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come to think of it,
how many of these single moms feel they are in need of knights in shining armor?

[_Cathy_]

just look at the message requests and notifications sa fb ng mga magandang babae age 18 to 23 (let's call them class A)

sa dami they have men to burn (parang money to burn)

they can afford to ignore hundreds of men and still have dozens leftover to choose

sa dami ng lalake narereject nila pupunta mga yan sa class B

pag wala parin pumatol sa kanila pupunta mga yan sa class C

they'll keep going lower hanggang may pumatol

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may friend ako single mom in her 20s she shows me messages from suitors

andami "mahal kita" "i love you"

minsan she let me listen to a conversation on speakerphone nagdadrama ung lalake

"i miss you" "kailan tayo magkikita uli"

o diba?

a single mom yan

Still, all things equal, a man would go for a young woman na walang anak. Sa barkada nga ng ex ko, asar talo yung isang nagpakasal sa single Mom. Sabi ex ko sa guy talk, men date single Moms to play around but not to marry. If you end up marrying, then you're the one who got played by the single Mom.

Of course, there will ALWAYS be exceptions. May mga single Mom na biktima lang ng pagkakataon (inosente at naloko)

[uls]

syempre nga 1st choice ng lahat ng binata dalaga

pero lahat ba ng binata end up with the girl of their dreams?

rock stars date supermodels

di lahat ng lalake rock star

sabi nga ng mga babaeng serial dater a lot of men are undateable

[uls]

dati ganyan din pananaw ko... noong college may classmate ako nabuntis everybody went like "sira na buhay niyan"

looking back wtf sobra judgemental naman...

most of them turned out fine

you have these 17/18 yr old girls having kids... by the time they're in their late 30s their kids are already in college

parang magkapatid o kabarkada lang mga anak

pwede narin maging lola... bata pa sobra dami energy mag alaga ng apo

[dr. d]

rock stars date supermodels

but what are their brake-up rates?

[uls]

but what are their brake-up rates?

well they can break up with a supermodel and date another supermodel as long as they maintain their rock star status

most men can only dream of dating supermodels

[ray_noel]

come to think of it,
how many of these single moms feel they are in need of knights in shining armor?

Perhaps, Less than those single guys who wanted to be their knight in shining shimmering churvalu kags...


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[kagalingan]

meron ako nakilala dati sa isang birthday. Sobrang tagal na mga 15years ago. Matinong babae ito pero singlemom. Hindi ko chicks, hindi ako nagattempt kasi yung nagpakilala sa akin ang mu/kafling ko. So respeto na lang at yung babae na yun pang seryosohan ang gusto so hindi ako pwede.

Pag open ko facebook lumabas sa newsfeed ko meron 7-11 cup ni bbm hahaha!!!!! Eh ang negosyo nyan skwelahan...yes meron school business hangang highschool

Halos lahat ng singlemom na kilala ko 99.9% maka bbm!!!! Ang katangi-tangi lang maka luhgaw yung kabusiness partner ko. Ilan beses na ako tinanong kung sino botohin ko eh sabi ko baka iblangko ko president.

Ano nangyari bakit walang girl power si luhgaw.

Hoootaena puro bbm mga singlemom!!!! Expect ko sana isko kaso bbm eh

[dr. d]

Halos lahat ng singlemom na kilala ko 99.9% maka bbm!!!!

care to make a guess on why?