Marrying a Single Mom

[uls]

^^^

it's sociology Doc

sociology and economics intersecting

[ray_noel]

Bakit mga kaibigan ko sa work 6 sila, average looking at the minimum at lahat CPA pero single pa rin. 3 of them SURE ako walang nanligaw in the past 10 yrs that I have known them. I think sa Pilipinas mas maraming babae sa lalaki, does anyone have stats sa born 1980-1989?

See ms cath... mga guys na nagsabi nyan sa reply nila...


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Kaya malaki chances na magkaka single si girl...


Meron din mga magagandang babae nagsasabi, “don’t be choosy if you’re not yummy!” I think they address it to all the guys but i think it’s applicable din sa mga gurls...

I had this one officemate, not pretty and not attractive, when she had her assignment sa U.K, dun lang naka kita ng guy at asawa na agad sila...

Siguro yung mga 3 CPA needs to visit outside Philippines, where they are being considered rare sa ibang bansa... [emoji3577][emoji3577][emoji3577]


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[ray_noel]

que babae que lalake,
pag 'di edukado,
limited talaga ang choices in life nila.

Uhm... meron naman di edukado na businessman...

Sa amin, madami hindi nakapg tapos ng college pero mind you, may ari ng 5 to 10 large fishing vessels hindi yung bangka.... asawa nya ngayon nurse... pero yung parents ng nurse, nurse sa U.S...

Siguro pag di edukado at di madiskarte sa buhay very limited choices nila..


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[ray_noel]

BAD NEWS for educated women in PH -- men aren't catching up

coz accessible parin ang babae

it's all about s*x

pag madali para sa lalake makahanap ng s*x di nila kailangan mag strive maging successful

konting diskarte lang may nakukuhang babae

most men go for the low hanging fruit and there are lots of low hanging fruit (in Cathy's words -- mga starlet)

ung mga prutas nasa itaas di napipitas (ung mga doctorate, masters, phd...)

if pinays demand more from men

if pinays make it hard for men to get s*x

makikita mo mag-si-aral ang mga pinoy mag PHD

hehe

Well, a percentage of that they get it from their parents... lagi sinasabi nila taposin muna pag aaral, huwag makikipag relasyon if di kayo kaayang buhayin... magandang buhay muna bago mag pamilya... so the higher they achieve the higher they set sa standards sa mga lalaki... and ending, 30s-40s hirap sila makahanap... [emoji4]


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[uls]

Well, a percentage of that they get it from their parents... lagi sinasabi nila taposin muna pag aaral, huwag makikipag relasyon if di kayo kaayang buhayin... magandang buhay muna bago mag pamilya... so the higher they achieve the higher they set sa standards sa mga lalaki... and ending, 30s-40s hirap sila makahanap... [emoji4]


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you make it sound like it's a bad thing

[dr. d]

Uhm... meron naman di edukado na businessman...

Sa amin, madami hindi nakapg tapos ng college pero mind you, may ari ng 5 to 10 large fishing vessels hindi yung bangka.... asawa nya ngayon nurse... pero yung parents ng nurse, nurse sa U.S...

Siguro pag di edukado at di madiskarte sa buhay very limited choices nila..


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there's always exceptions, po.

and there's,
"in the kingdom of the blind, he with one eye rules."

[_Cathy_]

you make it sound like it's a bad thing

IKR Instead of men being more ambitious, babae dapat wag mag achieve para madali maabot ng lalaki [emoji23]

And BTW sarili kong German VP boss, he told us to go with someone our level because we are bankers, wag daw papatol sa construction worker [emoji23] Which is true hindi naman ako nagaambition ng masyadong mataas, just someone at my level. Kung may magka gusto ng mas mataas sakin, well and good pero hindi ko requirement yan. Huwag naman totally different social class. Kaya gusto ko kausap mga Germans, they don't look down on women. And he also warned against living in kasi babae daw talo dyan, why buy the cow if the milk is free. I miss my boss [emoji24]

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[uls]

IKR Instead of men being more ambitious, babae dapat wag mag achieve para madali maabot ng lalaki [emoji23]

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haha

dapat pala sinasabi ng magulang "huy! tama na yan aral aral mag boypren ka na!"

[dr. d]

IKR Instead of men being more ambitious, babae dapat wag mag achieve para madali maabot ng lalaki [emoji23]

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girl talk.
"so, are you running away from him?"
"yes. but not too fast. i don't want him to give up just yet."

[_Cathy_]

haha

dapat pala sinasabi ng magulang "huy! tama na yan aral aral mag boypren ka na!"

Kaya nga e. We're going back centuries na ang goal lang ng babae mag asawa. Pero sa Pilipinas sino ba karamihan breadwinner, diba babae? Sa Tulfo pa lang e. Hahaha. My Spanish friends work in a prestigious international organization, they told me madami pinay staff na sila breadwinner. I almost fell off my seat. Akala ko it was only a lower class phenomenon, hindi pala! Mukhang tama sabi mo na it's a Filipino thing [emoji23]

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[dr. d]

Kaya nga e. We're going back centuries na ang goal lang ng babae mag asawa. Pero sa Pilipinas sino ba karamihan breadwinner, diba babae? Sa Tulfo pa lang e. Hahaha. My Spanish friends work in a prestigious international organization, they told me madami pinay staff na sila breadwinner. I almost fell off my seat. Akala ko it was only a lower class phenomenon, hindi pala! Mukhang tama sabi mo na it's a Filipino thing [emoji23]

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i dis-agree!
vehemently!
heh heh.

[_Cathy_]

i dis-agree!
vehemently!
heh heh.

Of course dr your field is an exception. Winner ang non doctor that gets to marry a doctor [emoji23] Halos lahat ng doctors that I know e doctor rin ang asawa.

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[uls]

Cathy check this out

PHOTOS: Teen Moms In The Philippines — A "National Emergency" : Goats and Soda : NPR

[dr. d]

Of course dr your field is an exception. Winner ang non doctor that gets to marry a doctor [emoji23] Halos lahat ng doctors that I know e doctor rin ang asawa.

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winner si... J...!

[_Cathy_]

Cathy check this out

PHOTOS: Teen Moms In The Philippines — A "National Emergency" : Goats and Soda : NPR

Wow. I can't imagine having s3x at such an early age. May 13 yrs old pa. WTF?*!? My Dad was still buying me toys at 16, he wanted me to be his baby for as long as possible (Dad really said that).

I read a study that those that have s3x early kulang sa aruga ng parents.

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[uls]

very little effort for pinoy men to get s*x so there's little motivation to achieve / become successful to be attractive to women

i can hear people ask loudly "IS IT ALL ABOUT S*X?!"

yes it is

it's biology

marriage just formalizes it and makes it look cleaner

if all women set a minimum standard like kailangan may college degree bago pwede mag s*x, halos lahat ng lalake magtatapos ng college

thing is kahit di nagtapos ng elementary nakakabuntis

Teenage pregnancy cases decline in Asia-Pacific, except in the Philippines | Coconuts Manila

[_Cathy_]

very little effort for pinoy men to get s*x so there's little motivation to achieve / become successful to be attractive to women

i can hear people ask loudly "IS IT ALL ABOUT S*X?!"

yes it is

it's biology

marriage just formalizes it and makes it look cleaner

if all women set a minimum standard like kailangan may college degree bago pwede mag s*x, halos lahat ng lalake magtatapos ng college

thing is kahit di nagtapos ng elementary nakakabuntis

Teenage pregnancy cases decline in Asia-Pacific, except in the Philippines | Coconuts Manila

Sa Japan naman ayaw na ng mga babae maging housewife.

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[dr. d]

Sa Japan naman ayaw na ng mga babae maging housewife.

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courtesy of dugout doug. and beate sirota gordon.
heh heh.

[uls]

Wow. I can't imagine having s3x at such an early age. May 13 yrs old pa. WTF?*!? My Dad was still buying me toys at 16, he wanted me to be his baby for as long as possible (Dad really said that).

I read a study that those that have s3x early kulang sa aruga ng parents.

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kaya sa social circle mo madami no boyfriend since birth 30+ na virgin pa

coz parents in your circle todo guidance sa mga anak lalo pag daughter

coz they're breeding princesses to be married off to princes

ung mula bata pa tinuruan how to be a lady

[dr. d]

kaya sa social circle mo madami no boyfriend since birth 30+ na virgin pa

coz parents in your circle todo guidance sa mga anak lalo pag daughter

coz they're breeding princesses to be married off to princes

ung mula bata pa tinuruan how to be a lady

...puro pala amazona mga babae dito sa workplace ko...