Marrying a Single Mom

[uls]

ulit ha...

maganda, well educated, high earning, wala lumiligaw -- explanation: intimidating

maganda, well educated, high earning, may lumiligaw pero wala sinasagot -- explanation: choosy

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ulit ha...

maganda, well educated, high earning, wala lumiligaw -- explanation: intimidating

maganda, well educated, high earning, may lumiligaw pero wala sinasagot -- explanation: choosy

Pangit, maarte, feeling maganda explanation: feelingera. [emoji23]


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[_Cathy_]

Pangit, maarte, feeling maganda explanation: feelingera. [emoji23]


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Inaamin ko naman na matanda, pangit at mataba ako but please don't assume na maarte at feeling maganda mga 30s na single. And I will defend my friends dahil hindi lahat ng single in their 30s are either of those 3. May kaibigan ako napakabait at ako pa nga nagsasabi itaas standard niya, kung lalaki ako ligawan ko yun, nasulot lang ng single mom yung boylet niya na buy 1 take 1. Hindi ako papatol sa buy 1 take 1, unless he is the most handsome, intelligent, successful and kind guy that it overshadows that one humongous deal breaker.

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[shadow]

Inaamin ko naman na matanda, pangit at mataba ako but please don't assume na maarte at feeling maganda mga 30s na single. And I will defend my friends dahil hindi lahat ng single in their 30s are either of those 3. May kaibigan ako napakabait at ako pa nga nagsasabi itaas standard niya, kung lalaki ako ligawan ko yun, nasulot lang ng single mom yung boylet niya.

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We are not even talking about you. Bakit mo pinasok sarili mo saka office friends mo sa conversation? We are talking in general and Yun mga babae sa post na nakikita ni Kags sa FB pinag-uusapan.


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[_Cathy_]

masyado career-oriented ayaw pa mag asawa

Gusto na mag asawa pero walang bf

diba ineexplain bakit single parin sila?

ang explanation nga choosy sila

wala naman nagsasabi ibaba nila standard nila at pumatol sa tambay

if they wanna wait for a handsome 45 yr old CEO lumigaw sa kanila then wait

We all know naman that a SINGLE 40 something CEO is a needle in a haystack. Hindi naman yan ang hanap nila, I know these girls and we have girl talk. Kahit man lang level nila. Ang problema madami lang talagang pinoy na underachiever or tamad. I'd date a guy who has a stable corporate job. Asan? Wala ako nakikilala since I turned 30. Mid20s pa nga lang bihira na. I know a few single guys now, mga pursuing their passion/hobbies. Where is the stability there?

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[_Cathy_]

We are not even talking about you. Bakit mo pinasok sarili mo saka office friends mo sa conversation? We are talking in general and Yun mga babae sa post na nakikita ni Kags sa FB pinag-uusapan.


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Because I'm also single and you guys assume na pangit or maarte or feelingera mga wala pang asawa

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[dr. d]

Gusto na mag asawa pero walang bf

We all know naman that a SINGLE 40 something CEO is a needle in a haystack.

i personally know of a number of these.
they light up pretty well in our haystack.

an accomplished female breathes a rarefied atmosphere.
up there, there are few choices.
and there are even fewer applicants.
because up there, the men are usually already un-available.

[shadow]

Because I'm also single and you guys assume na pangit or maarte or feelingera mga wala pang asawa

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Not because single ka eh ikaw yun pinag uusap, of course iba't-ibang circumstances every girl.

Pero majority yun ang dahilan. Kahit anong pangit ng babae meron papatol kung hinde maging mapili.


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[_Cathy_]

i personally know of a number of these.
they light up pretty well in our haystack.

an accomplished female breathes a rarefied atmosphere.
up there, there are few choices.
and there are even fewer applicants.
because up there, the men are usually already un-available.

Kaya mas mabilis maka asawa mga starlet. Madami nga single na female doctors

I have friends who would rather be mistress to married accomplished men that gf sa mga failure to launch...

Not because single ka eh ikaw yun pinag uusap, of course iba't-ibang circumstances every girl.

Pero majority yun ang dahilan. Kahit anong pangit ng babae meron papatol kung hinde maging mapili.


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Hindi ko naman sinabi ako, inexample ko lang dahil hindi ako agree sa generalization niyo.

Kung langit at lupa ang difference talagang meron but I guess that goes both ways.

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[dr. d]

Madami nga single na female doctors

k

joke (only):

sang medical specialty ang may pinaka-maraming single doctors?
pedia and ob-gyne.
the age-eligible costumers are almost always already taken.

[uls]

We are not even talking about you. Bakit mo pinasok sarili mo saka office friends mo sa conversation? We are talking in general and Yun mga babae sa post na nakikita ni Kags sa FB pinag-uusapan.


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onga eh

we're not talking about Cathy

[uls]

Gusto na mag asawa pero walang bf

kaya i was explaining nga bakit wala bf

1 - ung maganda na wala lumiligaw

2 - ung maganda na may lumiligaw pero wala sinasagot

ano ba nangyayari sayo you're taking this too personally

[uls]

Gusto na mag asawa pero walang bf

We all know naman that a SINGLE 40 something CEO is a needle in a haystack. Hindi naman yan ang hanap nila, I know these girls and we have girl talk. Kahit man lang level nila. Ang problema madami lang talagang pinoy na underachiever or tamad. I'd date a guy who has a stable corporate job. Asan? Wala ako nakikilala since I turned 30. Mid20s pa nga lang bihira na. I know a few single guys now, mga pursuing their passion/hobbies. Where is the stability there?

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oo madami pinoy men underachiever

know why?

una, in other asian cultures, if a guy isn't rich/successful mahihirapan siya mag hanap ng asawa

for example in some Asian cities, if you're a single guy without your own flat, you're not gonna get a girlfriend let alone get married

so there's pressure on men to become successful

So WHY are pinoy men underachievers?

coz it doesn't take much for pinoy men to get a girlfriend

[uls]

in pinoy society, kahit tambay nakaka asawa

kahit kariton lang ang bahay may asawa diba?

nakakita ka na ba ng pamilya nakatira sa kariton?

my point is the bar is set pretty low for a pinoy man to get a partner

so there's no pressure to strive unlike in other asian cultures

kaya madami underachiever

[uls]

kaya madami single na babae sa HK, Taiwan, Singapore etc

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nabanggit ko sa isang thread how you solve overpopulation

you educate your citizens

specially women when they're well educated they raise their standards that's why sa mga mayaman na bansa mababa ang birth rate

it's proven

kahit dito sa Pinas mga mataas ang pinag aralan they postpone dating/getting married marriage

[dr. d]

getting married is like drugs and alcohol.
to some folks, they see it as a solution.
to others, it is a hindrance to their objectives in life.

[uls]

eto pansin mo sa poor societies

like the lower caste in India

like the lower socioeconomic classes in PH

ang babaeng pag di edukado di nila alam worth nila

tanggap nila na ang duty nila sa buhay is to provide s*x to the husband and take care of the husband and kids

like their mothers before them, and grandmothers and great grandmothers...

it's basically biology

PERO... when women are educated their eyes open and they realize hindi lang ganyan ang buhay

so standards go up and a country's birth rate drops

get it?

[dr. d]

que babae que lalake,
pag 'di edukado,
limited talaga ang choices in life nila.

[uls]

BAD NEWS for educated women in PH -- men aren't catching up

coz accessible parin ang babae

it's all about s*x

pag madali para sa lalake makahanap ng s*x di nila kailangan mag strive maging successful

konting diskarte lang may nakukuhang babae

most men go for the low hanging fruit and there are lots of low hanging fruit (in Cathy's words -- mga starlet)

ung mga prutas nasa itaas di napipitas (ung mga doctorate, masters, phd...)

if pinays demand more from men

if pinays make it hard for men to get s*x

makikita mo mag-si-aral ang mga pinoy mag PHD

hehe

[dr. d]

BAD NEWS for educated women in PH -- men aren't catching up

coz accessible parin ang babae

it's all about s*x

pag madali para sa lalake makahanap ng s*x di nila kailangan mag strive maging successful

konting diskarte lang may nakukuhang babae

most men go for the low hanging fruit and there are lots of low hanging fruit (in Cathy's words -- mga starlet)

ung mga prutas nasa itaas di napipitas (ung mga doctorate, masters, phd...)

if pinays demand more from men

if pinays make it hard for men to get s*x

makikita mo mag-si-aral ang mga pinoy mag PHD

hehe

...where'd you get all this stuff?
i mean,
i didn't think this while i was growing up...