maiksi lang ang buhay... mangaliwa?

[ClaNker]

A woman marries a man hoping that her undying love would change him...

A man marries a woman hoping that she will not change...

Both will be terribly disappointed....

Naku ang daming guilty na babae sa ganyan. Ang daming matinong nanliligaw abay dun pa na inlove sa tarantado, akala eh mababago nya yung lalake.

[ClaNker]

It's more of the gap between stimulus and response. Hindi mawawala yung stimulus bro, and instinct will always make you want to pounce the next fine lady you see on the street. But that's why it takes a lot of effort to ignore those urges and turn the other way.

Curiously though, for those who regularly cheat on their wives, how do you justify that it's okay?

Habitual womanizer na yang tinutukoy mo, walang excuse dyan.

[donbuggy]

Uulitin ko lang po mga bros,- sampu lang ang utos na nakaukit sa tableta ni Moses...

Iyong pang labing-isa pataas,- kathang-isip lang ito nating mga tao...

tatlong tableta daw yun ser.

inihulog ni moses yung pangatlo kasi dalawa lang daw kaya niyang bitbitin.

Walandyo bro.,- hindi ko naisip na mayroong pangatlong tableta ha?!... :hysterical:

Kailangan palang makabalik ng KSA at galugarin ang (biblical) Mt. Sinai para sa pangatlong tableta...

I saw that in a movie. :bwahaha:

[SkyFlakes88]

Masyadong mataas ang standard ng Dyos that no man will be save by his own merit but by His grace alone. Yan ang primary reason kaya parati kong sinasabi na wag magpaka santo at lawakan ang pang intindi dahil lahat tayo ay guilty by His standard.

Sir tama lang po na magpaka santo because GOD wants us to be Saints. If we just TRY we would eventually make lesser mistakes/sins. It is in TRYING that we get our merits in the EYES OF GOD. It's a process sir. If we always commit the same sin in the end we will overcome it eventually. Practice makes perfect. GOD knows we all are weak but HE wants us to TRY to defeat our weaknesses and the works of the devil. So we must prove ourselves even in small ways that we are TRYING to live the life GOD wants us to live and HOPE that GOD'S MERCY AND GRACE would be granted to us.

[Ry_Tower]

Bro- Sabi ng Basta Huwag kang aamin!!!

Oo naman, tsaka may rape na din nang lalaki ngayon eh. RA8353.

[SkyFlakes88]

Habitual womanizer na yang tinutukoy mo, walang excuse dyan.

Sir kahit po habit na or minsan lang it is the same kind of sin. We who commits this sin and other sins have no excuse because we know what we are doing. That is why there is confession and repentance so that we may again be redeemed and overcome sin. We should always say to ourselves that we must be a better person today than we were yesterday.

Maigsi nga po ang buhay sir bakit po natin pipiliin gumawa nang kasalanan di po ba? Gusto po ba natin ma impiyerno? Habang buhay pa po tayo ituwid na natin ang atin mga sarili para kahit paano may pagasa po tayong mapalangit.[emoji106]

[Newcomer123]

If your wife's also your best friend, you won't even dare call that service.

"Hell hath no fury lke a woman scorned" is so gaddamn true. So I'd rather have this living Paradise on earth. ^^

[Juan Martinez]

Oo naman, tsaka may rape na din nang lalaki ngayon eh. RA8353.

may marital rape din bro, and there's the rub. yung family code natin nagsabi na obligasyon ng mag-asawa to live together. of course, living together includes making love. also, by natural law, one of the reasons of marriage is procreation to give subtance to the scripture that says "go to the world and multiply." kung ayaw ni misis and you force the issue that's rape. rape in general is ***ual intercourse with a woman against her will. obligation nga eh but why marital rape pa! *** is a physiological need. we all need it. this law unintentionally promotes cheating.

[Juan Martinez]

is engaging the services by the husband or the wife of a prostitute an act of cheating?
for example, yung husband for one reason or another naging impotent, at si wife, because this thing is a physiological need, engaged the services of a manwhore, is that cheating? or itong si husband, his wife is afflicted with a malady that prevents ***, kumuha ng por kilo, is that cheating?

[_Cathy_]

is engaging the services by the husband or the wife of a prostitute an act of cheating?
for example, yung husband for one reason or another naging impotent, at si wife, because this thing is a physiological need, engaged the services of a manwhore, is that cheating? or itong si husband, his wife is afflicted with a malady that prevents ***, kumuha ng por kilo, is that cheating?

Hindi kaya mabuhay ng walang ***? May sakit na nga spouse makapagiisip pa ng ***? There are women that got widowed in their 40s and never engaged in a relationship after the husband's death.

[Juan Martinez]

Hindi kaya mabuhay ng walang ***? May sakit na nga spouse makapagiisip pa ng ***? There are women that got widowed in their 40s and never engaged in a relationship after the husband's death.

i know some people. but for purposes of discussion, is it still cheating when the other party considers the whole thing but a business transaction, that is, "nothing personal, it's just business"? ☺

[CLAVEL3699]

Sir kahit po habit na or minsan lang it is the same kind of sin. We who commits this sin and other sins have no excuse because we know what we are doing. That is why there is confession and repentance so that we may again be redeemed and overcome sin. We should always say to ourselves that we must be a better person today than we were yesterday.

Maigsi nga po ang buhay sir bakit po natin pipiliin gumawa nang kasalanan di po ba? Gusto po ba natin ma impiyerno? Habang buhay pa po tayo ituwid na natin ang atin mga sarili para kahit paano may pagasa po tayong mapalangit.[emoji106]

bakit bro nakapunta kana ba sa impyerno?

Sa susunod na may nag call visit sa akin mga sales manager na babae maglalagay ako nang BIBLE sa lamesa ko. Bwahahaha!

[CLAVEL3699]

May kaibigan ako pwede ding sabihin na mentor ko sya sa field namin. VP sya sa isang multinational company.

Ngayon nas 54 yrs old na sya napabayaan ang katawan may tyan na tapos mukha na syang matanda dahil siguro sa stress sa trabaho at sa mga anak nya.

Good Provider sya sa pamilya nya at sa pamilya nang asawa nya, lahat yun suportado nya. Mapagmahal na ama at asawa dahil wala syang bisyo... sugal, alak o babae wala ni isa.

Ang problem lang nung tumanda na mga anak nya naging mga pasaway dahil ang asawa nya ay hindi marunong mag-alaga dahil katwiran nagtrabaho din daw sya, ang asawa nya hindi din sya maasikaso dahil sobrang daming extra na activity sa buhay. Kung baga pagdating nang bahay mag isa sya.

Tumaba ang asawa nya as in mataba paggabi daw magkatabi sila at pinagpawisan dahil minsan patay ang aircon hindi daw kagandahan ang amoy.

Nagkaroon sya nang bagong secretary... may anak na pero walang asawa, maganda at ***y higit sa lahat sobra daw lambing sa kanya. Hindi daw nya akalain magkahulogan sila nang loob at napunta sa relasyon. Laki nang pinagbago nya nagGYM na sya at nagkaroon nang VIGOR ang pagkakalalaki nya.

Pero ang madalas namin payo sa kanya na kung kailan sya tumanda saka sya nagloko pero kung kami ang iintindi sa kalagayan nya hindi nya kasalanan bakit sya nakapagloko dahil walang suporta ang pamilya nya sa kanya. Hanggang ngayon daw walang paki ang asawa nya dahil masyado abala sa extra activity nya.

Yung mga anak nya... wala din daw dead ma.

[SkyFlakes88]

is engaging the services by the husband or the wife of a prostitute an act of cheating?
for example, yung husband for one reason or another naging impotent, at si wife, because this thing is a physiological need, engaged the services of a manwhore, is that cheating? or itong si husband, his wife is afflicted with a malady that prevents ***, kumuha ng por kilo, is that cheating?

Yes sir i consider it as cheating because when you married. You both promised that for rich or poor and sickness and health you will serve and stick with each other work it out no matter what.

With GOD po kasi wala tayong ilulusot po.[emoji4]

[confused shoes]

Quote Originally Posted by Juan Martinez View Post
is engaging the services by the husband or the wife of a prostitute an act of cheating?

Mayroon akong kakilala. Pinapayagan ang mister na gumawa nyan. Nagkakaintindihan sila basta ginagampanan ni mister kung ano ang nararapat para sa kanyaang pamilya. Ayaw na daw kasi ng misis nya.

[SkyFlakes88]

bakit bro nakapunta kana ba sa impyerno?

Sa susunod na may nag call visit sa akin mga sales manager na babae maglalagay ako nang BIBLE sa lamesa ko. Bwahahaha!

Hindi pa sir at ayaw kong mapunta dun. It's a choice each of us have to make. We were given the gift of free will. Mahirap dun sa impiyerno. Forever ka dun e. Umaapoy lagi. Puro pahirap walang ginhawa [emoji4] tiisin ko na dito habang buhay pa at hingi tawad baka sakaling mapatawad at mapa langit po.

Pag may takot po tayo sa DIYOS d po tayo gagawa nang kasalanan kasi sir. Kung ipapakita siguro sa atin ang impiyerno at ang mga nakatira dun pati nangyayari sa mga nandoon malamang lahat tayo d na gagawa nang kasalanan.[emoji4]

[Walter]

It's more of the gap between stimulus and response. Hindi mawawala yung stimulus bro, and instinct will always make you want to pounce the next fine lady you see on the street. But that's why it takes a lot of effort to ignore those urges and turn the other way.

Curiously though, for those who regularly cheat on their wives, how do you justify that it's okay?

Treat it like eating out instead of home cooked meal.

[CVT]

At di

Ba't sabi

Ng mga

Matatanda ingat

Lang tayong

Mga bata

Kagandahan tulad

Ng suwerte

Nawawala....

[Walter]

Masyadong mataas ang standard ng Dyos that no man will be save by his own merit but by His grace alone. Yan ang primary reason kaya parati kong sinasabi na wag magpaka santo at lawakan ang pang intindi dahil lahat tayo ay guilty by His standard.

It's like being apprehended by a traffic enforcer. There's always a violation.

[CVT]

Mayroon akong kakilala. Pinapayagan ang mister na gumawa nyan. Nagkakaintindihan sila basta ginagampanan ni mister kung ano ang nararapat para sa kanyaang pamilya. Ayaw na daw kasi ng misis nya.

I also know a couple like that....

Marriage is two-street and dual roles

Wife and Mother
And
Husband and Father....

And, not Or...

Kahit logic gates, it is the same principle...