Unfortunately, that isn't the case in most circles. It's not even limited to the lower income classes of society. Heck, the richest guy I know is also a philanderer. Ganyan din dahilan niya, kesyo good provider naman. But when I talk to his wife, alam mong hindi okay sa kanya yung ganung setup.
Totoo rin na mas madalas yung mga older folk yung may side trip. Favorite inuman topic nila yan, kahit daw may edad na, matinik pa. These are prominent businessmen ah. Basta daw ang inuuwian nila yung asawa nila, ok lang.
But I'm sure that there are still good men out there - most of the people I look up to are middle-aged men, and as far as I know they're loyal to their wives. At the very least, hindi nila ibinabandera yung kalokohan nila kung may nagawa man sila. And they certainly don't think more girls = more of a man.
Anyway, kanya kanyang buhay naman yan. We all have different views on different things and this is one of them. It's not like one's views will change because of a faceless forum entity.
Sabi ng matandang taga Pangasinan, kung babae daw ang humahabol, huwag mo raw tatanggihan kung ayaw mong makulam.
Matthew 5:28
But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Aber, sinong hindi guilty ng adultery dito sa mga guys, raise your d!ck.
It's more of the gap between stimulus and response. Hindi mawawala yung stimulus bro, and instinct will always make you want to pounce the next fine lady you see on the street. But that's why it takes a lot of effort to ignore those urges and turn the other way.
Curiously though, for those who regularly cheat on their wives, how do you justify that it's okay?
Last edited by jut703; July 4th, 2015 at 01:03 AM.
Basta ako pag may lumapit inuunahan ko na "miss wag mo ko ngitian Marupok ako" hehehe