maiksi lang ang buhay... mangaliwa?

[RomeoAlpha]

I know what it's like to have meaningless *** with other people, and though it feels good to just feel the rush and give it to your instincts, at the end of the day it feels very empty and I wouldn't trade it for a meaningful long term relationship.

I think there's some truth to the saying that those who got around before they got married are in a better position to stay faithful since they already know that the grass isn't really greener on the other side.

sir sorry, natawa lang ako sa meaningless ***. baka makahanap ka ng ka*** na maymeaning din at kalimutan mo long term relationship. hihihihi. peace.

[chua_riwap]

BTT: isang tip lang wag mong lapitan ang tukso, once lumapit ka malamang mag-iinit ka

Agree.
& Pag tukso naman lumalapit sa iyo, labanan mo, kayanin mo...at daanin mo sa dasal. Now, kung mapilit at makulit yung tukso, yumuko ka at taimtim na magdasal.
"Lord.....pumikit ka na, tirahin ko na ito."

[ClaNker]

i may not be a faithful husband but i am a good provider and a loving father to my wife and 2 kids....

Ofw ka bro?

[jut703]

Kung talagang di nyo kaya iwasan, wag lang ipaglandakan...

Unfortunately, that isn't the case in most circles. It's not even limited to the lower income classes of society. Heck, the richest guy I know is also a philanderer. Ganyan din dahilan niya, kesyo good provider naman. But when I talk to his wife, alam mong hindi okay sa kanya yung ganung setup.

Totoo rin na mas madalas yung mga older folk yung may side trip. Favorite inuman topic nila yan, kahit daw may edad na, matinik pa. These are prominent businessmen ah. Basta daw ang inuuwian nila yung asawa nila, ok lang.

But I'm sure that there are still good men out there - most of the people I look up to are middle-aged men, and as far as I know they're loyal to their wives. At the very least, hindi nila ibinabandera yung kalokohan nila kung may nagawa man sila. And they certainly don't think more girls = more of a man.

Anyway, kanya kanyang buhay naman yan. We all have different views on different things and this is one of them. It's not like one's views will change because of a faceless forum entity.

[SkyFlakes88]

I am happy too. I am also proud of the men in my family. My Mom prays that I marry a good man like my Dad. But she told me not to look for someone like my Dad because he is one of a kind. Makes me teary eyed. I want a love like that My Dad is my idol.

Don't worry ma'am Cathy you will find the right man for you. Your Dad is not one of a kind. Few but not extinct. Most are already taken but there's still some out there.[emoji4]

[jut703]

sir sorry, natawa lang ako sa meaningless ***. baka makahanap ka ng ka*** na maymeaning din at kalimutan mo long term relationship. hihihihi. peace.

Deins bruh. It sounds cheesy and idealistic, but it's really different if you do it with someone you love vs someone you just met (no matter how hot she is). Kahit nga kabarkada mo and close kayo, iba pa rin yung pakiramdam.

[monty_GTV]

Ofw ka bro?

yes bro...

[ClaNker]

yes bro...

Well in that case enjoy mo lang bro basta pag nasa Pinas eh si one and only lang dapat.

[beginnerz]

i may not be a faithful husband but i am a good provider and a loving father to my wife and 2 kids....

Parang ganyan yung lahat ng nakilala ko na naging ofw hehe

[beginnerz]

parehas tayo! ganyan din ako magisip nung bata ako kaya ngayon peytpul ako kay wife.

ah oo nga pala, pre kasi alam mo...
sino ba yang nasa avatar mo?

paki pm yung number tia!

Ok lang ba syo bro maski tira tira lang? [emoji13]

[CVT]

Remorseful sobra kami lalo na kapag nahuli.

Bro- Sabi ng Basta Huwag kang aamin!!!

[CVT]

Agree.
& Pag tukso naman lumalapit sa iyo, labanan mo, kayanin mo...at daanin mo sa dasal. Now, kung mapilit at makulit yung tukso, yumuko ka at taimtim na magdasal.
"Lord.....pumikit ka na, tirahin ko na ito."

Ayan ka na naman bro!!!! :hysterical:

[CVT]

This is what my Mom tells me. You will never really know until you are married. It helps to pray to marry a good person. Minsan the family can also be an indicator ( father babaero, business is unethical, sibling addict etc)

I do believe there are men not capable of cheating.

swerte si esmi mo sayo preng jut. pero dehins mo malalaman ugali ng tao.

ugali ng tao nababago yan at nagbabago yan.

ang pinakamahirap pa diyan yung taong madali kang mapaniwala at magaling magpanggap.

marami akong kilala na mabait sa pamilya nila pero sira-ulo sa labas. meron namang sira-ulo sa pamilya
niya pero mabait sa labas.

A woman marries a man hoping that her undying love would change him...

A man marries a woman hoping that she will not change...

Both will be terribly disappointed....

[confused shoes]

Sabi ng matandang taga Pangasinan, kung babae daw ang humahabol, huwag mo raw tatanggihan kung ayaw mong makulam.

[dreamur]

:D ito bro: concubinage is committed by any husband who shall (1) keep a mistress in the conjugal dwelling, or, shall (2) have ***ual intercourse, under scandalous circumstances, with a woman who is not his wife, or shall (3) cohabit with her in any other place.
so, kung dalhin mo sa biglang liko parang di yata concubinage.

Ay hindj ako guilty nyan bro. Under those 3 circumstances, lalaki kasama ko so hindi un concubinay! Ahahayyy!

[dreamur]

Matthew 5:28
But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Aber, sinong hindi guilty ng adultery dito sa mga guys, raise your d!ck.

[jut703]

Matthew 5:28
But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Aber, sinong hindi guilty ng adultery dito sa mga guys, raise your d!ck.

It's more of the gap between stimulus and response. Hindi mawawala yung stimulus bro, and instinct will always make you want to pounce the next fine lady you see on the street. But that's why it takes a lot of effort to ignore those urges and turn the other way.

Curiously though, for those who regularly cheat on their wives, how do you justify that it's okay?

[NightRock]

Basta ako pag may lumapit inuunahan ko na "miss wag mo ko ngitian Marupok ako" hehehe

[saluyet]

It's not justifiable sir jut. In any way, form or manner...

[ClaNker]

Matthew 5:28
But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Aber, sinong hindi guilty ng adultery dito sa mga guys, raise your d!ck.

Masyadong mataas ang standard ng Dyos that no man will be save by his own merit but by His grace alone. Yan ang primary reason kaya parati kong sinasabi na wag magpaka santo at lawakan ang pang intindi dahil lahat tayo ay guilty by His standard.