Long Distance Relationships

[BoEinG_747]

hmmm...i just got myself into one and we're almost done with the first month! whew! ang tagal pala...sobra...but she calls me almost everyday and sometimes we talk for hours like she's just here!

i don't want to expect from this kind of setup but if it works, it sure is gonna be good and i sure am glad to see that some people are being able to handle it properly; i hope i can too...let's see...

depende talaga sa mag partner iyan ..goodluck sir beetols

[cokyi]

We've been going on for almost a year. And yes, parang nandito lang din, we talk all the time mapa-ym, skype, or what. Tawag with webcam, tawag sa landline, sa cell. Only difference nito is yun nga, no contact. But LDRs shouldn't be dismissed as something that's a notch below geographically close relationships in terms of intensity.

[yage]

mahirap ang long distance relationship.. katunayan nag braek na kami ng gf ko, nito lang oct. 23, kasi hindi daw niya kaya... eh halos araw araw, tumatawag ako sa kanya,.. kaya mahaba habang inuman to, pag uwi ko...:drunk: :drunk: :drunk:

[dazedchiq]

pasensya na kayo guys, ha... i'm just wondering lang kung ano ang masasabi nyo and kung ano gagawin nyo kapag nasa ganitong situation kayo. thanks!

high school friends kami (not really close, but same circle of friends & higher batch cya). nung nasa college na ako, nagkita kami for a few times which is unlikely to happen kasi we were not that close para bisitahin nya ako sa bahay ng biglaan at walang occasion. anyway, kwento kwento kung ano na nangyayari samen dalawa hanggang sa napunta sa subject ng HS. it turns out na he liked me (i also had a small crush sa kanya) noon pero wala lang naging chance para magpa-cute cya (hehehe...) kasi niligawan ako ng ibang friends nya hanggang sa may naging bf ako sa circle of friends namin. wala din nangyari nung nagkita kami ulit after nya bumisita kasi may gf pa cya nun and nde ko na cya mashado na-entertain kasi i was not that interested in him during that time anymore.

after a few months, he went to the US to work (magkikita dapat kami pero nde ko sya sinipot kasi sobrang sama ko lang tlgang tao nun. hehehe). we started talking again recently sa chat and minsan, tumatawag cya sa bahay. nde ko matandaan kung paano napunta sa ganito ang usapan namin, pero sabi nya, may gusto pa rin daw cya sakin until now after all these years. ayaw daw nya manligaw right now kasi gusto nya magstart "officially" kapag naka-bisita na cya dito sa pinas (which is very soon) para magkasama tlga kami and then we'll see where it would lead us into na lang.

ngayon, parang steady lang kami, he's not dating anyone, wala naman nanliligaw saken ngayon pero we can still see other people if we want kasi hindi namain kami, dba?

so, ano ang tingin nyo? kasi after nya mag-bakasyon dito, balik ulit sa US dahil sa work...

[nitrox]

well, you should think where your relationship with him might lead to given your long-distance situation. you can go steady with him, but will you be truly happy with him not being around you? will you truly get to know him considering your limited means of communication? can you be satisfied in a relationship where he can just visit you several times a year?

from experience, my previous long-distance relationships never really prospered beyond the going-steady stage. it takes a lot of work (and a lot of $$$) to keep it going. it came to a point where we both needed to be physically together, not just a phone call away.

if i were you, id think hard before letting his 'advances' go any further. this way it will be fair for both of you. ibang usapan kc kung temporary ung work nya sa US. madami pang factors na dapat i-consider dito but my advice is - think long-term, lola. :D

[empy]

hit it and quit it!

on a serious note, it's great that he's still committed after all the years and life changes. shows you that he's not a flash in the pan. but this thread is good enough proof that LDR's suck. if you think there's a good chance you'll be together after awhile, then it might be worth it. but, if as my Magic 8-Ball says, "future is uncertain", then don't waste your time.

[tsupermario]

absence makes the heart grow fonder... it'll positively drive you crazy

LDR's suck.

amen!!

[GlennSter]

it sucks...but with the right amount of committment...kayang kaya.

[empy]

the moment that LDR's suddenly become a good idea is the same moment that someone figures out how to have real :***: through a T1 line :bwahaha:

[GlennSter]

the moment that LDR's suddenly become a good idea is the same moment that someone figures out how to have real :***: through a T1 line :bwahaha:

introduce me to some south american chic then ill forget this ldr sh!t. hahahah..kidding