Long Distance Relationships

[roninblade]

masnakakainis pa kasi ngayon lang ako naging ganito. ganto ba ang selos? grr... ayoko tlga ng ganitong feeling!

first time ka pa lang na-insecure sa relationship?
mukhang seryosohan na talaga yan kung ganun.

[dazedchiq]

tapos kapag ang tagal nya mag-online kung ano ano na naiisip ko... una, magaalala ako kasi baka kung ano nangyari... tapos naiisip ko na baka may ginagawa na hindi ko gusto... tapos magagalit nako kapag hindi manlang magrereply na busy cya or whatever excuse kung bakit hindi pa cya online.

pero hindi ko cya boyfriend. nde din kami MU. sabi lang nya go with the flow.

iniisip ko na baka kaya ako parang napapraning kasi siya lang ang naging ganon saken din. go with the flow?! ako madalas nagsasabi nyan, eh. bad trip. feeling ko naiisahan ako ng lalakeng ito, para akong napapaikot!!!

[jvm13]

mahirap talaga..

[wildthing]

...iniisip ko na baka kaya ako parang napapraning kasi siya lang ang naging ganon saken din. go with the flow?! ako madalas nagsasabi nyan, eh. bad trip. feeling ko naiisahan ako ng lalakeng ito, para akong napapaikot!!!

Ang tawag dyan ay KARMA...hehehe....nakahanap ka ng katapat.

Go with the flow and enjoy it dapat...believe me when I tell you, you would cherish remembering this events of your life...someday when you grow a littler older and wiser....hehehe

Enjoy!!!

[dazedchiq]

well, i'm sort of going with the flow... nde naman cya ang nagpapaikot ng mundo ko, eh. wait till somebody rocks my world. nako, yan ang talagang karma. hahaha...

[wildthing]

rock your world...just wait and see....baka siya gumawa nun "rock your world"...anyway just enjoy it....you're only young once in this lifetime....how I miss my college days...

[BoEinG_747]

subukan mo divert isip mo sa ibang tao ,at pag sia pa din ang hinahanap mo ..naku po ..inlove na talaga ang lola

[slamtaz]

kabayan dazedchiq, if i may give my unsolicited advice... try to sort out your priorities in life and since sinabi mong hindi naman kayo, then you shouldn't be that much affected by how he is treating you.. when things fall into its proper places, it is then that you will have to decide whether you need to re-arrange your priorities in life.. :question:

[dazedchiq]

kabayan dazedchiq, if i may give my unsolicited advice... try to sort out your priorities in life and since sinabi mong hindi naman kayo, then you shouldn't be that much affected by how he is treating you.. when things fall into its proper places, it is then that you will have to decide whether you need to re-arrange your priorities in life.. :question:

thanks for the advice!

[Imau]

tapos kapag ang tagal nya mag-online kung ano ano na naiisip ko... una, magaalala ako kasi baka kung ano nangyari... tapos naiisip ko na baka may ginagawa na hindi ko gusto... tapos magagalit nako kapag hindi manlang magrereply na busy cya or whatever excuse kung bakit hindi pa cya online.

pero hindi ko cya boyfriend. nde din kami MU. sabi lang nya go with the flow.

iniisip ko na baka kaya ako parang napapraning kasi siya lang ang naging ganon saken din. go with the flow?! ako madalas nagsasabi nyan, eh. bad trip. feeling ko naiisahan ako ng lalakeng ito, para akong napapaikot!!!

sorry to tell you ma'am but based on your above post, he's rocking your wolrd right now...since this is your first time na makatagpo ng ganitong lalake (alpha male), aminin mo man o hinde you are very attracted to him right now.

[dazedchiq]

i guess i am... tried diverting my attention to another person, but at the end of the day, naiisip ko if he's doing ok...

[Imau]

i guess i am... tried diverting my attention to another person, but at the end of the day, naiisip ko if he's doing ok...

attraction is not a choice...kaya kahit kanino mo idivert attention mo e sya pa din iisipin mo. let me guess, you're always hoping na he calls you, sms you or e-mail you and then pag wala naiinis ka! if the answer is yes! nakow ateng tinamaan ka na ng matindi

[jayvee22]

for me, both of you should really work on it if you truly love each other. syempre maraming temptations/trials na darating sa buhay nyo pero kung mahal nyo talaga ang isa't isa ... NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.
Marami na ngayong paraan to communicate -- chat, may webcam at voice calls pa.
May kasabihan nga tayo : "Kung ayaw, madaming dahilan. Kung gusto, maraming paraan."

[BoEinG_747]

attraction is not a choice...kaya kahit kanino mo idivert attention mo e sya pa din iisipin mo. let me guess, you're always hoping na he calls you, sms you or e-mail you and then pag wala naiinis ka! if the answer is yes! nakow ateng tinamaan ka na ng matindi

malamang nga

[RMean]

mahirap yang ganyan.. hindi mo alam kung ano mga ginagawa nia dun.. saka kailangan sobrang laki ng tiwala mo sa kanya

[dazedchiq]

attraction is not a choice...kaya kahit kanino mo idivert attention mo e sya pa din iisipin mo. let me guess, you're always hoping na he calls you, sms you or e-mail you and then pag wala naiinis ka! if the answer is yes! nakow ateng tinamaan ka na ng matindi

yes, you're right. cya pa rin naiisip ko and i get mad when i don't hear from him when i should be expecting even a simple message. cyempre, i give the weekends to him para naman may space cya.

nagiging demanding na ata ako, eh. like this morning, uminit ulo ko kasi nde nya ako kinausap, ang reason naman nya is that he was so tired, pwede siya mag-collapse sa pagod daw since daretso siya sa work after getting back from las vegas. he didn't even say na he's leaving the office na, eh buong gabi hanggang madaling araw akong nakatanga sa harap ng pc ko! like jayvee22 said, "Kung ayaw, madaming dahilan. Kung gusto, maraming paraan.". as if it takes a lot of effort even to type a few words, dba? i understand that he's really tired, but i don't get it why he can be that inconsiderate knowing that all i do infront of the pc is stare at it while waiting for him to have some free time to talk to me! this is not the first time na he's like that, maraming pang incidents na he was kind of inconsiderate in other ways eversince we had this fight about my guy friends here in manila.

nakakainis lang. feeling ko he doesn't appreciate my being really patient with him since he's always busy, ung pagpupuyat ko para lang makausap siya, and even ung pagdistansya ko sa mga guy friends ko na ayaw nya. buti na nga lang, nde niya kayo dinamay, eh... but kapag sinama na nya kayo, it's really over. he can't take tsikot away from me. sobra na un!

[dazedchiq]

mahirap yang ganyan.. hindi mo alam kung ano mga ginagawa nia dun.. saka kailangan sobrang laki ng tiwala mo sa kanya

isa pa ito... i do trust him. pero like the other day, when he was in vegas for manny's fight, nagtxt mga friends nya using his phone, sabi "i met a latina last night. omg! woah!". isipin nyo, un ang unang unang sumalubong saken pagkagising ko... sabi naman nya na it was his friends joking around lang. naniniwala naman ako, eh. pero cyempre, nde mo maiiwasan na iinit ulo mo kapag un ang gumising sayo and malay ko rin naman ba talaga kung may ginagawa cya dun na hindi maganda. at least, may plans talaga ako to go to the states for my future asap, hopefully sa january, and i get to see if this guy is for real at the same time, dba?

[RMean]

mahirap yan lalo n pag miss n miss nio na ang isa't isa..

[BoEinG_747]

nakakainis lang. feeling ko he doesn't appreciate my being really patient with him since he's always busy, ung pagpupuyat ko para lang makausap siya, and even ung pagdistansya ko sa mga guy friends ko na ayaw nya. buti na nga lang, nde niya kayo dinamay, eh... but kapag sinama na nya kayo, it's really over. he can't take tsikot away from me. sobra na un !

nakakatouch naman iyon ...

mukhang super guapo ang fafa nyo .kahit kasi dinidedma na kayo di pa din kayo makatiis na di magalit sa kanya

[Jun aka Pekto]

One thing both my then wife-to-be and myself did back then was to keep busy. Back then, (early-mid 90's) there wasn't much internet or cell phones. We got by communicating with each other via regular mail and long distance telephones.

It took a lot of faith and trust from both of us, a little over 7 years worth in fact, before she finally joined me here. It took a while. But that's one thing Pinoys (and other Asians) are famous for. Holding on to a relationship no matter the distance is a much admired trait here.

If I had to do it again.......... I would.