Long Distance Relationships

**ghosthunter** · May 14th, 2003 11:25 AM

[size=18]Do you believe in Long Distance Relationships?[/size]

**sHoCkAbSoRbEr** · May 14th, 2003 11:36 AM

naunahan mo ko ghosthunter, dapat mag start din ako ng thread similar to this... :wink:

i believe in this pero both parties should be responsible enough to find ways in making the relationship work... like making calls, sending text messages, writing e-mails... :wink: dapat constant yung communication... :wink:

altho, minsan i find it hard kasi what if gusto mo mag coffee for a while, i can't tell him to rush to my place and have coffee for an hour... :? thinking na 2-3 hours ang trip from his place to mine and depends pa sa traffic... :cry: sometimes mahirap...

buti na lang hindi sya out of the country... otherwise, mas mahirap... :|

**ghosthunter** · May 14th, 2003 11:38 AM

I guess there are two kinds of long distance relationships:

-drivable distance but still far (as long as same country)
-in another country

**1D4LV** · May 14th, 2003 12:18 PM

mahirap, costly and takes a lot of commitment and responsibility for both parties.

**tuesday** · May 14th, 2003 12:28 PM

Originally Posted by happy_gilmore

mahirap, costly and takes a lot of commitment and responsibility for both parties.

8) :roll: 8)

**ghosthunter** · May 14th, 2003 12:33 PM

Originally Posted by happy_gilmore

mahirap, costly and takes a lot of commitment and responsibility for both parties.

my gf's out of the country for three months... 1.5 months to go and I can really relate to what you are saying... pero there are cheaper alternatives din... usually txting via internet like chikka and yahoo messenger helps to lower the cost.

**kimpOy** · May 14th, 2003 01:11 PM

ako dati may long distance relationship
as in overseas, mahirap, magastos,
never will it work.
it's either isa sa inyo lumapit, in my case i can't
nangyari break up lang sa phone,
walang sense, di ka man sure kung totoo ang feelings

pero buti na lang nangyari, dahil mas masaya ko ngayon

**pajerokid** · May 14th, 2003 01:12 PM

I say leave it... mahirap paga di mo nakikita.

1) Anxiety kung nangbo-boys.
2) Sino kasama mo dito sa lakad?
3) And daling i-justify ng temptation... magkakasala pa ako
4) Nakakasawa mag-maria palad hehehehehe!!! ::mrgreen:

**jesi** · May 14th, 2003 05:24 PM

I'll say depende. I've been to one and it worked for us. College sweethearts kami ni misis. I had to go here [US] and we did not see each other for almost four years. Constant letters lang and once a month lang ako tumatawag [mahal pa noon] and WALA PANG CELL PHONES/TEXTS noon. And I have to admit, ako na yata ang pinakaselosong tao sa mundo. Sinasabi naman niya lahat ng nanligaw sa kanya. And one day, sabi ko that's it. Five days after we talked, nabigla siya ng madatnan na lang niya ako sa trabaho niya. Pinagpaalam ko sa boss niya and nag-walk-in lang kami sa City Hall. I'm really proud and happy we made it.

But I have friends na it did not work for them. Lahat sila babae lumayo [I mean ang umalis]. Babae rin hindi nakatiis and broke off. Masakit pa sa isa ay, they talked on a Christmas, sweet and all that, came Valentines, she just told him she was already married and take note - three months pregnant. Damn girl, buntis na pala nang mag-usap sila ng Christmas.

**logbook** · May 14th, 2003 07:24 PM

:roll: patay, pinaalala sa akin :roll:

for me, kaya kung kaya. especially kung prepared kayo na aalis yung isa at naiayos nyo kahit papaano yung plans nyo. tawagan, email, txt, bisita (kung kaya). and as long as matatag ang mga loob nyo, i think kaya naman......this is assuming na mahal nyo talaga ang isa't isa at kayo talaga....

sabi nga ng friend ko "kahit libo-libong gallon ng tubig ang pagitan nyo, kakayanin ng pag-ibig"

unfortunately for me, umalis kaagad cya nung naging kami (5 days?) :cry: at pumunta pa ng US para mag-migrate! :roll: .....pero umaasa pa rin ako na tunay ang ibigan namin :P

**preytoryan** · May 14th, 2003 11:04 PM

agree ako sa yo logbook. kaya kung gustong kayanin. lalo na siguro kung isa ka dun sa maswerteng soul mate mo yung naging syota mo. kahit na north-south ang distance nyo, love will still find a way....

always remember, you don't find LOVE. LOVE finds you. and when Love finds you, you just know.

**odell** · May 14th, 2003 11:06 PM

KAYA :mrgreen:

**phillipogi** · May 15th, 2003 11:10 AM

grabe ito reason bakit nag break up kami ng gf ko......wala siyang trust sa long distance relationship dahil sa nangyari sa dad and mom nya. She'll be leaving for the states for good na, sabi ko i'll do my best na sumunod doon, pero ayaw daw nyang umasa. Mahirap na baka di naman magkatotoo. And besides, mahirap na yung hindi nagkikita, sabi nya, paano daw pag biglang may nakita ako iba while wala sya, or paano kung sya naman daw......grabe iyak talaga tuloy ako.

kaya gusto ko yumaman eh (mayaman kasi sya eh, di tulad ko), para kahit every 2 months punta ako states eh. hirap talaga ng hindi mayaman.... =(

**gretzy** · May 15th, 2003 12:56 PM

phillipogi, she's just being practical n realistic, long distance relationship hardly works...

**logbook** · May 15th, 2003 01:21 PM

phillipogi, dude....pareho tayo! may kadamay ka :cry:

**pnay_fickle_minded** · May 15th, 2003 01:42 PM

well comment ko lang for me its hard din... lalo na pag girl ka... its always been hard to be away from your loveones...

nakaka-praning din minsan lalo na pag walang text or tawag.... pero what a relief pag nakausap mo na sya, then assuring u how much he loves u and no one would ever replace u in his heart....

basta dapat constant nga ang communication and dapat secured ka na he`s just there waiting for u to go home....

oh gosh nalulungkot na ko... i wanna go HOME!!!

**ssaloon** · May 15th, 2003 01:48 PM

been doing it for every summer and when nag LOA sya for 6 months...sa awa ng diyos ok naman.

pero pag grad nya don na sya sa states 4 good... hope it'll work out :|

**Rix** · May 15th, 2003 06:43 PM

hmmm sa case ko...it works...agree ako dun sa ibang comments..dapat talaga constant communications...i-assure nyo din dapat feelings nyo with each other...ginawa namin bago ako ulit umalis, nagpa civil wed. muna kmi...so next na uwi ko sa dec. church wedding na

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**kevinp** · May 15th, 2003 07:30 PM

Can't relate kasi wala kong personal experience pero tingin ko kakayanin naman (kahit mahirap). dpende na sa couple yon. yung parents ng isa kong friend, highschool sweethearts. the guy went to the US for college tapos came back for the girl after 4 or 5 years, got married and went back to the states.

agree ako kay rix. kung sigurado ka nang siya na ang one and only mo, civil wedding muna kung nagmamadali. para wala na talagang iwanan.

**Linkk** · May 22nd, 2003 05:39 AM

pag bf/gf it hardly works kaya wag niyo na lang ituloy, let go of each other muna pag nagkita kayo saka niyo na lang ituloy kung pwede pa.
sa mag asawa naman, no choice u both have to work hard to keep the relationship
trust and constant communication ang pinakaimportante diyan

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