How to Tell if a Man is Serious or Playing Games?

[ninjababez]

Kung nasa 30s na yung friend ni Ms. Cathy.. Yung payo, dinig sa kabilang tenga labas sa kabila.. Mukhang decided na, matanda na yan nag-iisip din naman yan.. Feeling ko naman naisip niya na din yung mga naisip niyo.. Maganda education nga and background oh..
If yung "pikot" about sa baby, naisip niya naman din ang consequences I think.. And mukhang ready naman sya sa mga consequences.. Again, matanda na sya, feeling ko naman mature enough na sya to make decisions sa life nya..
May mga friends ako na single mom, yung pinaka close ko pa nga sa kanila nag-away na kami dahil kakapayo ko.. Tinigilan ko na lang nung huli, kasi muntikan na kami mag "friendship over".. Hindi na sya sakin nagkukwento kasi everytime na lang magkwento sya sakin nauuwi lang sa pagsasabihan ko siya.. Nag-worry ako na baka may mangyari sa kanya na hindi ko alam, dahil pati family niya kasi nagalit na sa kanya.. So ang ginawa ko na lang, naging listener na lang ako para alam ko ang nangyayari.. Fast forward sa present, kapag nagoovernight kami.. Na-appreciate niya naman pala mga payo ko noon pero may mga bagay daw na kailangan ma-experience para matutunan.. Pero ok pa din siya sa decision nya kasi wala daw sya mga "what ifs"..
In short, may mga single moms talaga na pinili nila yung path na yun.. Maybe satin selfishness yun or stupidity pero pinag-isipan nila yun.. May time pa nga na feeling nila lamang sila kaysa mga matatandang single..
Even I don't agree, I still respect their decision.. It doesn't mean that they are less of a person dahil lang sa pinili nilang path..

parang yun ex ko nung 29 years old na sya and gusto na magkaanak and family. few years older sakin ito, and akala ko casual lang tanong sakin kung magkano sweldo ko sa work and OK lang ba allowance na 100k monthly (around 1/3 of her income that time). pati yun anak ko sa pagka binata, sinasabi nya kung OK daw ba situation and maganda raw ba yun school etc. long story short, gusto magka-anak and gawin akong boy toy (sabi nun friend nya ito, kasi di ko daw na-gets).

[uls]

Kuya-zoned ka [emoji41]


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hehe prefer ko nga maging kuya sa mga age 20s na babae

anything more than that would be problematic ($$$)

[EQAddict]

I have no issue with single moms. I absolutely respect their dedication and work and overcoming adversity . I admire them to the max.

What i dont respect is people planning to hook a guy via the pikot method. Its underhanded, scheming, , dastardly, sneaky. Why doesnt she just come out and tell the guy "hey, I want you to impregnate me because I want you to be beholden to your kid and me for the rest of your life." Lets see what the guy does.

Dishonesty is a freaking crazy basis for a relationship.






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[uls]

Hahahahahaha [emoji23]
Oo importante imoji..
Pero hindi naman din sa lahat ng pagkakataon ay hindi sincere yung gumagamit ng emoji..
Uyyy Sir Uls, kung sa personal nag-favor yang nag-send baka nga may hug and kiss ka.. [emoji41]

haha

bawal

social distancing

[misseksaherada]

What i dont respect is people planning to hook a guy via the pikot method. Its underhanded, scheming, , dastardly, sneaky. Why doesnt she just come out and tell the guy "hey, I want you to impregnate me because I want you to be beholden to your kid and me for the rest of your life." Lets see what the guy does.

Dishonesty is a freaking crazy basis for a relationship.

Yes, may mga ganyan ding mga lalaki.. Dadayain ang safe s3x sa mga gf nila kasi inatake ng insecurities ayun unplanned pregnancy.. Pikot din yun..
Sa case ng friend ni Ms. Cathy, mas nakikita ko yung pain nya sa mga past relationships niya kaya siya nauwi sa ganyang decision..
Pero who knows.. May mga successful naman ang marriage kahit dahil sa "pikot".. Endless possibilities..

[uls]

Kung nasa 30s na yung friend ni Ms. Cathy.. Yung payo, dinig sa kabilang tenga labas sa kabila.. Mukhang decided na, matanda na yan nag-iisip din naman yan.. Feeling ko naman naisip niya na din yung mga naisip niyo..

tama

may edad na ung friend ni Cathy di na susunod sa payo yan

she has already made up her mind the guy is the One

actually di siya naghahanap ng payo

naghahanap siya ng kakampi -- ung magsasabi sa kanya malaki ang chance maging sila nung lalake

ung magsasabi sa kanya interesado ung lalake even if there are few signs

[shadow]

And what did I say? Let her be. Gawin niya kung anong gusti niya it's her life bakit mo ba kasi pinoproblema buhay niya?


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[ninjababez]

I have no issue with single moms. I absolutely respect their dedication and work and overcoming adversity . I admire them to the max.

What i dont respect is people planning to hook a guy via the pikot method. Its underhanded, scheming, , dastardly, sneaky. Why doesnt she just come out and tell the guy "hey, I want you to impregnate me because I want you to be beholden to your kid and me for the rest of your life." Lets see what the guy does.

Dishonesty is a freaking crazy basis for a relationship.






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naalala ko si chapelle ..

Dave Chappelle no pikot!

[misseksaherada]

naalala ko si chapelle ..

Dave Chappelle no pikot!

Hahahahahaha ok ito ah Sir Ninja.. [emoji23]
Very good [emoji1303]
Yun lang din kasi iniisip ko, wala naman din mapipikot kung di naman papatulan.. Tito ko kasi, kapatid ng mama ko napikot yun.. Sinubukan niya takbuhan yung babae sa Iloilo, nagpunta dito sa bahay.. Iyak siya sa mama ko kasi hindi niya gusto yung babae..
Sabi ng mama ko, "Ang tanda mo na.."
"Bakit mo kasi pinatulan, eh alam mo na"..
Araw-araw kasi siya pinupuntahan nung babae at pinagluluto pa ng pagkain.. Eh meron siya talaga girlfriend nun.. Pero ayun nga nabuntis niya yung hindi niya gusto..
Pinagbigyan ng mama ko.. "O sige mag-stay ka muna dito pero hindi kita kinukunsinte sa ginawa mo.. Dito ka muna para makapag-isip-isip ka.."
Ayun after 1 month, umuwi ng Iloilo pinanagutan niya yung babae na nabuntis niya.. Masaya ba ang Tito ko? Syempre hindi nung una.. Kapag nalasing siya umiiyak siya..
Pero ngayon, naka-pito na silang anak.. [emoji1787][emoji1787][emoji1787] Ok na ba yung Tito ko? Oo naman, wala na siyang episode na umiiyak sya.. And yung naasawa niya na Tita ko ay isang matiisin na babae.. I think natutunan siya mahalin ng Tito ko..

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Masama na ba ang tao na tinutulungan mag flirt ang babae sa lalaki na gusto niya.. Kahit alam na balak pikutin yung lalaki? I don't know.. Maybe yes, maybe no.. Bahala na lang sa makakabasa yung tingin nila na intention behind the help..

[_Cathy_]

diyan nagkamali madami babae kaya naging single mom

akala nila pag nabuntis sila di sila iiwan ng lalake

but that's exactly why a lot of men leave -- they only wanted s#x they didn't plan on becoming a father

One reason kaya my friend fell for the guy kasi pareho sila na gusto na magkapamilya. What I don't know is if that's the guy's modus, making women fall for him by saying that he wants to have his own family. Kaya tingin ng friend ko IF she gets pregnant hindi talaga iiwan ng guy yung anak nila because he wants a child. SIngle Mom din kasi yung sister niya kasi siguro wala siyang takot maging single Mom, she wants a child so bad. Between the two of us, ako dapat yung desperate na since I am older than her, pero naniniwala kasi ako sa science and that I am fertile

This.

But also, they might resent you even more if they found out that you wanted to make them pikot. As in it was a real strategy to get pregnant and use the kid to make the guy feel guilty so he will end up staying with you. Its devious, manipulative, elementary, naive and at worst discards the child's well being all for the hope that you can hook a guy.

I mean what kind of sick foundation is this for a relationship? Not only between your friend and the guy, but between your friend and her unborn child.

Again... P A T h E T i C. You are her friend. Slap some sense into her .

I dont know her but have really low regard of her already. Makes my blood boil at her stupidity , childishness, and selfishness.


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She does not plan to pikot naman. She told me kasi na she is so in love with this guy nga na she wants to have s3x with him a lot (to satisfy him na rin) and if she gets pregnant, okay lang. This came as a shock to me because I know we share the same values (against PMS). We also don't believe in contraceptives so there is really a chance for her to get pregnant. I did tell her the legal implications but she does not mind. I also told her how she would feel about society's view of her (dalagang ina) Wala na rin daw siya paki She won't force the guy to marry her naman but more on she is HOPING that he will. SHe wants a child so bad na talaga. I don't know, maybe it's our age kasi pinagdaanan ko din yan kay crush (s3xual peak)

Yes, may mga ganyan ding mga lalaki.. Dadayain ang safe s3x sa mga gf nila kasi inatake ng insecurities ayun unplanned pregnancy.. Pikot din yun..
Sa case ng friend ni Ms. Cathy, mas nakikita ko yung pain nya sa mga past relationships niya kaya siya nauwi sa ganyang decision..
Pero who knows.. May mga successful naman ang marriage kahit dahil sa "pikot".. Endless possibilities..

I really feel for her, sobrang kawawa. She wasted 10 yrs of her life with a man that took her for granted. Kaya tuloy ngayon kahit konting attention from a guy tuwang tuwa na siya, he made her drop her standards so low. Tapos sakin siya humihingi payo kasi men treat me well daw, e hindi ko rin naman alam kung bakit. Maybe I give off a damsel in distress vibe LOL. She is one of the kindest women I know talaga, yung minsan sa sobrang bait maiinis ka na kasi even when people take advantage or betray her e i justify pa rin at naghahanap pa rin ng good side

tama

may edad na ung friend ni Cathy di na susunod sa payo yan

she has already made up her mind the guy is the One

actually di siya naghahanap ng payo

naghahanap siya ng kakampi -- ung magsasabi sa kanya malaki ang chance maging sila nung lalake

ung magsasabi sa kanya interesado ung lalake even if there are few signs

I feel kinda bad for telling her na I think the guy may be talking to other girls and I also told her straightout that I think he isn't interested in her anymore pero ang tanong niya sakin is how to make him interested again

And so tsikoteers, let us help her? hahaah! Though napaisip ako sa sabi ni MissX na baka nga jerk yung guy? I hope not. BAsta payo ko sa kaya not to initiate messaging the guy kasi nahahalata na patay na patay siya. Mabait yan friend ko, kahit sinabihan ko low EQ at walang pride for texting the guy e hindi pa rin nagalit sakin haha

And what did I say? Let her be. Gawin niya kung anong gusti niya it's her life bakit mo ba kasi pinoproblema buhay niya?

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Because she is a good person and she is my friend and I want her to be happy. Kapag close friend ko ang babae, best believe that she has a kind heart

Hahahahahaha ok ito ah Sir Ninja.. [emoji23]
Very good [emoji1303]
Yun lang din kasi iniisip ko, wala naman din mapipikot kung di naman papatulan.. Tito ko kasi, kapatid ng mama ko napikot yun.. Sinubukan niya takbuhan yung babae sa Iloilo, nagpunta dito sa bahay.. Iyak siya sa mama ko kasi hindi niya gusto yung babae..
Sabi ng mama ko, "Ang tanda mo na.."
"Bakit mo kasi pinatulan, eh alam mo na"..
Araw-araw kasi siya pinupuntahan nung babae at pinagluluto pa ng pagkain.. Eh meron siya talaga girlfriend nun.. Pero ayun nga nabuntis niya yung hindi niya gusto..
Pinagbigyan ng mama ko.. "O sige mag-stay ka muna dito pero hindi kita kinukunsinte sa ginawa mo.. Dito ka muna para makapag-isip-isip ka.."
Ayun after 1 month, umuwi ng Iloilo pinanagutan niya yung babae na nabuntis niya.. Masaya ba ang Tito ko? Syempre hindi nung una.. Kapag nalasing siya umiiyak siya..
Pero ngayon, naka-pito na silang anak.. [emoji1787][emoji1787][emoji1787] Ok na ba yung Tito ko? Oo naman, wala na siyang episode na umiiyak sya.. And yung naasawa niya na Tita ko ay isang matiisin na babae.. I think natutunan siya mahalin ng Tito ko..

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Masama na ba ang tao na tinutulungan mag flirt ang babae sa lalaki na gusto niya.. Kahit alam na balak pikutin yung lalaki? I don't know.. Maybe yes, maybe no.. Bahala na lang sa makakabasa yung tingin nila na intention behind the help..

PIkot success story lol. I think sa older gen mas marami pikot success stories pero sa Gen X and younger baka malabo na, kasi sa kanila nga kasal na naghihiwalay pa or normal na yung buntis bago kasal. Gosh, hinding hindi ko gagawin yan sa anak ko, na sadyain na illegitimate siya

ULS, may kilala tayong ganyan diba? hahaha