How to Tell if a Man is Serious or Playing Games?

[_Cathy_]

oh my goodness, hindi na niya hinabahol ang anak. WOW! This guy's intentions for my friend better be real

My friend is so easy to please, chinachat lang daily, nilibre once sa starbucks at nabigyan ng isang chocolate nahulog na

Tapos she rejected yung kai shao ko sa cousin ko na BINATA, mid 30s (younger than her), tall and maputi, refined and well educated (not just saying this because cousin ko) Sole heir pa and gets the house of my Lola! Mas gusto niya yung 40+ married guy with major baggage.

[uls]

oh my goodness, hindi na niya hinabahol ang anak. WOW! This guy's intentions for my friend better be real

My friend is so easy to please, chinachat lang daily, nilibre once sa starbucks at nabigyan ng isang chocolate nahulog na

Tapos she rejected yung kai shao ko sa cousin ko na BINATA, mid 30s (younger than her), tall and maputi, refined and well educated (not just saying this because cousin ko) Sole heir pa and gets the house of my Lola! Mas gusto niya yung 40+ married guy with major baggage.

sabi ko sayo dati pa it won't take much for her to fall

di siya ligawin

it's not everyday a guy gives her attention

it's not everyday a guy asks her out

sabi ko nga pag yan binigyan ng flowers on valentine's... wala na... hulog na yan

(ang mali lang sa prediction hindi flowers and hindi on valentine's binigay)

[_Cathy_]

sabi ko sayo dati pa it won't take much for her to fall

di siya ligawin

it's not everyday a guy gives her attention

it's not everyday a guy asks her out

sabi ko nga pag yan binigyan ng flowers on valentine's... wala na... hulog na yan

(ang mali lang sa prediction hindi flowers and hindi on valentine's binigay)

Yeah she's so easy to please. The way married guy treats her is just typical guy likes girl, it's not even extraordinary. She's lucky hindi siya nakaka encounter ng katulad ng brother ko that would give the stars and the moon for the "flavor of the month".

i'm 100% sure the 2nd date had a huge effect on her

they walked and talked for 2 to 3 hours (tama ba?)

she said the guy made her feel pretty coz of the way he looked at her

kaya di ako naniniwala she can be so in control of her feelings that she can resist falling for him just coz di pa tapos ung annulment

come on that's bs coming from a woman who almost never gets asked out

she's gonna fall for any guy who shows interest in her

Yup she said the way he looked at her she felt so pretty and she felt like the guy didn't want to go home pa (Can guys actually fake that?)

She's in her late 30s and she's only been out with 2 guys her ENTIRE LIFE (BF and married guy) May isa siya na inlove pero never met him, sa FB ata through a common friend, hindi naman talaga siya niligawan.

Sa bumble she can't seem to match with high value men (except for Atenean/grocery guyy) Mind blown talaga ako na in almost 3 yrs only ONE GUY asked her out. married pa May something talaga, I can't figure it out. Siguro may mga babae lang talaga hindi ligawin kasi sa office MADAMI na mas may histura siya pero may asawa/bf. Wala naman standards friend ko so I can't say na dahil pihikan siya kaya wala siyang boylet. She is definitely not psycho rin.

a guy who disappears and reappears after weeks or months isn't gonna make tapat

why would a guy do that?

sino babae maniniwala?

kunwari after your last date, the guy disappears for weeks or months, tapos bigla nagreappear and says he loves you, maniniwala ka ba?

hallooo

kung normal kang babae di ka ba magsasabi "kaya mo ako di kontakin nang ilan buwan tapos gusto mo maniwala ako may halaga ako sayo?! ulol!"

haha

pero kakaibang creature pala si He Huang

i'm sure she'll be so happy pag lumitaw uli ung guy

What I meant was, what if consistent pa rin si guy with the chatting and dates tapos nagsabi na gusto siya i GF? Paano na yun?

Ayoko na magbigay ng advice sa kanya on how she can have the upper hand on that guy, e di parang accomplice din ako pag naging kabit siya?

[uls]

Yup she said the way he looked at her she felt so pretty and she felt like the guy didn't want to go home pa (Can guys actually fake that?)

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based sa screenshot your friend feels gusto siya ng guy

but she could be over-reading what happened during the date

for example ung pagtama ng elbows and shoulders nila habang naglalakad

baka wala lang para sa guy pero para sa friend mo may meaning

ung ayaw pa umuwi ung guy... well... could be something there... maybe the guy really enjoyed being with your friend

was it an act? i dunno

pwede niya gawin yun -- "i'm gonna make this girl think i'm really into her"

we'll see what happens next

nakakatuwa naman ito parang teleserye

haha

[dr. d]

she has a very active imagination....
she's gonna fall down. hard.

[uls]

ano kaya bagong kwento hehe

kailan 3rd date

[_Cathy_]

I'm irritated with my friend He Huang. She asked me about my love life and I told her that I'm doing a detox from men (not gonna talk to any guy muna, except family and platonic friends)

She asked me why and I said I don't want to stress/think muna and then she starts to give me advise like she is an expert/player LOL! "Hindi ka dapat ma stress sa boylet" "#pusongbato" I said that's easy for her to say but try cutting off a man that really pursues and shows you love, then she said si Mr Annulment No comment na lang ako because Mr Annulment doesn't even reach the bare minimum by my standards. But at least she followed my advise to stop chasing men and she said it worked with Mr Annulment, they french kissed na pero wala pa rin label and she is fine with that kaya daw #pusongbato. That's not how it's supposed to work but I'm just gonna shut my mouth na since she is confident na naman that she knows how to deal with men.

[Wh1stl3r]

Going forward I'd keep my expectations low, proceed cautiously and make sure he is vetted properly by people I trust.

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[dreamur]

*cathy dont rely on FB to check a guy's professional credentials. Use LinkedIn where you can find work experience and recos from prof acquaintances and orgs.

[CVT]

*cathy dont rely on FB to check a guy's professional credentials. Use LinkedIn where you can find work experience and recos from prof acquaintances and orgs.

Maganda ba linkedin accounts natin bro?...🤣😁

[jut703]

Maganda ba linkedin accounts natin bro?...[emoji1787][emoji16]

Nako nakita ko na LinkedIn niyo ni bro dreamur, nakakalaglag-panty! [emoji7]


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[ray_noel]

though im not doing tinder/bumble or any dating app... depende na rin sa tao yung purpose in going to dating app... im sure they know what they’re into...

yung dating app ngayon para na rin personal na ligawan, like sa personal na ligawan ganun din naman, they can fool you around...

Ang advantage sa dating app is, its like a pool of prospects where you can pick who you want...


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[Egan101]

Buti na lang si Bossing wala dyan sa mga dating app na yan. Kapag pinasok nya yan, lagot kayo. Kung baga, game over na!


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[dreamur]

Buti na lang si Bossing wala dyan sa mga dating app na yan. Kapag pinasok nya yan, lagot kayo. Kung baga, game over na!


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Hay naku, red boots palang nagkandarapa na kay bossing archerfish!

[jojopad]

May malibog na tao, meron hindi. Mas madaming malibog na mga teenagers at young adults. Meron din aseeeeeexual na mga conservative, liberal, radical, engot, etc

People are people so. Depende lahat yan.

[Deestone]

There are a lot of reason on why child is important some would say they are their retirement plan and others say that they need someone to visit their grave in the future. Rich people most probably wants to pass on inheritance to their children.

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[jut703]

There are a lot of reason on why child is important some would say they are their retirement plan

This is such a BAD reason to have kids.


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[Deestone]

This is such a BAD reason to have kids.


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Yep different reasons if you ask different people from different class.

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[shadow]

Geez. Masyado mo pinapakialaam yun buhay niya. Let her do whatever she likes, matanda na yan kung magkamali siya so be it, pangatawanan niya.

Let her be.


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[_Cathy_]

Geez. Masyado mo pinapakialaam yun buhay niya. Let her do whatever she likes, matanda na yan kung magkamali siya so be it, pangatawanan niya.

Let her be.


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Hindi ako nakikialam, siya yung daily tawag ng tawag sakin asking me for all the steps. Minsan nga I ignore her calls na hahaha. Naawa din naman ako Gusto ko din naman siya maging masaya at makuha yung guy na gusto niya