how do you get over a broken heart?

[_Cathy_]

Siya ba nakita mo na ulit since nag usap kayo. Baka pumangit kaya nahihiya magpakita. May nag aaya sakin nung beginning ng pandemic sabi ko may pandemic scare ako pero yun din kasi yung time na nagka maskne ako lol.

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not personally pero sa photo yes. lalo pa nga gumuapo. I respect him and I am done with my psycho days kaya if he refuses to see me I accept it. BUT if he met teenager and early 20s Cathy, hindi pwede yan. Pupuntahan ko talaga siya until I get what I want hehe

May mahal siyang iba, pero tinatawagan ka pa din? Tapos naglilimit ng physical interaction? Kailangan lang ng kausap, ganun? Ewan ko na, hahaha baka kinikeep ka nalang on the hook.

Hindi na ako magrereply sa topic na to haha. Lost na siguro ako kung anong tanong ba ang sinasagot. Kung bakit less time nalang, binibigay niya sayo? o kung bakit binibigyan ka pa ng time? or kung nilalandi ka ba? o pinapaasa ka at nakahook pa? o kung ikaw na lang ay isang always available, convenient and easy to talk to friend? hehehe

He is keeping me on retainer? spare tire?

Ewan ko.

Why in the name of the seven hells would he call you for an hour a day and yet refuse to see you or ask you out? When he knows your crazy looney head over heels over him? You couldnt be more obvious than if a billboard professing your love for him fell down on his head!

An hour a day for an exec is a LOT. Thats a precious amount of limited time that not many can afford to fritter away. If he spends that amount of time on you....that % of waking time with yoy....i dont freaking get it. Its either he is gay or leading you on.

There is no guy i know who calls a girl for an hour a day who isnt using that to court or seduce her. At this day and age ..... telebabad? Ginagawa pa iyan? And he refuses to see you? After all your hints, blatant moves, outright confessions of love? If he says he has no GF...has been quarantined for months...wouldnt i be intimacy starved? id be racing to the girls house and my pants will be off even before i reach her door. Id be tripping over myself to get inside (yes figuratively and literally) !Macho my big fat arse.

But if he is doing neither, my deduction is he is closet gay. Maybe when you broke up with him, you broke whatever defenses he had left . He has surrendered! Hehehehe.

You should be proud of yourself. Can actually make a guy question his existential being and flip.

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HAHAHAH! Pag naiinis ka you sound like crush, natatawa ako sa mga phrases niyo. Check your inbox. He is NOT gay. Kahit pinapagalitan mo ko parati I can't really get mad at you kasi you never tire of giving me advise re crush and I SUPER appreciate that. You even composed my text for him when we reconnected in March

I know his time is expensive at maliit ang mundo ng executives, nagulat nga ko na he knows the former CEO/country manager of our company even if we belong to different industries.

I suspect there is someone else diba sabi nila isang hint that a man has a mistress if he does not want to s3x his wife na? I know I am not his wife or GF pero baka nga he is intimate with someone else kaya he does not want me. BUT again the million dollar question is why he calls me still?

Tama pala ako cathy. Hinde kasi ako uls na ma quote ko sarili ko but i posted about questioning his ***uality before nun patay na patay ka pa sa kanya.

I think ginawa mong example si Rustom Padilla. Was a matinee idol and daming nagkakagusto na babaeng artista then tapos puro barako mga kapatid then boom! BB Gandanghari.

Patay na patay din si Carmina in fact pinakasalan pa.


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shadow, you know the whole story and him being in gay is out of the question

One hour a day to talk on the phone? Too much time wasted when he can just go see you and do what EQ suggested. One hour of intense passion is way much better than talking on the phone.

Unless of course, he can’t imagine doing that. Men will be men. A few minutes of intense f*cking is still worth the time compared to dinner, a chat, or something else.


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but when we were together it was different, we were both crazy passionate for each other. Yung ngayon lang siya parang may leprosy ako

[_Cathy_]

Hinde siguro bading pero hinde ka rin talaga gusto cathy. ✌🏼️ kaya stop it na!

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Ramdam na ramdam ko naman na hindi na niya ko gusto pero thankful nga ko na he still calls me regularly, meron ako person who I can talk to about anything and everything and not be judged. Pareho naman kami values so we do not argue

You've known each other a looong time already. And the best case is he's beating around the bush still? In the meantime, life is passing you by. Do you really want to spend more time going after something so unlikely?

I've been there before. Loved someone. She liked me too. But not as much as another. I thought she was the one but gave up eventually. Was dejected for a long time. But after meeting my wife I can say I'm glad I dodged a bullet. Couldn't be happier now. Can't imagine what would have happened had I pursued what was destined to fail.

I'm not prospecting him anymore. If someone comes along I will accept that person in my life. But how can I meet someone, I am stuck here at home, lalo pa lumiit mundo ko since I have no work anymore, though I never liked anyone at work naman, except my boss LOL

Gusto ko ano masasabi ni *kagalingan sa situation ni cathy saka ni crush.

Reply ka naman dito Kags. Give us your inputs.


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never nga nag reply si kags dyan hahaha

Male - eats like a bear, drinks like a fish, little interest in working out too much, loves cars, loves video games, curses often when talking, likes to talk dirty, enjoys s*x

Look at this Alpha:




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Turn on nga sakin guy who loves food, pero somehow almost all my exes are health buffs and conscious eaters. Si Crush hindi rin mahilig sa food because he wants to maintain his weight, he has hypertension kasi so he can't gain weight. Pero he really looks young for his age, "well maintained" but that is the trade off, can't eat or drink too much.

You can't fault people for making statements based on what they know. You post here to have a discussion with a broader audience, but if you're saying only 5 people know the whole story then it's unfair for you to call out other people when you don't give them the info they need naman to see the full picture.

Either you give the proper perspective or take their input based on information available to them.

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I've been saying for years na out of the question na that he is gay. I don't know how else to convince people. hello shadow alam mo naman story nang aasar pa na gay

[tarzegetakizerd]

Pag ako yan, I won't be thankful na they still call me, but push me away when I attempt to go near. If they don't want me, then they should leave me alone. I'd distance myself and move on.

[_Cathy_]

Pag ako yan, I won't be thankful na they still call me, but push me away when I attempt to go near. If they don't want me, then they should leave me alone. I'd distance myself and move on.

I enjoy our conversations kasi, minsan lang ako makakilala yung same mindset and values.

BTT: Yung ex kuya ko, what the hell is wrong with him going against our family and lying?!?! Pinapa taas BP ng 94 year old Lola ko!!!! Unbelievable!!!

He is so proud because he has a rich young gf (future wife no 3) and our family thinks is his sugar mommy [emoji23] Not so alpha naman pala!

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[Little Missy]

Pag ako yan, I won't be thankful na they still call me, but push me away when I attempt to go near. If they don't want me, then they should leave me alone. I'd distance myself and move on.

Me too Cath. I don't think he is gay but he might be an insecure or narcissistic person who talks to you to feed his ego. Kung ako yan I won't have any of it.

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[shadow]

Me too Cath. I don't think he is gay but he might be an insecure or narcissistic person who talks to you to feed his ego. Kung ako yan I won't have any of it.

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Hinde alpha, badaf pala.


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[Little Missy]

Hinde alpha, badaf pala.


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I don't think bading siya based from the idea na walang bading na mag aaksaya ng oras talking to a straight girl for 1 hour everyday. Unless openly gay siya and bff sila ni Cath eh parang hindi din naman sila ganun.

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[_Cathy_]

Me too Cath. I don't think he is gay but he might be an insecure or narcissistic person who talks to you to feed his ego. Kung ako yan I won't have any of it.

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He does know na nilagay ko siya sa pedestal. Pero medyo nga na disappoint na ko kasi I contacted him in March to help me with my family issue, October na wala pang development I wish he could allot some time from it, it should be easy for him, if he is as good as I think he is.

I don't think bading siya based from the idea na walang bading na mag aaksaya ng oras talking to a straight girl for 1 hour everyday. Unless openly gay siya and bff sila ni Cath eh parang hindi din naman sila ganun.

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Nang aasar yan si shadow. He knows the reason why it's impossible for crush to be gay

Mahirap kasi I really enjoy our conversations kasi same wave length and values kami, and he is the ONLY guy that can turn me on. Kahit iharap pa sakin si BRad Pitt, Chris Evans or kung sino man pinakaguapo at popular dyan, I will always find a reason bakit lamang si crush. Na imprint niya ata ako

[dr. d]

Nang aasar yan si shadow. He knows the reason why it's impossible for crush to be gay

i am curious what this thing is, that makes it impossible for the guy to be gay.

[kisshmet]

Kung paminta siya dapat dinidisplay niya si Cathy to fake/prove his ***ual preference. Eh wala naman nakakakita sa kanila so anong point nun.
Kung paminta yan bumu-bro yan sa mga lalaki hindi sa babae.

Mas believeable pa na paasa siya and sending mixed signals because people do that all the time.

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So hindi paminta si james bond?

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[Little Missy]

So hindi paminta si james bond?

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Never seen any Bond movie can't comment. Why, is he?

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[kisshmet]

^Wala napaisip lang ako base sa takbo ng usapan dito baka badingerZ na din si james bond

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[dr. d]

Never seen any Bond movie can't comment. Why, is he?

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of course not!
james bond is the last, un-assailable bastion of manhood!
heh heh.

btw,
the james bond stunt coordinator has revealed that one of his secret ingredients is coca cola.
to make his stunts work on the slippery street, he uses coke to make the surface sticky.
OT.

[CVT]

of course not!
james bond is the last, un-assailable bastion of manhood!
heh heh.

btw,
the james bond stunt coordinator has revealed that one of his secret ingredients is coca cola.
to make his stunts work on the slippery street, he uses coke to make the surface sticky.
OT.

"Bond. James Bond...."

"Shaken. Not stirred..."

Ring my bell....

He he he...

[dr. d]

"Bond. James Bond...."

"Shaken. Not stirred..."

Ring my bell....

He he he...

... 'kaw 'ha!
"jamie bond" ?
heh heh.

[_Cathy_]

hey! good for you na hindi ka na obsessed.
The pain/kirot will eventually go away din.
Keep your head up!

Thanks. I can't wait for the day when I am 101% over, no more pain. My UF told me to make finding a partner a goal, I don't like the idea of it but that was what she did and it worked for her. Dati same thinking kami na hindi dapat gino goal yun, na it just happens.

[_Cathy_]

I'm crying as I type this. I think he has a wife/GF/SO/partner. All the red flags are there but I am turning a blind eye. I asked him several times if there is someone else and he said no and I want to believe him. I do not want to think that the person I love, respect and worship would lie and make a fool out of me. Disente naman ako na babae at alam niya yun.

1. Radio silence once he is home- he totally disappears on weekends, no contact at all
2. Strictly one hour calls WHEN HE IS AT WORK ONLY - three years ago we could not get enough of each other and he would call me even on his drive to and from work, pero ngayon kahit anong pilit ko he says no, dahil ba may kasabay na siya sa auto? I see a pattern na talaga, usually Mon and Fri he is unable to call me, siguro dahil nasa bahay/WFH siya
3. Refuses to see me
4. Refuses gifts/food from me
5. Refuses to give his new personal mobile number, Sa sobrang paranoid, first 4 digits ng new landline ayaw sabihin sakin. WTH?
6. He has no social media accounts

And the biggest one - refuses to be intimate with me. Who the hell does that? My exs would have killed for the opportunity! Isn't it the only reason a man refuses is because he is in love or getting it from another woman? How damaging is that for my self esteem when my guy friends told me na men never refuse at kahit ang pangit laman tiyan din

Also, when we were together he would always OFFER to help me, e ngayon ako na nagfo follow up. March pa yung request ko, anong pecha na? It takes him less than 1 hr to do that but he won't make time for it.

For my birthday, I asked to see him but of course that is a no. He knows my love language is gifts and he did not even offer to send me kahit anything worth P100 or even an umbrella. I told him I love big corporate umbrellas. But what I really want is a hand written letter from him and he knows that pero wala. Kahit man lang emotional or sweet message wala. He did call me though, I suspect kaya he never sends me messages kasi proof or evidence or pwede mahuli yan ng wife or GF niya. Buti pa nga yung Tsikoteer who offered to send me flowers.

He only needs to tell me na meron na siya ibang mahal and I am walking away. I can't be friends with an ex who is with someone else na. What does he want from me? Ano ako spare tire? retainer? entertainment? SO knows the whole story and he can't accept and found it insulting that I chose crush over him. SO was my CONSTANT for almost 20 yrs of my life and now he is gone. Kahit dito sa Tsikot I have online friends who gave up on me because I was too stubborn and I refuse to forget crush. Nasa US ako pero wala ako ibang inisip kundi siya at nag pumilit ako bumalik ng Pilipinas. Nilagay ko siya sa pedestal and he could do no wrong in my eyes

I had some time to think during my covid scare, baka kahit ma hospital ako, dadalawin ba niya ko? Sana talaga mali iniisip ko na niloloko niya ko. Can anyone tell me otherwise?

[shadow]

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[shadow]

I'm crying as I type this. I think he has a wife/GF/SO/partner. All the red flags are there but I am turning a blind eye. I asked him several times if there is someone else and he said no and I want to believe him. I do not want to think that the person I love, respect and worship would lie and make a fool out of me. Disente naman ako na babae at alam niya yun.

1. Radio silence once he is home- he totally disappears on weekends, no contact at all
2. Strictly one hour calls WHEN HE IS AT WORK ONLY - three years ago we could not get enough of each other and he would call me even on his drive to and from work, pero ngayon kahit anong pilit ko he says no, dahil ba may kasabay na siya sa auto? I see a pattern na talaga, usually Mon and Fri he is unable to call me, siguro dahil nasa bahay/WFH siya
3. Refuses to see me
4. Refuses gifts/food from me
5. Refuses to give his new personal mobile number, Sa sobrang paranoid, first 4 digits ng new landline ayaw sabihin sakin. WTH?
6. He has no social media accounts

And the biggest one - refuses to be intimate with me. Who the hell does that? My exs would have killed for the opportunity! Isn't it the only reason a man refuses is because he is in love or getting it from another woman? How damaging is that for my self esteem when my guy friends told me na men never refuse at kahit ang pangit laman tiyan din

Also, when we were together he would always OFFER to help me, e ngayon ako na nagfo follow up. March pa yung request ko, anong pecha na? It takes him less than 1 hr to do that but he won't make time for it.

For my birthday, I asked to see him but of course that is a no. He knows my love language is gifts and he did not even offer to send me kahit anything worth P100 or even an umbrella. I told him I love big corporate umbrellas. But what I really want is a hand written letter from him and he knows that pero wala. Kahit man lang emotional or sweet message wala. He did call me though, I suspect kaya he never sends me messages kasi proof or evidence or pwede mahuli yan ng wife or GF niya. Buti pa nga yung Tsikoteer who offered to send me flowers.

He only needs to tell me na meron na siya ibang mahal and I am walking away. I can't be friends with an ex who is with someone else na. What does he want from me? Ano ako spare tire? retainer? entertainment? SO knows the whole story and he can't accept and found it insulting that I chose crush over him. SO was my CONSTANT for almost 20 yrs of my life and now he is gone. Kahit dito sa Tsikot I have online friends who gave up on me because I was too stubborn and I refuse to forget crush. Nasa US ako pero wala ako ibang inisip kundi siya at nag pumilit ako bumalik ng Pilipinas. Nilagay ko siya sa pedestal and he could do no wrong in my eyes

I had some time to think during my covid scare, baka kahit ma hospital ako, dadalawin ba niya ko? Sana talaga mali iniisip ko na niloloko niya ko. Can anyone tell me otherwise?

STOP!


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[tarzegetakizerd]

I'm crying as I type this. I think he has a wife/GF/SO/partner. All the red flags are there but I am turning a blind eye. I asked him several times if there is someone else and he said no and I want to believe him. I do not want to think that the person I love, respect and worship would lie and make a fool out of me. Disente naman ako na babae at alam niya yun.

1. Radio silence once he is home- he totally disappears on weekends, no contact at all
2. Strictly one hour calls WHEN HE IS AT WORK ONLY - three years ago we could not get enough of each other and he would call me even on his drive to and from work, pero ngayon kahit anong pilit ko he says no, dahil ba may kasabay na siya sa auto? I see a pattern na talaga, usually Mon and Fri he is unable to call me, siguro dahil nasa bahay/WFH siya
3. Refuses to see me
4. Refuses gifts/food from me
5. Refuses to give his new personal mobile number, Sa sobrang paranoid, first 4 digits ng new landline ayaw sabihin sakin. WTH?
6. He has no social media accounts

And the biggest one - refuses to be intimate with me. Who the hell does that? My exs would have killed for the opportunity! Isn't it the only reason a man refuses is because he is in love or getting it from another woman? How damaging is that for my self esteem when my guy friends told me na men never refuse at kahit ang pangit laman tiyan din

Also, when we were together he would always OFFER to help me, e ngayon ako na nagfo follow up. March pa yung request ko, anong pecha na? It takes him less than 1 hr to do that but he won't make time for it.

For my birthday, I asked to see him but of course that is a no. He knows my love language is gifts and he did not even offer to send me kahit anything worth P100 or even an umbrella. I told him I love big corporate umbrellas. But what I really want is a hand written letter from him and he knows that pero wala. Kahit man lang emotional or sweet message wala. He did call me though, I suspect kaya he never sends me messages kasi proof or evidence or pwede mahuli yan ng wife or GF niya. Buti pa nga yung Tsikoteer who offered to send me flowers.

He only needs to tell me na meron na siya ibang mahal and I am walking away. I can't be friends with an ex who is with someone else na. What does he want from me? Ano ako spare tire? retainer? entertainment? SO knows the whole story and he can't accept and found it insulting that I chose crush over him. SO was my CONSTANT for almost 20 yrs of my life and now he is gone. Kahit dito sa Tsikot I have online friends who gave up on me because I was too stubborn and I refuse to forget crush. Nasa US ako pero wala ako ibang inisip kundi siya at nag pumilit ako bumalik ng Pilipinas. Nilagay ko siya sa pedestal and he could do no wrong in my eyes

I had some time to think during my covid scare, baka kahit ma hospital ako, dadalawin ba niya ko? Sana talaga mali iniisip ko na niloloko niya ko. Can anyone tell me otherwise?

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