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  1. Join Date
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    #1
    here's the scenario:

    1. You are rich or potentially rich.

    2. You are engaged.

    3. You find out from a source that if you weren't rich your fiance would not marry you anymore and find someone else or rather stay alone.

    4. She truly loves you but just doesn't want to marry a guy who can't give her a luxurious life.

    Would you still marry her?

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    #2
    how reliable is the source?

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    yes, i will. that's part of the risk i have to face. after all, getting married is a big risk, we don't know what's in store for us

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    Quote Originally Posted by cablespy View Post
    here's the scenario:

    1. You are rich or potentially rich.

    2. You are engaged.

    3. You find out from a source that if you weren't rich your fiance would not marry you anymore and find someone else or rather stay alone.

    4. She truly loves you but just doesn't want to marry a guy who can't give her a luxurious life.

    Would you still marry her?

    # 3 contradicts # 4. this only means she's in love with my money not with me. sa wedding, there's this "in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer..... 'til death do us part....."

    if I'll marry her knowing #3 as mentioned, the " 'til death do us part" will come really soon and she will not experience the luxurious life she longed for.

    NO, pakasal siya mag-isa!

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    Quote Originally Posted by tsupermario View Post
    how reliable is the source?

    Now, that is an excellent question!

    How is your girlfriend when she is with you? This is first hand info and not from a source....

    :starwars:

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    Quote Originally Posted by tsupermario View Post
    how reliable is the source?

    The source is %100 reliable.

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    the way i see it, the issue revolves in financial aspect only. sure there is no problem in securing financially its a practical matter in order to survive. however, there is contradiction. if you really are in love, then love conquers all- no if's no but's.

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    i guess you're wondering if she loves you for you or if she loves you for your money...

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    Quote Originally Posted by cablespy View Post
    She truly loves you but just doesn't want to marry a guy who can't give her a luxurious life
    sabi ng lolo ko, true love daw transcends anything material. kung tama ang lolo ko, then the girl's not truly in love with you

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    verify the source first. then perhaps test your gf. create a scenario wherein you would lose your money. see how she reacts. am i watching to many tele novelas?

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    You know love is a lot more complex than that....

    And it's hypothetical in the 1st place cuz you're rich.

    A person loves someone for what they are, that includes the whole package. If you weren't rich she wouldn't have fallen in love with you in the first place...

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    No, I will not marry that kind of woman.

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    oo marry mo na, mag-sign na lang kayo ng pre-nupt agreement

    sa nakikita ko parati talo guys sa annulment/divorce, kasi damit mo lang saka trabaho natitira sa'yo, sa girl yun house, lot and car ... yes pati car!

    ako pag may free time, pag-aaralan ko kung pano magkaron ng secret bank account sa cayman's o sa switzerland ... iba na yun lagi ka handa hehehe

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    Quote Originally Posted by cablespy View Post
    here's the scenario:


    4. She truly loves you but just doesn't want to marry a guy who can't give her a luxurious life.

    Would you still marry her?
    given that scenario she does not truly love you. my advice is :***: her and drop her like a hot potato. i'm serious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CVT View Post
    How is your girlfriend when she is with you? This is first hand info and not from a source....
    Good question. Ask yourself these.

    Is she the bilmoko type? And does she ask for expensive stuff? Does she ask for expensive stuff in exchange for cuddling/***?

    Does she ask you to take her to places known to her circle of friends as an expensive place, or "the place to be seen at" type.

    Did she ever cringe at the thought that she will have to take public transport when with you (on a date or some other trip)?

    If so, take m_ron's advice and run. Just use protection.

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    and after :***:, don't forget to take pics of her and share it with us.

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    if she's awesome in the sack then just marry her but with prenup

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    maybe from the girl's point of view, she wanted a man that could support her and your family. financially.

    let's be realistic. hindi na uso ang porke love mo lang ung tao e bibigay mo na ang lahat. loving someone is different from marrying someone.

    love is just love. marrying someone has lot more attachments. like what family background you have. if she knows that your dad is a killer and your mom is a drug addict, would you think she would love you in the 1st place and marry you ? no no ...

    same as monetary factor. if she came from a wealthy family and has all the luxurious lifestyle then she would find a man that suits her lifestyle. or even if she is poor and wants to have a wealthy life then finding a rich boyfriend is not a crime.

    so back to the question. would you marry her? ... kaw lang makakasagot nyan...



    *sorry hindi ko nasagot tanong mo pero just wanted to give you more thoughts to think about. peace *

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    a big "NO", i will not marry somebody like that.

    how stupid of her to be making it known to people tapos nakarating pa sa iyo. run for your life ah este run with your money. hehehe

    seriously, drop her but do it gently and juyst be honest with her about the reason.

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    Pre-nup is contrary to public and moral..err I forgot the word..hehe

    Pagdating sa court null and void lang ang sasabihin ni misis.. sa kanya pa rin 50% ng conjugal property..hehe

    Ang pinakamagandang gawin.. stay single. You're rich!

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