oo nga dito ka na lang sa tsikot maghanap, hanapin mo si *coolguy bagay kayo
In my opinion, you have just realized that your current relationship is not a healthy one anymore. Is it time to give up? well, since you seem to think that the guy has good qualities along with the bad ones, you can try to talk to him about it. That way, you don't feel guilty if it doesn't work out since you gave him a chance by letting him know how you feel about it. It's better that way than just keeping it to yourself since no good will come from that.
Just my two cents.
Sis ito na lang... If you have doubts, don't go thru with the relationship! Yun ang rule of thumb ko. Pag nag-aalangan na ako at hindi ako sure dun sa guy, hindi ko na tunutuloy.
Talk things over and settle your business. If you have to be firm, please do! Problema na nung guy kung ayaw nya makinig sa iyo at least you have said your piece diba? Pero kung willing naman makinig, again just stay firm and focused sa sasabihin mo sa kanya.![]()
sometimes we really can't say na we really are ment for each other. The best thing is try to work it out pero pag d na nagworkout, be ready to face the consequence to sa goodbye. I definitely agree to all advices og LadyRider.
Pwede din ba magpm sa iyo ladyrider ng loveproblems ko?![]()
it seems to me that your relationship is going nowhere fast. try having a heart to heart with him to express your frustrations. if he's not a willing participant, then stop wasting each other's time and move on.
like FD said, daming mababait na tsikoteers, magaling pa makipag-communicate, pero wag ka lang maghanap ng gwapo.![]()
Mahirap yan, mag-bf pa lang kayo hindi ka na masaya sa relationship nyo, paano pa kaya kung mapangasawa mo sya? Try to answer these questions: Are you sure that you still love the person? Do you see yourself being happily married with him in the future? Do you think he’ll make a responsible, loving & supportive husband and a loving father & good provider to your future children? The title of your thread has already answered the first question. What about the rest? If you answered no to all of them, I think it’s high time para makipag-cool off ka na muna so you can sort things out by yourself. It’s important that when you’re in a relationship, you have to be first and foremost, well, happy. The second important thing is that he should also be happy with you. If one of you is no longer happy, sooner or later that person will end up looking for someone else to fill in the emptiness. Why wait for that?
Pero sabi mo hindi ka makawala. Why? What’s holding you back? What’s so difficult with letting go when you know that you’re no longer happy? Is it because as you said, you hate arguments, so you’re not ready for this one major argument once you tell him that you want space? Or is it just too inconvenient to let go because of proximity (he’s an officemate/schoolmate, neighbor, belongs to the same circle of friends)?
Obviously he’s not meeting your expectations in a relationship. And maybe you’re not meeting his. IMO, you need some time without each other, so you can think clearly & hopefully find the answers to your own questions.
Hataw yung mga payo ah. Tapos ipa-private message nyo at hihingiin nyo yung number ah.
Doon sa thread starter wag ka papabola sa mga payo dito. Pag nakuha loob mo kukunin lang number mo.![]()