fall out of love

[_Cathy_]

there is no one-of-a-kind

if that specific person is the only one of his kind that you meet or come across with in your life, then he or she is one-of-a-kind in your perspective.

paul_01, what makes her one of a kind?

[ghosthunter]

*GH by "mommy look" you mean she gained weight or she dresses lousy na?

Weight. And I do mean she looks like a "mommy" na by then.

It's always about the looks 'no? Somehow I don't feel so bad about not being attractive. At least I know that the men I am with are after me for my character and values and not just the way I look. (Pampalubag loob yan ng mga hindi guapo/maganda)

You sure its not because of your money then?

[_Cathy_]

sana tiniis mo nalang ugali niya hanggang na-do mo siya

then dump her

hindi kaya ng konsensya ko.. hahahaha..haha..

Some people have conscience

But then again I have no remorse for women who cheat on their BFs/husbands. It's unthinkable.

[_Cathy_]

You sure its not because of your money then?

I am not sugar mommy material. I have no money to give

[ghosthunter]

even if it's not about looks, you still need looks to get a stranger to get interested in you first

so the stranger can then discover your other qualities

it's about physical attraction first

then hopefully, the person you're able to attract will discover something endearing about you that's beyond your looks

a hot ***y body/beautiful face can only get you so far

after that fades, you better have something else your partner would still wanna stick around for

Well, said.

One can have the best personality in the world but it wouldn't attract a girl without a good looking body & face to go with that personality.

Well, having lots of money does help but those women go for the peso-nality instead.

Having the body-built of a care-bear just doesn't attract the kind of attention guys want from girls.

[Paul_01]

if that specific person is the only one of his kind that you meet or come across with in your life, then he or she is one-of-a-kind in your perspective.

paul_01, what makes her one of a kind?

well.. she do have the looks.. kamukha daw ni isabel granada, nicole sherzinger, angel locsin minsan, at chyna cojuangco.. hindi ganun katangkad.. morena.. 5'2-2'4.. hindi ko alam eksaktong height niya.. hehe.. katamtaman ang katawan.. but.. hindi yun ang gusto kong i-highlight sa kanya..

with all of what i've mentioned about her looks.. hindi siya maarte.. no make-ups at all.. minsan powder at blush-on konti.. kahit isaw at fish ball at gulaman lang ang date masaya na kami.. and during our college years (22 pa lang kami ah, graduate last year.. hehe) KOTSE is not a pogi points for her.. gigimik kami.. commute lang ok na.. and she told me after 2 months niya kong sinagot na hindi daw niya ako sasagutin noon hangga't hindi ko siya pinapakilala sa family ko.. which is a plus for me.. ewan ko kung bakit.. haha.. and.. she's still virgin.. and hindi ko pa kinukuha yun sa kanya.. 3 years na kami.. hehe..

i think that made her one of a kind for me.. or.. i can say a rare breed for a woman..

[_Cathy_]

Having the body-built of a care-bear just doesn't attract the kind of attention guys want from girls.

I have to disagree. When I was in college, some of my friends went for "bear" guys. My first BF was one.

[uls]

conscience

haha

tingnan mo naman ginagawa niya sa sarili niya sa kabaitan niya

he lets women walk all over him

[Paul_01]

Some people have conscience

But then again I have no remorse for women who cheat on their BFs/husbands. It's unthinkable.

hmmm.. maybe.. but i think they still do deserve some respect being as a girl..

babae pa din yun.. we do all commit mistakes.. pero iba-iba nga lang ang bigat.. meron para sa Bitay, meron sa Lethal Injection, ant pagmabigat na talaga.. aba.. old schooler na yan.. Garote it is for them.. hehehehe..

[_Cathy_]

well.. she do have the looks.. kamukha daw ni isabel granada, nicole sherzinger, angel locsin minsan, at chyna cojuangco.. hindi ganun katangkad.. morena.. 5'2-2'4.. hindi ko alam eksaktong height niya.. hehe.. katamtaman ang katawan.. but.. hindi yun ang gusto kong i-highlight sa kanya..

with all of what i've mentioned about her looks.. hindi siya maarte.. no make-ups at all.. minsan powder at blush-on konti.. kahit isaw at fish ball at gulaman lang ang date masaya na kami.. and during our college years (22 pa lang kami ah, graduate last year.. hehe) KOTSE is not a pogi points for her.. gigimik kami.. commute lang ok na.. and she told me after 2 months niya kong sinagot na hindi daw niya ako sasagutin noon hangga't hindi ko siya pinapakilala sa family ko.. which is a plus for me.. ewan ko kung bakit.. haha.. and.. she's still virgin.. and hindi ko pa kinukuha yun sa kanya.. 3 years na kami.. hehe..

i think that made her one of a kind for me.. or.. i can say a rare breed for a woman..

There are tons of women like her.

No offense but how sure are you that she's still a virginor nothing ***ual happened with the guys that she cheated with? My ex told me that when people cheat, *** is always in the equation. You don't cheat with another person just for talk/companionship.

[Paul_01]

conscience

haha

tingnan mo naman ginagawa niya sa sarili niya sa kabaitan niya

he lets women walk all over him

hmmm.. i don't know.. hindi ko alam kung bakit hindi ko siya kayang pakawalan.. may instance nun na nasabi ko na talaga na kayang kaya ko na.. which is true.. tinigil ko talaga contact ko sa kanya the whole day.. gusto pa nga niya makipagkita.. pero tinanggihan ko siya.. sobrang cold ko na sa kanya

pero the same day na nag-usap kami, kinagabihan nun.. pinuntahan niya ako sa bahay namin.. humahagulgol siya sa harap ko at nagmamakaawang wag ko siyang iwan.. eh ito si martyr.. hindi ko kinaya.. lumambot agad puso ko.. ayun.. dumating na yung last chance.. hehehe..

[_Cathy_]

conscience

haha

tingnan mo naman ginagawa niya sa sarili niya sa kabaitan niya

he lets women walk all over him

For his GF I don't disagree but other girls should be spared of the wham bham treatment. eg guys who do virgins for the "conquest". That is just plain ruthless. Yun ang walang conscience.

Paul_01, I have to give it to you. You're a good guy and you deserve better. 22 ka pa lang! Dami mo pang mamee meet.

[Paul_01]

There are tons of women like her.

No offense but how sure are you that she's still a virginor nothing ***ual happened with the guys that she cheated with? My ex told me that when people cheat, *** is always in the equation. You don't cheat with another person just for talk/companionship.

ah.. yung una kasi.. wala naman yung naging "sila".. nagkaroon lang siya ng feelings dahil sa absence ko..

yung pangalawa naman.. i'm sure walang nangyari doon.. i can trust myself sa pangalawa.. hehe..

i can say she's still a virgin.. we do make out.. pero walang intercourse.. 3rd base would be the most.. hehehe.. and alam kong virgin pa siya.. hehe.. ^^

[uls]

people tend to think they make intelligent decisions when it comes to choosing a mate

but when presented with a large number of potential mates, it becomes more likely decisions will be based on looks/*** appeal

when people are overwhelmed by a large number of choices, they revert to animal instincts

Quantity May Determine Quality When Choosing Romantic Partners
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases...0415114325.htm

ScienceDaily (Apr. 15, 2010) — The context in which humans meet potential mates has a hidden influence on who they decide to pursue. In particular, when people have a large number of potential dating partners to select among, they respond by paying attention to different types of characteristics -- discarding attributes such as education, smoking status, and occupation in favor of physical characteristics such as height and weight.

A number of studies in recent years have looked at what happens to humans when faced with extensive choice -- too many kinds of chocolate, or too many detergents to choose from at the grocery store. Under such circumstances, consumer psychologists believe that the brain may become "overwhelmed," potentially leading to poorer quality choice or choice deferral. Psychological scientist Alison Lenton, of the University of Edinburgh, and economist Marco Francesconi, of the University of Es***, wanted to know if the same was true of mate choice, given that humans have been practicing this particular choice for millennia. "Is having too many mate options really like having too many jams?" they ask.

The study is published in Psychological Science, a journal of the Association for Psychological Science.

To find out how people respond to relatively limited versus extensive mate choice, Lenton and Francesconi analyzed data from 84 speed dating events, which is where people meet with a series of potential dates for three minutes each. Afterward, the men and women report their choices (a "yes" or "no" for each person). It should surprise no one that choosers generally preferred people who were taller, younger, and well-educated. Women also preferred partners who weren't too skinny, and men preferred women who weren't overweight. Beyond that, though, the attributes that speed daters paid attention to depended on how many opposite-*** speed daters attended the event.

At bigger speed dating events, with 24 or more dates, both male and female choosers were more likely to decide based on attributes that could be judged quickly, such as their dates' height, and whether they were underweight, normal weight, or overweight. At smaller events, choosers were more likely to make decisions based on attributes that take longer to identify and evaluate, such as their dates' level of education, their type of job, and whether or not the person smokes.

[Paul_01]

For his GF I don't disagree but other girls should be spared of the wham bham treatment. eg guys who do virgins for the "conquest". That is just plain ruthless. Yun ang walang conscience.

Paul_01, I have to give it to you. You're a good guy and you deserve better. 22 ka pa lang! Dami mo pang mamee meet.

i guess so.. that i do deserve something better.. kaso ang hirap na eh.. naibigay ko kasi lahat..

hindi naman kasi ako yung mapaglaro (dati pa yun..hehe) sa kanya talaga ako tumino at naging faithful ng sobra.. gave up almost everything.. hayy.. kung ano man ang ginagawa ko ngayon.. sana worth it.. hehe..

[uls]

i guess so.. that i do deserve something better.. kaso ang hirap na eh.. naibigay ko kasi lahat..

hindi naman kasi ako yung mapaglaro (dati pa yun..hehe) sa kanya talaga ako tumino at naging faithful ng sobra.. gave up almost everything.. hayy.. kung ano man ang ginagawa ko ngayon.. sana worth it.. hehe..

ayun lumabas din

laki kasi investment mo sa kanya

kaya bumalik siya sayo

kasi di niya nakukuha sa ibang lalake ang nakukuha niya sayo

nanghihinayang siya mawala ka

generous ka kasi

[Paul_01]

ayun lumabas din

laki kasi investment mo sa kanya

kaya bumalik siya sayo

kasi di niya nakukuha sa ibang lalake ang nakukuha niya sayo

nanghihinayang siya mawala ka

generous ka kasi

that stopped me for a while.. you think so??

well may nagsabi sa akin na nung una pa lang dapat umayaw na ako kasi.. alam daw niya na kahit anong mangyari.. lagi lang daw akong nandun for her.. hmmm..

lahat na ng kamag-anak ko kilala na siya.. but never shared this to anyone of my family members.. kahit isa.. ayaw ko siyang masira sa mga nakakakilala sa amin eh.. hehehe..

[_Cathy_]

people tend to think they make intelligent decisions when it comes to choosing a mate

but when presented with a large number of potential mates, it becomes more likely decisions will be based on looks/*** appeal

when people are overwhelmed by a large number of choices, they revert to animal instincts

Quantity May Determine Quality When Choosing Romantic Partners
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases...0415114325.htm

so what does that say about people who are attracted to non-physical attributes? They have less choice in potential partners?

What if all the choices are attractive to begin with?

[sgt_taga]

i had so many crushes in college, ngaun puro losyang sila ngaun whether sa Amerika sila or dito, when I meet their husbands ganun din. kitang-kita ang insecurity when they see me. and i could just imagine na nagka-crush ako dati sa isang dabiana na ngaun

walanjo! OB FTW!

[_Cathy_]

that stopped me for a while.. you think so??

well may nagsabi sa akin na nung una pa lang dapat umayaw na ako kasi.. alam daw niya na kahit anong mangyari.. lagi lang daw akong nandun for her.. hmmm..

lahat na ng kamag-anak ko kilala na siya.. but never shared this to anyone of my family members.. kahit isa.. ayaw ko siyang masira sa mga nakakakilala sa amin eh.. hehehe..

Dapat ba tipirin ang bf/gf emotionally and financially? Di parang hindi rin love yun kasi you are holding back.

I have to agree na you should not tell your story to your friends and relatives. Kasiraan mo din yan kasi it will reflect na sumablay ka sa choice of partner mo. hehe. Saka kahit papano may pinagsamahan din naman kayo ng GF mo, keep it to yourself na nga lang.