fall out of love

[IIE]

need some opinion,
1. after a year of marriage bakit nagkakahiwalay ang isang pamilya?

2. meron akong nakitang nag-kaanak ng isa naghihiwalay agad, bakit?

3. meron after 2, 4 children saka palang magkakahiwalay.

4. is there a case walang anak or hindi magka-anak maghihiwalay din in the
future meron ba nun?

is this fall out of love? is this the main reason? another man, or another woman? tutal malapit na valentine, usap break ups naman tayo! maiba heheh! opinion, suggestion , anything....

[Jun aka Pekto]

need some opinion,
1. after a year of marriage bakit nagkakahiwalay ang isang pamilya?

2. meron akong nakitang nag-kaanak ng isa naghihiwalay agad, bakit?

3. meron after 2, 4 children saka palang magkakahiwalay.

4. is there a case walang anak or hindi magka-anak maghihiwalay din in the
future meron ba nun?

is this fall out of love? is this the main reason? another man, or another woman? tutal malapit na valentine, usap break ups naman tayo! maiba heheh! opinion, suggestion , anything....

Reasons?

1. One spouse may be cheating on the other

2. The hubby might be a wife-beater or vice-versa although the latter seems unlikely

3. One spouse or the other may be gay and the partner can't deal with it

4. One spouse or the other may not have the maturity to be married, often going out/getting drunk/wasting time with friends rather than be with family.

I've seen all 4 reasons in the Philippines...........

[ghosthunter]

need some opinion,
1. after a year of marriage bakit nagkakahiwalay ang isang pamilya?

2. meron akong nakitang nag-kaanak ng isa naghihiwalay agad, bakit?

3. meron after 2, 4 children saka palang magkakahiwalay.

4. is there a case walang anak or hindi magka-anak maghihiwalay din in the
future meron ba nun?

is this fall out of love? is this the main reason? another man, or another woman? tutal malapit na valentine, usap break ups naman tayo! maiba heheh! opinion, suggestion , anything....

the reasons are varied.

-could be one of the couple is not really ready to settle down
-could be one of the couple have a different life plan from the other and it is not compatible to his/her partner
-could be another man/woman coming into the picture
-financial problems causing stress to an already weak marriage
-some break up because of inability to have biological children. These are cases where adoption is not acceptable
-simple incompatibility of the couple
-the in-laws.

[oliver1013]

Nagsawa sa pinakbet..Gusto naman adobo!!

[uls]

men and women are not meant to live together. they should just live next door to each other and visit once in a while.

hehe

[niky]

It's just plain reality. There are very few people who are "perfect" for each other, but what makes a relationship successful is a couple's ability to compromise personal wants, goals and priorities in order to "make it work".

If you love a person enough to stick through them through the hard times, and if you love each other enough to put aside your differences, then it'll work.

But it has to be two way. If the give-and-take is merely one way, that's a poisonous relationship that'll do no good for either the exploiter or the exploited.

[oldblue]

malakas talaga magpa-out of love ang pa-guilty feeling.

d'ba yan lang namin masarap pag in-love ka lalo na first 2 months, yun tipong kahit ano hilingin ano gawin mali ng isa't isa, napapatawad at nababawale-wala.

pero pag nagsimula na yun paawa, pasumbat, pacontrol, and yun wala kang ng choice, dyan na magstart yun

[Paul_01]

I do suggest a really good book.. "Man are from Mars and Women are from Venus"...

this book would really enlighten the thoughts of the side men and the women.. one example from the book..

men do tend to offer solutions when someone is lurking out his/her problem.. but when do women are discussing they're own problem to other guys.. women do just want the guys to listen and let the guys know how down they are and offer some comfort.. not sloutions

example.. W: Ow no.. today is sunday right?? i forgot to pay a visit to my mom this afternoon in her place.. what would be men's tendency in this one?? M: don't worry let's visit her some other time, just call her and explain why you weren't been able to visit her.. then women will say that "you don't understand......(blah blah)" then Men will answer back then it will result to an arguement which women will say you're not "listening to me"..

but how about when you put it this way.. W: Ow no.. today is sunday right?? i forgot to pay a visit to my mom this afternoon in her place.. then.. M: aww.. how sweet of you to your mom.. don't worry.. try to call her and tell her what happened, i know she'll understand it..

which situation is better? what do you think?

men are guilty of this.. i am.. hahaha..

try reading the book.. the book is kinda pricey.. but it's worth it.. ^^

[_Cathy_]

*GH by "mommy look" you mean she gained weight or she dresses lousy na?

It's always about the looks 'no? Somehow I don't feel so bad about not being attractive. At least I know that the men I am with are after me for my character and values and not just the way I look. (Pampalubag loob yan ng mga hindi guapo/maganda)