fall out of love

[IIE]

need some opinion,
1. after a year of marriage bakit nagkakahiwalay ang isang pamilya?

2. meron akong nakitang nag-kaanak ng isa naghihiwalay agad, bakit?

3. meron after 2, 4 children saka palang magkakahiwalay.

4. is there a case walang anak or hindi magka-anak maghihiwalay din in the
future meron ba nun?

is this fall out of love? is this the main reason? another man, or another woman? tutal malapit na valentine, usap break ups naman tayo! maiba heheh! opinion, suggestion , anything....

[Jun aka Pekto]

need some opinion,
1. after a year of marriage bakit nagkakahiwalay ang isang pamilya?

2. meron akong nakitang nag-kaanak ng isa naghihiwalay agad, bakit?

3. meron after 2, 4 children saka palang magkakahiwalay.

4. is there a case walang anak or hindi magka-anak maghihiwalay din in the
future meron ba nun?

is this fall out of love? is this the main reason? another man, or another woman? tutal malapit na valentine, usap break ups naman tayo! maiba heheh! opinion, suggestion , anything....

Reasons?

1. One spouse may be cheating on the other

2. The hubby might be a wife-beater or vice-versa although the latter seems unlikely

3. One spouse or the other may be gay and the partner can't deal with it

4. One spouse or the other may not have the maturity to be married, often going out/getting drunk/wasting time with friends rather than be with family.

I've seen all 4 reasons in the Philippines...........

[ghosthunter]

need some opinion,
1. after a year of marriage bakit nagkakahiwalay ang isang pamilya?

2. meron akong nakitang nag-kaanak ng isa naghihiwalay agad, bakit?

3. meron after 2, 4 children saka palang magkakahiwalay.

4. is there a case walang anak or hindi magka-anak maghihiwalay din in the
future meron ba nun?

is this fall out of love? is this the main reason? another man, or another woman? tutal malapit na valentine, usap break ups naman tayo! maiba heheh! opinion, suggestion , anything....

the reasons are varied.

-could be one of the couple is not really ready to settle down
-could be one of the couple have a different life plan from the other and it is not compatible to his/her partner
-could be another man/woman coming into the picture
-financial problems causing stress to an already weak marriage
-some break up because of inability to have biological children. These are cases where adoption is not acceptable
-simple incompatibility of the couple
-the in-laws.

[oliver1013]

Nagsawa sa pinakbet..Gusto naman adobo!!

[uls]

men and women are not meant to live together. they should just live next door to each other and visit once in a while.

hehe

[niky]

It's just plain reality. There are very few people who are "perfect" for each other, but what makes a relationship successful is a couple's ability to compromise personal wants, goals and priorities in order to "make it work".

If you love a person enough to stick through them through the hard times, and if you love each other enough to put aside your differences, then it'll work.

But it has to be two way. If the give-and-take is merely one way, that's a poisonous relationship that'll do no good for either the exploiter or the exploited.

[oldblue]

malakas talaga magpa-out of love ang pa-guilty feeling.

d'ba yan lang namin masarap pag in-love ka lalo na first 2 months, yun tipong kahit ano hilingin ano gawin mali ng isa't isa, napapatawad at nababawale-wala.

pero pag nagsimula na yun paawa, pasumbat, pacontrol, and yun wala kang ng choice, dyan na magstart yun

[the_wildthing]

1. Marriage requires maturity. If one or both parties lack it, it's doomed.

2. Marriage takes work. The initial "honeymoon phase" wears off after a year. If one or both are unwilling to work out differences, which there inevitably will be, then the marriage is doomed.

[Lucius]

Immaturity. Baka not yet ready to settle down. Or naiingit sa friends that can do whatever they want.

[bunge]

falling out of love from time to time is natural (very broad topic), sticking with the marriage vow and respecting one another is much more important, whatever the situations may be.

[n2knee]

ninenerbyos naman ako sa mga isinusulat ninyo

[j_avonni]

Fall out of love? Anyway, when you fall in love again, it would be sweeter - especially to another man/woman.

[faith27]

simple: not contented anymore

[zero]

- buhay dalaga at binata pa rin ang mga magulang, neglected ang mga anak.

- walang sariling bahay, nakatira sa magulang or biyenan.

- wala palang ambition ang partner, gastador/gastadora pa.

- drugs

[XTO]

4. is there a case walang anak or hindi magka-anak maghihiwalay din in the future meron ba nun?

mas madali yan kasi walang ibang magsu-suffer kumbaga kayo-kayo lang.
unlike kung may kids na walang kasalanan ay madadamay pa sa kabuktutan
ng dalawa.
in the end, they're both lucky that they already discovered
their differences.

[nemo's friend]

i know of some people who admitted that they should have waited/thought about getting married more. exact words were "mahirap kasi mapag-iwanan ... gusto na kasi ng BF/GF ko ... akala ko kasi ready na ako"

kudos to the tsikoteers who have found their lifetime partners and are still together. you did (and are doing it) right :-)

[IIE]

ang ganda ng message nyo.tugma lahat.

sa mga nakita ko, meron silang anak pero d sila kasal, kung minsan in the end or kung matanda na sila saka palang nila maisip magpakasal.

isa sa din sa factor na nakikita ko, is yun may anak na tapos naghiwalay, kawawa naman ang mga bata, sila ang nagsu-suffer sa mga kagagawan ng magulang. nawawa ang "LOVE" sa isat-isa. kung kelan nagka-anak saka maisip "were not compatible to each other lets be separate."

ano pa kayang mas malalim na dahilan? hehehe!

[empy]

i think these are the warning signs:

1. you never close your eyes anymore when you kiss her lips
2. there's no tenderness like before in your fingertips
3. you're trying hard not to show it, but baby, you know it

[Jun aka Pekto]

i think these are the warning signs:

1. you never close your eyes anymore when you kiss her lips
2. there's no tenderness like before in your fingertips
3. you're trying hard not to show it, but baby, you know it

Close your eyes? Gee, I've never closed mine all these years. It's like a really interactive peep show for me.

[kimpOy]

1. you never close your eyes anymore when you kiss her lips
2. there's no tenderness like before in your fingertips
3. you're trying hard not to show it, but baby, you know it

parang narinig ko na yan ah