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  1. Join Date
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    #1
    need some opinion,
    1. after a year of marriage bakit nagkakahiwalay ang isang pamilya?

    2. meron akong nakitang nag-kaanak ng isa naghihiwalay agad, bakit?

    3. meron after 2, 4 children saka palang magkakahiwalay.

    4. is there a case walang anak or hindi magka-anak maghihiwalay din in the
    future meron ba nun?

    is this fall out of love? is this the main reason? another man, or another woman? tutal malapit na valentine, usap break ups naman tayo! maiba heheh! opinion, suggestion , anything....

  2. Join Date
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    #2
    Quote Originally Posted by IIE View Post
    need some opinion,
    1. after a year of marriage bakit nagkakahiwalay ang isang pamilya?

    2. meron akong nakitang nag-kaanak ng isa naghihiwalay agad, bakit?

    3. meron after 2, 4 children saka palang magkakahiwalay.

    4. is there a case walang anak or hindi magka-anak maghihiwalay din in the
    future meron ba nun?

    is this fall out of love? is this the main reason? another man, or another woman? tutal malapit na valentine, usap break ups naman tayo! maiba heheh! opinion, suggestion , anything....
    Reasons?

    1. One spouse may be cheating on the other

    2. The hubby might be a wife-beater or vice-versa although the latter seems unlikely

    3. One spouse or the other may be gay and the partner can't deal with it

    4. One spouse or the other may not have the maturity to be married, often going out/getting drunk/wasting time with friends rather than be with family.

    I've seen all 4 reasons in the Philippines...........

  3. Join Date
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    #3
    Quote Originally Posted by IIE View Post
    need some opinion,
    1. after a year of marriage bakit nagkakahiwalay ang isang pamilya?

    2. meron akong nakitang nag-kaanak ng isa naghihiwalay agad, bakit?

    3. meron after 2, 4 children saka palang magkakahiwalay.

    4. is there a case walang anak or hindi magka-anak maghihiwalay din in the
    future meron ba nun?

    is this fall out of love? is this the main reason? another man, or another woman? tutal malapit na valentine, usap break ups naman tayo! maiba heheh! opinion, suggestion , anything....
    the reasons are varied.

    -could be one of the couple is not really ready to settle down
    -could be one of the couple have a different life plan from the other and it is not compatible to his/her partner
    -could be another man/woman coming into the picture
    -financial problems causing stress to an already weak marriage
    -some break up because of inability to have biological children. These are cases where adoption is not acceptable
    -simple incompatibility of the couple
    -the in-laws.

  4. Join Date
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    #4
    Nagsawa sa pinakbet..Gusto naman adobo!!

  5. Join Date
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    #5
    men and women are not meant to live together. they should just live next door to each other and visit once in a while.

    hehe

  6. Join Date
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    #6
    It's just plain reality. There are very few people who are "perfect" for each other, but what makes a relationship successful is a couple's ability to compromise personal wants, goals and priorities in order to "make it work".

    If you love a person enough to stick through them through the hard times, and if you love each other enough to put aside your differences, then it'll work.

    But it has to be two way. If the give-and-take is merely one way, that's a poisonous relationship that'll do no good for either the exploiter or the exploited.

    Ang pagbalik ng comeback...

  7. Join Date
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    #7
    malakas talaga magpa-out of love ang pa-guilty feeling.

    d'ba yan lang namin masarap pag in-love ka lalo na first 2 months, yun tipong kahit ano hilingin ano gawin mali ng isa't isa, napapatawad at nababawale-wala.

    pero pag nagsimula na yun paawa, pasumbat, pacontrol, and yun wala kang ng choice, dyan na magstart yun

  8. Join Date
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    #8
    1. Marriage requires maturity. If one or both parties lack it, it's doomed.

    2. Marriage takes work. The initial "honeymoon phase" wears off after a year. If one or both are unwilling to work out differences, which there inevitably will be, then the marriage is doomed.

  9. Join Date
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    #9
    Immaturity. Baka not yet ready to settle down. Or naiingit sa friends that can do whatever they want.

  10. Join Date
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    #10
    falling out of love from time to time is natural (very broad topic), sticking with the marriage vow and respecting one another is much more important, whatever the situations may be.

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