Do you believe in second chances?

[EQAddict]

I want to make amends but I am not sure if he will let me. I don't want to have what ifs lang in my life, that I did not even try to win him back

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Cathy. You keep saying you WANT. You Want him. You want to make amends. You want him to try. Etc.

But hanggang dyan na lang. WANTING is not a strategy. Same way that Hope isnt a strategy.

You arent doing anything except pining away on these forums and with your friends. The only result that will give you is a big fat zero.

Do something. You are adults. And as you say he is the most alpha male ever. So he shouldnt be cowering in fear if you ask him out for lunch. Yes restaurants are opening next week. Be brave. Dont find an excuse not to do anything and then come crying here in the boards all wistful and lonesome.

Doing nothing gets you nothing. As your recent resurgence of communication with him has proven. Yeah he talks to u. Yeah he helps you. But there is no magic, no passion, no intimacy, no promises of the future. Its friendzone or pityzone.

And you havent answered Jut703's question. What is the root cause analysis ? What did u both possess 3 yrs ago? Do u still have it? Does he still recognize it? Have things changed? Etc. What are you gonna do about it? Answer those questions.

Personally i cant believe the super hero greek god adonis elon musk roger federer michael jordan keannu reves that you paint him to be still has no GF or partner at his life stage. Sorry. If he is all that, he probably has one already and isnt man enough to tell you cause he feels sorry for you and your situation. And if he doesnt have one....then Alpha my a$$.

Eh lahat kami dito , we are nowhere near that level of achievement or greatness or uberness or alphaness or manliness or bossingness but we all have life partners . And more are trying to knock on our doors pa! Hehehhehehe.







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