Do you believe in second chances?

[ray_noel]

Oo nga. No point delaying the inevitable. If two adults like each other, just get it on. Strike while metal is hot!

On the other hand, if there is no indication that things will work, just move on. It is fruitless waiting for someone who’s not in any way interested to go thru life with you.


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Is that what they called TOTGA?


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[Gumusut_Amige]

Sa text, lightheartedly. Takot ako itanong sa phone, baka masaktan ako pag hindi na naman sinagot. Parang sa I miss you na hindi nag I miss you too [emoji24]

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ito talaga ang paghandaan mo! hindi talaga pwedeng pakiramdaman lamang kayo.
habang inihahanda ang sarili physically, emotionally and psychologically try to bridge the gap before the d-day.

[uls]

I don't know his intentions nga, sabi ni uls and shadow hindi na romantic, but I still want him

ano sinasabi ni stockengine "his intentions are clear"?

di mo nga alam saan patungo ung pag uusap niyo araw araw

[Egan101]

ito talaga ang paghandaan mo! hindi talaga pwedeng pakiramdaman lamang kayo.
habang inihahanda ang sarili physically, emotionally and psychologically try to bridge the gap before the d-day.

Yep, you’re not like teenagers anymore. You have to be confident and tell the other person how you feel.


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[uls]

malinaw naman sa lalake how Cathy feels for him

pero di alam ni Cathy ano feelings nung lalake para sa kanya

[EQAddict]

Hey Cathy.

If I knew the girl was head over heels over me...it would be the utmost form of cruelty to string her along.

So either he is cruel (which we know he isnt), or he is being kind by consciously, conspicuously and firmly keeping it on the friendzone level.

If he did have feelings for you NOW, i would question his manhood if he didnt take advantage of the situation.

So yeah Ocham's razor....painful as it may seem...he just isnt into you.

Having said that... you still have NOT tried hard enough. Go out with guns blazing. You might hit a soft spot. But you cannot win if you dont try. Die trying damnit. Hope is not a strategy.








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[jut703]

Yeah likely walang gusto sayo yan. If anything he's just being nice by still talking to you everyday on the phone.

You're both in your 30s and 40s right, wala nang point magpaligoy ligoy pa. If you're both single and you both like each other, then progress into a relationship. If it's one sided, then just DTR and live with the unrequited feelings - you've known each other for so long so either he likes you or he doesn't. If he's with someone else, leave him alone.

Sorry for the straight talk but it's better than fantasizing over nothing.

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[_Cathy_]

Hey Cathy.

If I knew the girl was head over heels over me...it would be the utmost form of cruelty to string her along.

So either he is cruel (which we know he isnt), or he is being kind by consciously, conspicuously and firmly keeping it on the friendzone level.

If he did have feelings for you NOW, i would question his manhood if he didnt take advantage of the situation.

So yeah Ocham's razor....painful as it may seem...he just isnt into you.

Having said that... you still have NOT tried hard enough. Go out with guns blazing. You might hit a soft spot. But you cannot win if you dont try. Die trying damnit. Hope is not a strategy.


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How do I do that? I am posting here because I want the perspective of men (all my girl friends boto sa kanya and think I should wait). I don't want to give up not having tried my best since it was my fault why I lost him before. I thought I would be fine without him but I had 3 years of misery.

He knows that I want him back e either cute laugh or change subject, may mga nagsasabi kasi na he might be taking it slow kasi after what I did, it will take some time to cozy up again. I'm thinking how long shall I try to win him back, I don't want to waste years (I already did 3 years) and not have him in the end

[shadow]

Wala na nga pagasa. Tagal ko na sinasabi.

Ano pa ba dapat mong gawin? Eh pag sinasabi mo nga you want him back eh either deadma or iniiba usapan diba? "Cute laugh" for me it's a nice way of saying awkward laugh.
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[_Cathy_]

Yeah likely walang gusto sayo yan. If anything he's just being nice by still talking to you everyday on the phone.

You're both in your 30s and 40s right, wala nang point magpaligoy ligoy pa. If you're both single and you both like each other, then progress into a relationship. If it's one sided, then just DTR and live with the unrequited feelings - you've known each other for so long so either he likes you or he doesn't. If he's with someone else, leave him alone.

Sorry for the straight talk but it's better than fantasizing over nothing.

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Ganun na lang ba talaga pwede mawala feelings when I felt so loved 3 yrs ago, It was probably one of my intense relationships. Sa 13 yrs ko sa Tsikot, I have been in several relationships (and break ups) but none that I've been so vocal about than when I was with him, it was the most intense, I was just so in love.

I appreciate the honesty, pero pure fantasy pa rin ba to try to get back the way things were, we did have a relationship, it's not like he's brad pitt na he does not even know that I exist.

It kills me and I am so frustrated because it's him that I want and nobody else I dunno why with other men it's easy for me to let go, but with him I just can't