Do you believe in second chances?

[_Cathy_]

Fixation is different from reality. Move on. Let him do the effort to want you and be confident with his intentions. The last thing you want is a guy with low confidence and nil conviction. There is nothing alpha about that.

If i am this successful guy with money and power, I can be confident enough to tell someone I want them in whatever way I want it to be.


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It hurts to say it but I don't think he still wants me the same way he used to. Consistent with being alpha because our relationship moved fast, I could not believe that a guy like him wanted me too, stupid me because I ruined it. I want to make amends but I am not sure if he will let me. I don't want to have what ifs lang in my life, that I did not even try to win him back

Pero yun nga, gaano katagal at hanggang saan? I don't want to lose my self respect naman.

[_Cathy_]

Eh bakit parang naging basang sisiw nun iniwan mo siya? Nagka phobia?

Eh kaya nga nawala bilib ko eh.

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hindi nga ko tinawagan in those 3 yrs, in the end ako pa rin "sumuko"

Agree! Lalong tumatagal ewan ko kung alpha talaga...

I'm beginning to question na talaga yun pagka alpha niya.

Alpha diba kung ano gusto gagawin, whatever the cost? Saka wala na paligoy-ligoy pa.

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Yun nga masaklap, ayaw na sakin. I know matanda na ako, but I think I have something to offer din naman. Iningatan ko naman sarili ko. I'm not after his money or looks. It's more on how he makes me feel, I feel safe and protected when I am with him, saka yun nga, tiklop ako sa kanya, bihira lalaki nakakagawa nyan sakin.

Hindi na issue pagka alpha niya, wala ako magagawa kung ayaw mo maniwala, ang issue kung magkakaron pa ba ng "love is lovelier the second time around"

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It hurts to say it but I don't think he still wants me the same way he used to. Consistent with being alpha because our relationship moved fast, I could not believe that a guy like him wanted me too, stupid me because I ruined it. I want to make amends but I am not sure if he will let me. I don't want to have what ifs lang in my life, that I did not even try to win him back

Pero yun nga, gaano katagal at hanggang saan? I don't want to lose my self respect naman.

Grabe ka naman cath, hinde pa.ba enough yun halos gawin mo na siyang diyos and you're very vocal about it sa kanya.

Come to think of it. Pag yun mga post mo dito eh ganun Karin pag kausap mo siya and lahat post mo sinasabi mo rin.

Matagal na wala self respect mo. At least in my opinion, maybe mali ako and others don't think the same way.


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hindi nga ko tinawagan in those 3 yrs, in the end ako pa rin "sumuko"



Yun nga masaklap, ayaw na sakin. I know matanda na ako, but I think I have something to offer din naman. Iningatan ko naman sarili ko. I'm not after his money or looks. It's more on how he makes me feel, I feel safe and protected when I am with him, saka yun nga, tiklop ako sa kanya, bihira lalaki nakakagawa nyan sakin.

Hindi na issue pagka alpha niya, wala ako magagawa kung ayaw mo maniwala, ang issue kung magkakaron pa ba ng "love is lovelier the second time around"

Nasaktan Pride kaya hinde na tumawag. Wala connection sa pagka alpha.

Eh para que pa tumawag eh wala.na nga kayo?


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hindi nga ko tinawagan in those 3 yrs, in the end ako pa rin "sumuko"



Yun nga masaklap, ayaw na sakin. I know matanda na ako, but I think I have something to offer din naman. Iningatan ko naman sarili ko. I'm not after his money or looks. It's more on how he makes me feel, I feel safe and protected when I am with him, saka yun nga, tiklop ako sa kanya, bihira lalaki nakakagawa nyan sakin.

Hindi na issue pagka alpha niya, wala ako magagawa kung ayaw mo maniwala, ang issue kung magkakaron pa ba ng "love is lovelier the second time around"

Hinde ko naman question dati naniniwala.naman ako pero ngayon since nag lockdown at nababasa ko mabuti post mo eh I'm beginning to question na talaga...

Hinde ko talaga maintindihan naging basang sisiw tapos please be careful with my heart/feelings na ngayon?

Kasi for me pag alpha. Tapos nakipah break babae. Fine her lost not mine. Move on to the next woman.

Diba he's the type na he knows what he wants and he will get it by whatever means necessary.

He's in his position now sa work.because he's the man

Hinde mag mokmok na lang

Teka lang after ng break up niyo. Nagka GF pala.ba siya? Ano nangyari break na rin sila?

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[_Cathy_]

Grabe ka naman cath, hinde pa.ba enough yun halos gawin mo na siyang diyos and you're very vocal about it sa kanya.

Come to think of it. Pag yun mga post mo dito eh ganun Karin pag kausap mo siya and lahat post mo sinasabi mo rin.

Matagal na wala self respect mo. At least in my opinion, maybe mali ako and others don't think the same way.


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He knows I worship him hahaha! Hihimatayin talaga mga ex ko if they knew how I was with crush.

I think ang wala self respect yun sinabihan ka na ng ayaw pero hahabol habol pa or those who allow casual s3x hoping that the guy will fall for them, hindi naman ako aabot sa ganun.

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He knows I worship him hahaha! Hihimatayin talaga mga ex ko if they knew how I was with crush.

I think ang wala self respect yun sinabihan ka na ng ayaw pero hahabol habol pa or those who allow casual s3x hoping that the guy will fall for them, hindi naman ako aabot sa ganun.

Eh paano kung hinde din sinasabi na gusto ka pa rin niya paranf pareho lang sa sinabihan ng ayaw na.


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[_Cathy_]

Eh paano kung hinde din sinasabi na gusto ka pa rin niya paranf pareho lang sa sinabihan ng ayaw na.


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Kaya nga ko ganito kasi may mixed signals and for some reason I think kahit konti he still cares for me.

Sabi nga ng girl friend ko, until hindi nang galing sa bibig niya na ayaw na niya sakin at may wife or gf na siya, then it can still work.

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[_Cathy_]

Nasaktan Pride kaya hinde na tumawag. Wala connection sa pagka alpha.

Eh para que pa tumawag eh wala.na nga kayo?

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Ngayon lang ako nakaranas ng binreak ko na hindi man lang tumawag to talk about it or ask what happened

Hinde ko naman question dati naniniwala.naman ako pero ngayon since nag lockdown at nababasa ko mabuti post mo eh I'm beginning to question na talaga...

Hinde ko talaga maintindihan naging basang sisiw tapos please be careful with my heart/feelings na ngayon?

Kasi for me pag alpha. Tapos nakipah break babae. Fine her lost not mine. Move on to the next woman.

Diba he's the type na he knows what he wants and he will get it by whatever means necessary.

He's in his position now sa work.because he's the man

Hinde mag mokmok na lang

Teka lang after ng break up niyo. Nagka GF pala.ba siya? Ano nangyari break na rin sila?

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That was exactly what he did, I broke up with him, hinayaan ako Hindi naman siya nag mokmok. You think he is not alpha just because he is talking to me now? Thankful nga ko dahil hindi niya ko "pinersonal", even after I hurt him, disappeared for 3 years, he still helped me when I asked him to, and his help costs time and money, I think that is as alpha as one can get, inate sa kanya to be protective.

I never asked him what happened in those 3 yrs, ayoko pa magtanong, I want to keep things light

And I do believe may soft spot ang alpha, bakit yung boss ko na suplado, wala pilipino makapag usap dun, pag hindi ko pinansin yun he would chat me, "are you mad at me", "why so silent", "what's wrong" Hindi naman cold and heartless pag alpha male, I think mas sweeter nga when they show a soft spot.

[_Cathy_]

Hinde ko naman question dati naniniwala.naman ako pero ngayon since nag lockdown at nababasa ko mabuti post mo eh I'm beginning to question na talaga...

Hinde ko talaga maintindihan naging basang sisiw tapos please be careful with my heart/feelings na ngayon?


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Assumption yan ng mga tao, na baka kaya may distance siya sakin, kasi I did him wrong in the past

I think alpha or not, human nature na yan? Or you mean dapat hindi siya careful with me?