Budget from your Wedding expenses experience!

[jut703]

gastos kayo ng 1M to 1.5M sa wedding. tapas ma-witness mo lang each year. lumolobo wife mo, tacos nagger pa kasi insecure sya kasi sya tiga-ubos ng pagkain ng anak mo, sayo. hinde nyo naman mapigil kasi taon taon gumagrabe ang inflation. so the more na nagtitiped kayo at nag-stock up sa bahay ng grocery supplies.

then yun na nga there will come up a point in your life. that your so sick of your wife's mouth tapos moron sa opisina, batang-bata wangkata, she looks up to you kasi may posisyun ka na, she respects you, lagi all smiles

tapos paguwi mo sa bahay, ginabi ka na naman, puros na lang dys nahihirapan dito sa house, tapos hinde mo man lang sya msbile ng pasalubong na damit kasi gusto nya small, eh alam mo hinde sya small. pero pag bumile ka ng large, yari ka

so hayun, sane ini-spend mo na lang wedding mo sa isang car.

tapos ang pinakamasakit, yun pamilya at college friends ng wife, galit din sayo kasi sila ang hingahan nya ng sama ng loob

Usually, people who try to inflict misery on others are just really trying to deflect their own misery.

I hope you're having a happy married life minicarph.

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[benchph1]

All i can say is i am Happy that i was able to give my Wife the wedding of her dreams. [emoji4]

The expenses where all worth it.


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[dr. d]

gastos kayo ng 1M to 1.5M sa wedding. tapas ma-witness mo lang each year. lumolobo wife mo, tacos nagger pa kasi insecure sya kasi sya tiga-ubos ng pagkain ng anak mo, sayo. hinde nyo naman mapigil kasi taon taon gumagrabe ang inflation. so the more na nagtitiped kayo at nag-stock up sa bahay ng grocery supplies.

then yun na nga there will come up a point in your life. that your so sick of your wife's mouth tapos moron sa opisina, batang-bata wangkata, she looks up to you kasi may posisyun ka na, she respects you, lagi all smiles

tapos paguwi mo sa bahay, ginabi ka na naman, puros na lang dys nahihirapan dito sa house, tapos hinde mo man lang sya msbile ng pasalubong na damit kasi gusto nya small, eh alam mo hinde sya small. pero pag bumile ka ng large, yari ka

so hayun, sane ini-spend mo na lang wedding mo sa isang car.

tapos ang pinakamasakit, yun pamilya at college friends ng wife, galit din sayo kasi sila ang hingahan nya ng sama ng loob

tunay na may pinagdaraanan si carpy.

will he be able to come out of it, the wiser?

or will he get weighed down by his own baggage, and sink into the abyss of self-pity?

[_Cathy_]

One thing I learned from this thread: The groom still pays for the wedding

Akala ko kasi, modern times, the bride contributes or the couple saves for the wedding. Yung 3 guy friends ko kasi na nagpakasal (less than 5 yrs ago), yung 2 nag save as a couple kasi BF GF na for more than 5 yrs, yung isa naman yung guy ang nagbayad.

Sa UF ko, halos wala silang gastos kasi gift from friends and relatives like dress, videos/photos, cake, flowers etc. The guy only had to pay for the church and that's less than 100k.

[dr. d]

One thing I learned from this thread: The groom still pays for the wedding

Akala ko kasi, modern times, the bride contributes or the couple saves for the wedding. Yung 3 guy friends ko kasi na nagpakasal (less than 5 yrs ago), yung 2 nag save as a couple kasi BF GF na for more than 5 yrs, yung isa naman yung guy ang nagbayad.

Sa UF ko, halos wala silang gastos kasi gift from friends and relatives like dress, videos/photos, cake, flowers etc. The guy only had to pay for the church and that's less than 100k.

hati kami ng ex-girlfriend-turned-wife, because neither of us alone could finance the expedition..

there's no point in assigning who pays for what, because down the road, both will contribute what they can, to achieve the goal.

[_Cathy_]

hati kami ng ex-girlfriend-turned-wife, because neither of us alone could finance the expedition..

there's no point in assigning who pays for what, because down the road, both will contribute what they can, to achieve the goal.

Sa parents ko, my Mom paid for her dress and the entourage. The rest yung Dad ko. Rare ako makarinig na 100% yung guy lang (lucky brides and parents of the bride)

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[2lits17]

gastos kayo ng 1M to 1.5M sa wedding. tapas ma-witness mo lang each year. lumolobo wife mo, tacos nagger pa kasi insecure sya kasi sya tiga-ubos ng pagkain ng anak mo, sayo. hinde nyo naman mapigil kasi taon taon gumagrabe ang inflation. so the more na nagtitiped kayo at nag-stock up sa bahay ng grocery supplies.

then yun na nga there will come up a point in your life. that your so sick of your wife's mouth tapos moron sa opisina, batang-bata wangkata, she looks up to you kasi may posisyun ka na, she respects you, lagi all smiles

tapos paguwi mo sa bahay, ginabi ka na naman, puros na lang dys nahihirapan dito sa house, tapos hinde mo man lang sya msbile ng pasalubong na damit kasi gusto nya small, eh alam mo hinde sya small. pero pag bumile ka ng large, yari ka

so hayun, sane ini-spend mo na lang wedding mo sa isang car.

tapos ang pinakamasakit, yun pamilya at college friends ng wife, galit din sayo kasi sila ang hingahan nya ng sama ng loob

base sa experience ba eto bro? kamusta na yun officemate mo na batang bata wangkata?

[minicarph]

base sa experience ba eto bro? kamusta na yun officemate mo na batang bata wangkata?

mataba na din ngaun kaka milk tea araw-araw

[minicarph]

Usually, people who try to inflict misery on others are just really trying to deflect their own misery.

I hope you're having a happy married life minicarph.

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yes, juts lahat ng kasintada ko at kebigan ko ganyan ang sinapit, kaya wala na kami magpagkwentuhan matino. i mean it's okey if they make kwento about their wives pero kung HoT pa yun wives nila like before when we were younger, as we all were. pero kung ang paguusapan eh sila lang, sabi ko sayo tingen ako ng tingen sa relo.

they got so boring with their less than stimulating lives.

kaya ako nagun napilitan mag-aral ngaun mga topics pang millennial kasi I have nowhere else to network to. mantakin mo mag-aaral aka ng Vlogging. eh wala ako magagawa kaşı if I continue with existing friends / former classmates, I'd fall with that same trap. ayaw ko maging taumbahay at manonood ng lang ng tv every night. mon to Thursday tapos Friday and gusto eh uminom na obviously they're trying to melt down a dying emotion inside.

ang gusto ko sa Friday mag cakes saka mag milkshakes. kasi Mon to Thursday na ako nag-beer or wine sa bahay. part of my secret health regimen ko Yan eh, a beer or a glass of wine a day.

[remzam]

yes, juts lahat ng kasintada ko at kebigan ko ganyan ang sinapit, kaya wala na kami magpagkwentuhan matino. i mean it's okey if they make kwento about their wives pero kung HoT pa yun wives nila like before when we were younger, as we all were. pero kung ang paguusapan eh sila lang, sabi ko sayo tingen ako ng tingen sa relo.

they got so boring with their less than stimulating lives.

kaya ako nagun napilitan mag-aral ngaun mga topics pang millennial kasi I have nowhere else to network to. mantakin mo mag-aaral aka ng Vlogging. eh wala ako magagawa kaşı if I continue with existing friends / former classmates, I'd fall with that same trap. ayaw ko maging taumbahay at manonood ng lang ng tv every night. mon to Thursday tapos Friday and gusto eh uminom na obviously they're trying to melt down a dying emotion inside.

ang gusto ko sa Friday mag cakes saka mag milkshakes. kasi Mon to Thursday na ako nag-beer or wine sa bahay. part of my secret health regimen ko Yan eh, a beer or a glass of wine a day.

Naku pano na yan? Siniwalat mo na secret mo OB. Di na yan secret.

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[benchph1]

One thing I learned from this thread: The groom still pays for the wedding

Akala ko kasi, modern times, the bride contributes or the couple saves for the wedding. Yung 3 guy friends ko kasi na nagpakasal (less than 5 yrs ago), yung 2 nag save as a couple kasi BF GF na for more than 5 yrs, yung isa naman yung guy ang nagbayad.

Sa UF ko, halos wala silang gastos kasi gift from friends and relatives like dress, videos/photos, cake, flowers etc. The guy only had to pay for the church and that's less than 100k.

For me and my wife, since my money is hers and vice versa, we both contributed for the expenses of our wedding. Well it mostly came from our savings. We are both ofw’s


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[thenightcrawler]

gastos kayo ng 1M to 1.5M sa wedding. tapas ma-witness mo lang each year. lumolobo wife mo, tacos nagger pa kasi insecure sya kasi sya tiga-ubos ng pagkain ng anak mo, sayo. hinde nyo naman mapigil kasi taon taon gumagrabe ang inflation. so the more na nagtitiped kayo at nag-stock up sa bahay ng grocery supplies.

then yun na nga there will come up a point in your life. that your so sick of your wife's mouth tapos moron sa opisina, batang-bata wangkata, she looks up to you kasi may posisyun ka na, she respects you, lagi all smiles

tapos paguwi mo sa bahay, ginabi ka na naman, puros na lang dys nahihirapan dito sa house, tapos hinde mo man lang sya msbile ng pasalubong na damit kasi gusto nya small, eh alam mo hinde sya small. pero pag bumile ka ng large, yari ka

so hayun, sane ini-spend mo na lang wedding mo sa isang car.

tapos ang pinakamasakit, yun pamilya at college friends ng wife, galit din sayo kasi sila ang hingahan nya ng sama ng loob

my married friends always say sa mga newlyweds na iworkout ng couple na gawin padin mga bagay na nigagawa nung mag bf gf pa Sila kahit magka anak na (dating, thoughtfulness, surprises, dress up, to look good etc)..

Akala kase pag kasal na finish line na, ndi na masyado mageeffort.. Masarap daw may asawa pero Both should really work hard talaga to keep the fire burning..


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[Walter]

Easier said than done ... Specially when you have kids already ... Like Bill Gates once said in a speech ... "Your parents used to be cool dudes until you came along ..."

[XTO]

pag sarado na isip na mag garbong kasal hindi na mapipigil yan - magagalit pa kapag pinayuhan na magtipid and be wise. spend the best you can afford para walang sisi sa huli pero kapag practical the simplier the better. ganun lang yun

[uls]

in image conscious societies you don't wanna give the impression na nag tipid ka

bad yun

on the contrary you wanna give the impression that money is no object

[dr. d]

in image conscious societies you don't wanna give the impression na nag tipid ka

bad yun

on the contrary you wanna give the impression that money is no object

it is not easy, walking the tightrope.
fall to the left and you're kuripot to the hilt.
fall to the right, and you're a spendthrift with a bleak future for your intended spouse.

[uls]

kaya mas madali magplano ng kasal pag jejemon ka coz you're not image conscious

kahit red ribbon or goldilocks ang cake pwede na

kahit tramway-like buffet ang food mo pwede na

basta busog lahat ng guest

photographer ung pinsan mong may DSLR

[uls]

pero pag sosy mga bisita mo syempre alam nila ang presyo ng lahat

from the venue to cake to flowers to everything

ayaw mo may magsabi "mukhang tinipid no?"

gusto mo sabihin nila "omg that's expensive ha?"

[_Cathy_]

kaya mas madali magplano ng kasal pag jejemon ka coz you're not image conscious

kahit red ribbon or goldilocks ang cake pwede na

kahit tramway-like buffet ang food mo pwede na

basta busog lahat ng guest

photographer ung pinsan mong may DSLR

HAHAHA!!!

Wala bang pintaserong kamag anak at kaibigan mga jejemon? Lol

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[uls]

HAHAHA!!!

Wala bang pintaserong kamag anak at kaibigan mga jejemon? Lol

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haha

even if they did they wouldn't care diba?