bad parenting

[jick.cejoco]

at one point or another, you may have witnessed, seen, observed or watched children or teenagers throwing a fit in public or showing unacceptable attitude or behavior. there are some cases, the children are not alone to blame. for example: mom is carrying a toy poodle or some sort of pygmy dog and the yaya is taking care or carrying the baby at the mall. the kid seems to be second class compared to the family dog. sometimes, both parents work or are at the business and the kids are in disconnect with the world but in the care of a yaya who they can yell at, disrespect and abuse. and when the yaya tells the parents, the parents of course more than likely take the side of their brat. i have seen this too many times at the malls specially with the social climber parents. maybe you, your immediate family have this problem or somebody you know of. the issue here is that these brats are going to get older but still immature. it does reflect on the parents. at one point, i asked both the parent and the kid: who's the parent here?

[Phoenix67]

These parents that you find to be faulty parents were likely brought up that way too kaya sila ganun.

I was brought up old school - no yaya. Ganun din ginawa naming mag asawa nuong nagka-kids kami - hands on.

[albert_b]

The specific scenario above, I agree that the parents need to re-evaluate their style and priorities. Bad parenting indeed.

There are also some parents that could barely make both ends meet even though both are already working. Having a Yaya and not always being there for the kid should be balanced out by both parents by spending quality time either during dinner time every-night or the weekends.

[marktams86]

this got me really worried. my daughter doesn't want to leave her yaya's side no matter what we do. parang nakaktampo nga eh, kasi you look forward to playing with her tapos yaya pa rin nang yaya..

3 years old palang siya and I don't want her to grow up like my brother who is still so dependent on his yaya kahit 16 years old na siya,
langyang yun, pati kape tinitimpla pa rin nang yaya niya...

[badkuk]

i was on my way home one time, i saw this lady with this kid. Biglang nadulas/natisod yung kid, napasigaw yung babae "put_ng ina mo! put_ng ina mo!"

Napaisip ako: if the lady was the kid's mother....:D

[cardict]

i was on my way home one time, i saw this lady with this kid. Biglang nadulas/natisod yung kid, napasigaw yung babae "put_ng ina mo! put_ng ina mo!"

Napaisip ako: if the lady was the kid's mother....:D

Sarap subuan ng siling labuyo

[jick.cejoco]

i was on my way home one time, i saw this lady with this kid. Biglang nadulas/natisod yung kid, napasigaw yung babae "put_ng ina mo! put_ng ina mo!"

Napaisip ako: if the lady was the kid's mother....:D

self confession you'd say

[dale323]

bro, buti sayo one time lang. Ako, sa araw araw na nasa bahay ako, di kumpleto ang gabi pag walang ganyang eksena. Mga anak minumura ng P.I. Hay... Di lang ako makapalag since kamag anak ni misis. totoo rin sabi ni Phoenix67, ganun din sila pinalaki ng mother nun... Nakakapanghinayang lang kasi kulang sa pagmamahal yung mga bata.

[jick.cejoco]

bro, buti sayo one time lang. Ako, sa araw araw na nasa bahay ako, di kumpleto ang gabi pag walang ganyang eksena. Mga anak minumura ng P.I. Hay... Di lang ako makapalag since kamag anak ni misis. totoo rin sabi ni Phoenix67, ganun din sila pinalaki ng mother nun... Nakakapanghinayang lang kasi kulang sa pagmamahal yung mga bata.

it is never too late to correct these unacceptable antics, behavior and attitudes. it will be a rude awakening if it was not a family member who made them aware of their shortcomings. short of being slapped by a stranger. that will put them back to their senses

[Phoenix67]

Madalas kasi they think that raising kids is a burden kaya laging yaya ang solution.

[CLAVEL3699]

this got me really worried. my daughter doesn't want to leave her yaya's side no matter what we do. parang nakaktampo nga eh, kasi you look forward to playing with her tapos yaya pa rin nang yaya.. .

lambing lang ako gusto nyan brod with kasamang yakap at halik... kilitiin mo sasama syo yun.

Pareho naman tayo... yaya ang madalas kasama nang anak ko kasi nasa office kami mag asawa buong umaga at maghapo pero I make it a point na tatawagan ko sya pagdating nya sa house sa kanyang cellphone.

And I always say to my son... mas mahirap sa akin lalaki syo mas madali babae na daddy always love you sabay halik sa lips pa... pag wala ako sa pinas nang matagal I always make tawag sa kanya before he go to sleep.

lambing lang brod at a lot of physical affection sa mga anak.

[jick.cejoco]

Madalas kasi they think that raising kids is a burden kaya laging yaya ang solution.

to those people, i say, if you can't raise children properly, don't have kids. even crocodiles take care of their young,

[Retz]

^

Good point sir. Iba pa rin pag ikaw mismo ang nagaalaga sa bata. Yaya is just an option.

[andywesteast]

Madalas kasi they think that raising kids is a burden kaya laging yaya ang solution.

Not necessarily, a lot of my classmates had yayas when we were kids. Their parents were pretty OK.

The thing is, if one can afford it, a yaya comes very handy. It happens all over the world.

[Retz]

dito sa pinas we have the luxury to have yaya's unlike sa ibang bansa.

[jick.cejoco]

that's the problem, the yaya becomes the parent and the mom becomes a stranger. then the mom even brags about their kids being spoiled. some moms brag about their kids not being able to do their own personal chores. if the yaya can do the breathing for the kid, maybe the mom would want that too

[Retz]

^

kung full time housewife pwede wala na yaya paano kug working mom? lalo na baby pa.

[jansky]

time managament lang naman kailangan wag i-asa lahat sa yaya..

ung mga kids na laging nakadikit sa yaya.. may fault dyan ung parents.. pag uwi sa bahay nde na inaasikaso kids nila.. its either late na umuwi or paguwi tulog na mga bata.. tapos maagang aalis

pagdating naman ng weekends instead na ibigay ung oras sa kids, ipinapahinga na lang

ung ibang relatives namin na full time mom eh ung ugali ng mga anak nila mga bastos.. di ko maisip kung paano nila pinalaki kids nila

[holdencaulfield]

i was on my way home one time, i saw this lady with this kid. Biglang nadulas/natisod yung kid, napasigaw yung babae "put_ng ina mo! put_ng ina mo!"

Napaisip ako: if the lady was the kid's mother....:D

gawi na ng matatanda yan. pag napaano yung bata pinagagalitan.

[holdencaulfield]

yung anak ko inaantay ko sa kumon. yung ibang mga magulang nakikita na nilang nanggugulo na yung mga anak nila parang wala lang. pag pinagsabihan mo yung bata, ang sama ng tingin nung magulang. badtrip kaya naiispoil.