sorry for the cross post.. just need help asap!

hi everyone! I have a major (?) problem after having applied kerosene on my car's paint.

I was advised that kerosene is very effective in removing asphalt and that it is relatively safe. It removed the contamination indeed. Shampooed the car after applying kerosene, cleaner wax and then a mom's S&G.

My problem is i found out just now that the areas applied with kerosene look very dull and flat. it sort of turned matte (YIKES!). it doesn't bead at all and water seems to just roll down from it.

can mere waxing the affected portions resolve this? how and why did this happen.

Thanks in advance! hope someone sees this asap! need all your help