Wedding Etiquettes

[LadyRider]

Naka experience ba kayo dun sa mga kinasal na at doon sa mga kakasal pa lang, nag invite kayo ng lets say a couple, "Mr. & Mrs." tapos ang dumating ay buong pamilya nila? Very unethical diba?

Or isang invitation nakalagay "strictly formal" tapos makikita mo sa wedding merong naka T-shirt or kaya naka jeans....

Or isang RSVP invitation na ang guest nagsabing pupunta tapos hindi naman dumating?

Do share us your experiences here mga Tsikoteers at alam kong naranasan na rin ninyo ito!

[Isuzoom]

invite mo na lang mga people you know who follows the "rules" of your invitation....ke sa ma spoil ang wedding mo...bad trip lang makita mo sila.

[spongee]

depende na kasi yan sa kung anong klaseng angkan meron ka at yung nakaugalian na..at kung anong klase circle of friends mo..

kaya nga minsan yung mga kinakasal nagaadjust ng magiging tema lalo na kung gusto talga nilang makapunta lahat ng mga mahal na kamaganak lalo na yung mga di naman sanay sa mga sobrang pormal na pagdiriwang..

or yung iba naman 2x nila ginagawa seremonya to cater both..isang super solemn super formal na piling-pili ang guests..at isang semiformal affair na para sa lahat...

[yebo]

bakit kasi yung guest ang pinagtutuunan mo ng pansin? ang bida sa kasal ay ang bride and groom, all others are just there as witnesses. ano ba kung dumating sila na hindi formal ang attire (malay mo di nakabili ng damit kasi bumili ng bonggang regalo para sa newly weds), or madami sila at wala sila maupuan kasi reserved ang seats for so many guests lang (malay mo naman sobra tuwa nila na ikakasal ka na at gusto nila maki-share sa hapiness nyo), or hindi dumating (nahihiya kasi wala sila regalo o pambili ng formal attyre na gusto mo, or sobra dami ng gusto pumunta kaya di na lang at baka magalit ka). basta yung ikakasal e happy, nothing else matters di ba.

[Autobeat]

Yup, expected to have some of these. Kaya we just increased the ordered seats sa reception in anticipation of some net increase from unconfirmed guests who may arrive, and those who confirmed but might not actually arrive.

[baker123]

well. regarding weddings. sa amin. we prefer people come as they are comfortable with. mahirap naman i obligate ang guest to wear formal. paano yung mga wala rin ready wear na barong or coat and tie? wag lang naman yung tshirt and beachwalk. hehehe


obligate lang namin mag formal are the sponsors and mga kasama sa wedding (like mga kamaganak/friends na may role sa wedding etc)


in my opinion. not being able to attend an RSVP wedding or not conforming to the Formal Dress request of the Host is not totally unethical. there could be an emergency that coincided with the event. stuffs like that. or they may not be able to afford barong (or they have barong but would not fit) or shy to borrow from others.

one thing thats unethical would be for the host not be happy at the person or couple to have been able to attend the/their wedding not formally dressed. atleast they came right? kahit na their sticking like a sore thumb from all the formally dressed guests on the event.

as for the additional bitbit na kasama, yun ang rude. but it always happens. and so, just adjust a little more seats. kung sila pa iintindihin mo masisira lang araw mo. just be ready for things that "usually" happens.

[MAXBUWAYA]

Thats why my invitation included

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Pork Chop? 1 2 3 4

Soup? Y N

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Sponsors for me should wear formal

as to guest

As long as its not an oven toaster or cup and saucer

[_Qwerty_]

^are you serious maxbuwaya?? you had those in your invitation? ayus yun ah!

depende din sa location nang reception yung outcome nang mga guests.. kung sa 5 star hotel, eh mas malamang na everybody will be in formal kung yun ang nakalagay sa invitation mo..

nangyayari din yung 2 celebration.. isa sa formal place.. then after that the bride and groom goes to the 2nd celebration, minsan sa bahay lang or sa isa pang location na nandon yung karamihan nang kamag anak and other guests.. so don sa 1st location eh talagang pili lang yung papupuntahin.. at naka formal lang talaga lahat..

[Lucius]

Ako I will simply be a "wedding crasher"

[chua_riwap]

Dapende yan sa lugar.

Sa probinsiya namin (up north), ano'ng "wedding ettiquette"? Wala yan........ Magugulat ka na lang, yung mga tao nagsisidating di mo na kilala. Kahit sa malayong barrio, dumarayo. Basta nakarinig ng baboy na kinakatay sa madling araw, "music to their ears" yun! Maaga pa lang dagsa na tao. He-he!