Naka experience ba kayo dun sa mga kinasal na at doon sa mga kakasal pa lang, nag invite kayo ng lets say a couple, "Mr. & Mrs." tapos ang dumating ay buong pamilya nila? Very unethical diba?
Or isang invitation nakalagay "strictly formal" tapos makikita mo sa wedding merong naka T-shirt or kaya naka jeans....
Or isang RSVP invitation na ang guest nagsabing pupunta tapos hindi naman dumating?
Do share us your experiences here mga Tsikoteers at alam kong naranasan na rin ninyo ito!
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November 30th, 2007 11:36 AM #1
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November 30th, 2007 11:48 AM #2invite mo na lang mga people you know who follows the "rules" of your invitation....ke sa ma spoil ang wedding mo...bad trip lang makita mo sila.
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November 30th, 2007 12:10 PM #3depende na kasi yan sa kung anong klaseng angkan meron ka at yung nakaugalian na..at kung anong klase circle of friends mo..
kaya nga minsan yung mga kinakasal nagaadjust ng magiging tema lalo na kung gusto talga nilang makapunta lahat ng mga mahal na kamaganak lalo na yung mga di naman sanay sa mga sobrang pormal na pagdiriwang..
or yung iba naman 2x nila ginagawa seremonya to cater both..isang super solemn super formal na piling-pili ang guests..at isang semiformal affair na para sa lahat...
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November 30th, 2007 12:34 PM #4bakit kasi yung guest ang pinagtutuunan mo ng pansin? ang bida sa kasal ay ang bride and groom, all others are just there as witnesses. ano ba kung dumating sila na hindi formal ang attire (malay mo di nakabili ng damit kasi bumili ng bonggang regalo para sa newly weds), or madami sila at wala sila maupuan kasi reserved ang seats for so many guests lang (malay mo naman sobra tuwa nila na ikakasal ka na at gusto nila maki-share sa hapiness nyo), or hindi dumating (nahihiya kasi wala sila regalo o pambili ng formal attyre na gusto mo, or sobra dami ng gusto pumunta kaya di na lang at baka magalit ka). basta yung ikakasal e happy, nothing else matters di ba.
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November 30th, 2007 02:03 PM #5Yup, expected to have some of these. Kaya we just increased the ordered seats sa reception in anticipation of some net increase from unconfirmed guests who may arrive, and those who confirmed but might not actually arrive.
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November 30th, 2007 02:28 PM #6well. regarding weddings. sa amin. we prefer people come as they are comfortable with. mahirap naman i obligate ang guest to wear formal. paano yung mga wala rin ready wear na barong or coat and tie? wag lang naman yung tshirt and beachwalk. hehehe
obligate lang namin mag formal are the sponsors and mga kasama sa wedding (like mga kamaganak/friends na may role sa wedding etc)
in my opinion. not being able to attend an RSVP wedding or not conforming to the Formal Dress request of the Host is not totally unethical. there could be an emergency that coincided with the event. stuffs like that. or they may not be able to afford barong (or they have barong but would not fit) or shy to borrow from others.
one thing thats unethical would be for the host not be happy at the person or couple to have been able to attend the/their wedding not formally dressed. atleast they came right? kahit na their sticking like a sore thumb from all the formally dressed guests on the event.
as for the additional bitbit na kasama, yun ang rude. but it always happens. and so, just adjust a little more seats. kung sila pa iintindihin mo masisira lang araw mo. just be ready for things that "usually" happens.
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November 30th, 2007 03:06 PM #7Thats why my invitation included
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As long as its not an oven toaster or cup and saucerLast edited by MAXBUWAYA; November 30th, 2007 at 03:09 PM.
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November 30th, 2007 03:46 PM #8^are you serious maxbuwaya?? you had those in your invitation? ayus yun ah!
depende din sa location nang reception yung outcome nang mga guests.. kung sa 5 star hotel, eh mas malamang na everybody will be in formal kung yun ang nakalagay sa invitation mo..
nangyayari din yung 2 celebration.. isa sa formal place.. then after that the bride and groom goes to the 2nd celebration, minsan sa bahay lang or sa isa pang location na nandon yung karamihan nang kamag anak and other guests.. so don sa 1st location eh talagang pili lang yung papupuntahin.. at naka formal lang talaga lahat..
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November 30th, 2007 05:35 PM #10Dapende yan sa lugar.
Sa probinsiya namin (up north), ano'ng "wedding ettiquette"? Wala yan........ Magugulat ka na lang, yung mga tao nagsisidating di mo na kilala. Kahit sa malayong barrio, dumarayo. Basta nakarinig ng baboy na kinakatay sa madling araw, "music to their ears" yun! Maaga pa lang dagsa na tao. He-he!
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November 30th, 2007 06:10 PM #11
Originally Posted by yebo
ditto, hinde naman yun couple ang mapaphiya eh yun mga dumating ng underdress etc...
and expected naman sa lahat ng weddings or even parties na meron laging sosobra na guests eh, so lagi naman meron buffer for "unexpected" guests...
kung gusto invite yun exact numbers lang eh di maglagay sa invitation ng "we have reserved ___ seats for you" so para understood na yun magasawa lang ang invited...
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November 30th, 2007 07:20 PM #12bawian na lang. bulungan mo ang emcee sa reception na medyo 'gisahin' ang mga
pasaway. tiyak mapapahiya mga yan. hehehe... pero after the programme, apologize
na si emcee. pero i-remind pa rin niya kung bakit sila bida - jokingly para hindi masyadong masakit. hehehe...
mostly ang mga pasaway ay yung mga kamaganak ng ikakasal.
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November 30th, 2007 07:45 PM #13normal nayan yan ganyang me mga unexpected guess sa kahit na anong okasyon kaya kailangan talaga me buffer ka para don para lahat masaya.mahirap naman yong me uuwing masama nag loob sa okasyon diba though talagang dimo lahat mapiplease lahat.masama dyan kung ni isa walang dumating sa okasyon na yon
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November 30th, 2007 11:45 PM #14Marami kasing mga ikakasal na sa ordinary restaurant lang ang reception, pero gusto super formal pa. Hindi naman yata bagay yun.
Dun sa nagsasama ng extra guests, expected na talaga yan kaya yung mga hotels and restos, palaging meron around 10% buffer sa tables. Also, meron din naman mga guests na invited buong family pero yung mag asawa lang ang darating, so this would compensate for the other extra guests.
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December 1st, 2007 10:55 AM #15So, in short, dapat ang kinakasal ready for whatever happens! (hehehehe) Di mo naman masisi kase it came with our closely-knitted culture. Tama rin yung iba, kung sa mga probinsya ang kasal, talagang asahan mo na isang barangay din ang darating!
IMHO lang naman kase, yung nag prepare ng wedding should always consider the event will take place, the time it will take place and the people who will be invited.
Bakit ka nga naman magbibigay ng nakalagay "strictly formal" sa invitation kung sa simpleng restaurant lang naman ang kasal? (Diba common sense na yun?) Or coat and tie ang suot tapos summer wedding naman dito sa Pinas? Siguro wag na lang lagyan ng dress code sa invitation or lagay na lang "dress comfortably".
Talagang a lot of factors have to be considered kase kasal yun and this is a very special occasion! Especially for the bride and groom!
Ang mga bida talaga doon ay ang kinakasal that is why they also deserve the respect of the people they invited with whatever wishes the couple has requested diba?
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December 1st, 2007 11:50 AM #16this was what we did exactly during our wedding. at the bottom portion of the invitation, we put that phrase, also, we include " instead of gifts, we prefer monetary support from our guests to help us for our new beginning as a couple". Originally Posted by shadow
Presto! nasunod lahat yun. even the RSVP ek ek, tawagan lahat ng makakapunta at hindi, pero yung gifts ng di nakapunta, nakarating pa din
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December 1st, 2007 12:50 PM #17+1 Originally Posted by yebo
eto lang comment ko: ingat sa mga guest na hindi niyo kilala. may mga dumadating na magnanakaw sa wedding. minsan, ang ganda pa ng suot. formal na formal. yun pala pag nalingat ang mga guest e ninanakawan na ng mga wedding crashers. during our wedding, my bride and i made it a point na pag may nakita kaming mukha na hindi namin kilala, ipinapatanong namin sa best man ko kung sino ang taong ito. kasi nga baka magnanakaw. you can imagine kasi na ang mga guest sa wedding kadalasan e in their "sunday best" kumbaga: mamahaling mga bag at jewelry ang suot, at kadalasan nagkalat pa ang mga digital camera na nakapatong lang sa mga lamesa.
BTT: we didn't mind ano suot nila or kung medyo naghatak sila (basta kilala namin). importante maging masaya kayo ng spouse mo.
also, kudos to our wedding coordinator. siya talaga nag-handle lahat ng sakit ng ulo, even the excess expense. a week before the wedding, nagpa-set aside na siya ng contingency fund specifically nga kung medyo lumagpas ang estimated budget. kaya on the day of the wedding, absolutely wala na kaming pinrublema. (pati mga tip sa mga waiter at bellhops, naayos na din niya.)
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December 1st, 2007 12:52 PM #18er... no offense po pero it's medyo frowned upon to put that it in the invitation. Originally Posted by Sarsi
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December 1st, 2007 01:29 PM #20ganun na ba ako katanda? Originally Posted by MAXBUWAYA
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