i'm sorry to hear your predicament but for me it's better to just turn your back on him.... you're fighting a losing battle... he already made a choice and now he's married... please make yourself forget him... busy yourself.... go out and have fun.....okay lang magmukmok for a few days or months (?) but still you need to go out later on....easy for me to say 'no pero ganun yata ang tama eh... in the long run everything will fall into place.... lastly, take it easy .... don't forget to pray....