Why are you sad today?

**BlancNoir** · February 19th, 2020 07:24 PM

Originally Posted by shadow

Andyan ka rin pala!!! May the best man win na lang.

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Career muna. Pag kasing rami na watch collection ko with KingoftheNorth, baka pwede na.

**johnbreeeezy** · February 19th, 2020 09:10 PM

Originally Posted by misseksaherada

Losing friends sa distance and marriage.. Sad but true.. Yung mga friends ko na nag asawa na pinababayaan ko na.. Kahit nga yung may bf/gf na.. wala ehhhh ganun talaga..
Ms. Cathy don't worry a good husband/wife ay gift kay God. Ang gawin na lang natin let's continue to do our best para maging best version of ourselves.. Para naman magiging gift din tayo sa mga husbands natin.. Yun lang ang kaya natin ma control, so focus tayo sa pwede pa ma improve at magawa pa natin.. Ikaw pa, for sure meron nagkakagusto sayo.. Di ba Ray? Hahahahahaha

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Ano ba tipo sa isang guy Ms. Eks?

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**kagalingan** · February 19th, 2020 09:51 PM

Ito para sa mga babae

manuod kayo sa youtube video mga preaching ni pastor bong saquing (sa christ commission fellowship yan) Hindi ako jan nagchurch pero pinapanuod ko yan pag weekdays kasi no nonsense preaching.

Meron sya sinabi dati. PAg babae eh 40s na tapos single pa din eh tiisin nyo na daw go single all the way kasi umabot ka ng 40single eh sanay ka na mag-isa. Kasi kung talaga magkakapartner in life eh darating yan hindi kailangan hanapin.

Ang important eh you have a community.

**_Cathy_** · February 19th, 2020 10:12 PM

Originally Posted by kagalingan

Ito para sa mga babae

manuod kayo sa youtube video mga preaching ni pastor bong saquing (sa christ commission fellowship yan) Hindi ako jan nagchurch pero pinapanuod ko yan pag weekdays kasi no nonsense preaching.

Meron sya sinabi dati. PAg babae eh 40s na tapos single pa din eh tiisin nyo na daw go single all the way kasi umabot ka ng 40single eh sanay ka na mag-isa. Kasi kung talaga magkakapartner in life eh darating yan hindi kailangan hanapin.

Ang important eh you have a community.

operative word TIIS. Hindi dahil sanay ka sa isang bagay e masaya ka na. I don't believe in that BS. I have a lot of friends who married in their 30s. What is the difference between 38 and 40? So pag 38 pwede pa mag asawa pero pag tungtong ng 40 hindi na?

My Mom has friends in their 60s and 70s at may mga BFs pa (their age) and some remarry. Kaya nga napapaisip ako na why these people can find love and I can't. BTW I will stop this fantasy na magkakatuluyan kami ni crush, 3 yrs na ang napunta sa wala.

It's hard for me to fall in love, and when I do I get tunnel vision

Ang community ba sasamahan ka sa bahay, pupunta sa check up, magbabayad ng bills? Nope. I've opened up my life too much at the board, but if you knew my whole story kakawaan mo na lang ako.

**_Cathy_** · February 20th, 2020 12:31 AM

Originally Posted by vinrem

Don't worry, di kayo nagiisa, may mga nephews and nieces ako, may late 30's, early 30's and mid 30's, until now wala pang asawa, talked to my sister and brother, ayaw pa daw ng mga anak nila mag asawa hehehe.

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Even your nieces? Women have a biological deadline kasi

Originally Posted by misseksaherada

Losing friends sa distance and marriage.. Sad but true.. Yung mga friends ko na nag asawa na pinababayaan ko na.. Kahit nga yung may bf/gf na.. wala ehhhh ganun talaga..
Ms. Cathy don't worry a good husband/wife ay gift kay God. Ang gawin na lang natin let's continue to do our best para maging best version of ourselves.. Para naman magiging gift din tayo sa mga husbands natin.. Yun lang ang kaya natin ma control, so focus tayo sa pwede pa ma improve at magawa pa natin.. Ikaw pa, for sure meron nagkakagusto sayo.. Di ba Ray? Hahahahahaha

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You brought tears to my eyes, thank you because I had to cry this out. I think I am falling into depression, one month na ko na once or twice a week lang pumapasok.

Naiyak talaga ako dun sa mga bagay na hindi natin ma control. What's so tragic is I can't even control myself. My first step to freedom is to let go of crush. I will focus on my health, dati goal ko was to look good and show him what he is missing but now my goal is to have confidence to meet new people.

Starting today no more posts about crush.

**BlancNoir** · February 20th, 2020 12:34 AM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Even your nieces? Women have a biological deadline kasi

You brought tears to my eyes, thank you because I had to cry this out. I think I am falling into depression, one month na ko na once or twice a week lang pumapasok.

Naiyak talaga ako dun sa mga bagay na hindi natin ma control. What's so tragic is I can't even control myself. My first step to freedom is to let go of crush. I will focus on my health, dati goal ko was to look good and show him what he let go, but now my goal is to have confidence to meet new people.

Starting today no more posts about him.

Oh wow!

Congrats Cathy! Hehe

It's a looooong road to recovery.

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**ray_noel** · February 20th, 2020 12:57 AM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Starting today no more posts about him.

Unban na ba si mr big? Joke!!!

Ms cath, how about speed dating? Or visit different places kahit sa Pinas na muna... last out of town mo yata was in taal...
also, south has more to offer pag dating sa mga nature2...

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**ninjababez** · February 20th, 2020 10:54 AM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Starting today no more posts about crush.

very brave statement cathy
supportahan ka ni kimbon dyan

**misseksaherada** · February 20th, 2020 11:34 AM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

You brought tears to my eyes, thank you because I had to cry this out. I think I am falling into depression, one month na ko na once or twice a week lang pumapasok.

Naiyak talaga ako dun sa mga bagay na hindi natin ma control. What's so tragic is I can't even control myself. My first step to freedom is to let go of crush. I will focus on my health, dati goal ko was to look good and show him what he is missing but now my goal is to have confidence to meet new people.

Starting today no more posts about crush.

It is ok to be sad and don't assume na meron ka na depression. My days na it's not a good day for whatever reason. Don't blame yourself din for being sad. If you want to cry, just cry.. Hindi man kita fully maintindihan sa pakiramdam mo but in my own situation I feel down din minsan.. It's ok to be sad and be ungrateful pero wag ka ma stuck dyan.. Try to find positive ways to gradually make you happy and entertain yourself.. I know you will find your way again wag lang magmadali.. Mas mahirap pagdaanan pero kapag nalagpasan masarap naman damhin ang tagumpay.. Then kapag masaya ka dun ka mag count ng blessing baka 100 times happy pa maramdaman mo..
I'm happy for you Miss Cathy na decided ka na to move on at wag na isipin si crush.. True, let's focus to be healthy kasi kapag healthy din mas positive din ang outlook sa buhay.

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**uls** · February 20th, 2020 11:45 AM

iba ung sadness sa depression

depression is when nothing makes you happy anymore

lahat ng enjoy mo gawin dati ayaw mo na gawin... wala ka na gana sa lahat ng bagay

tapos wala ka hope

tingin mo dead end na buhay mo

yan ang depression