Why are you sad today?

[ninjababez]

2020 tama na!!!! Quota na!!!

I found out today that my childhood best friend who I have known since I was 6 years old will migrate to the US!!! Why are all my friends leaving this country!!!

2004 my friend who I love like a sister left (we see each other multiple times a week) so I became closer with my resto buddy who I spent the most time with, then she left 2009 for Australia, thankfully, I was starting my new job so I made new friends, then 2018 my office BFF left for Germany.

Now my childhood BFF is leaving 2020!!! Mukhang sabay pa ata sa month ng last day ko sa position ko

I am starting to think that UF is right na i goal ko na sa buhay ang asawa (that's what she did) because friends come and go

ni-nerbyos ako pagbasa nun 1st line cathy LOL

[_Cathy_]

same Ms. Cathy..
di ko akalain na nakakasawa na din pala maging single.. hahahaha [emoji23]
di ko akalain na darating pala sa point na masarap na din pala mag settle down..
hirap na nga lang maghanap ng matinong lalaki sa panahon ngayon.. *sigh*
may mga asawa na ang mga good guys.. hahahahahaha [emoji23]

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Ramdam na ramdan ko pagiging mag isa when my elders had health issues and all my closest friends started to marry (once nag asawa at nagka anak nagbabago na talaga, and that is considering majority of my friends married in their 30s) Dati kasi madalas kami lumabas pero pag nagka anak, yung weekly namin naging yearly

Kaya pala may mga tao din who stay married kahit miserable sila kasi elders will pass on earlier, friends come and go, children leave when they start their own lives, in the end asawa mo na lang talaga makakasama mo. I just wish I realized this when I was younger, before I let a lot of good men go, nung teens and early 20s parang hindi ka mauubusan ng option, totoo pala yung gigising ka na lang matanda ka na and 20 yrs passed by so quickly Pili ng pili bagsak sa bungi, I HOPE NOT!

Pero bakit lahat ng tao umaalis ng Pilipinas Napapaisip tuloy ako kung balik na lang ako ng US. Ang hirap din talaga ng walang kapatid, dapat may 3 akong kuya, if only my Mom did not miscarry Siguro ang saya saya namin

ni-nerbyos ako pagbasa nun 1st line cathy LOL

sige i edit out ko, pero totoo naman ang pangit ng pasok ng 2020

[misseksaherada]

Ramdam na ramdan ko pagiging mag isa when my elders had health issues and all my closest friends started to marry (once nag asawa at nagka anak nagbabago na talaga, and that is considering majority of my friends married in their 30s) Dati kasi madalas kami lumabas pero pag nagka anak, yung weekly namin naging yearly

Kaya pala may mga tao din who stay married kahit miserable sila kasi elders will pass on earlier, friends come and go, children leave when they start their own lives, in the end asawa mo na lang talaga makakasama mo. I just wish I realized this when I was younger, before I let a lot of good men go, nung teens and early 20s parang hindi ka mauubusan ng option, totoo pala yung gigising ka na lang matanda ka na and 20 yrs passed by so quickly Pili ng pili bagsak sa bungi, I HOPE NOT!

Pero bakit lahat ng tao umaalis ng Pilipinas Napapaisip tuloy ako kung balik na lang ako ng US. Ang hirap din talaga ng walang kapatid, dapat may 3 akong kuya, if only my Mom did not miscarry Siguro ang saya saya namin



sige i edit out ko, pero totoo naman ang pangit ng pasok ng 2020

same tayo Miss Cathy.. Only child din ako.. Nung bata pa ako hindi ako nagwu worry kahit yung parents ko gusto na ako pag asawahin ng maaga..
Deep inside kasi sabi ko nun sa sarili ko.. Ang dami ko pa gustong gawin.. Yung bf sagabal pa minsan sa decision making..
Ngayon madami pa naman ako single friends pero same sayo.. Meron akong group of friends na sila lagi ko kasama sa travel pero nag move na din sila sa ibang bansa.. kaya nakakalungkot na.. wala na masyado magawa dahil walang makasama..
Dun ko narealize na need talaga ng partner sa life.. Yung companion mo sa lahat ng trip sa buhay.. at kasama na din sa mga goals sa buhay..
and ayoko maiwan na single among my friends na single din.. nakakalungkot lalo yun..

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Anong ginagawa ni Kags???!!!!


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[_Cathy_]

same tayo Miss Cathy.. Only child din ako.. Nung bata pa ako hindi ako nagwu worry kahit yung parents ko gusto na ako pag asawahin ng maaga..
Deep inside kasi sabi ko nun sa sarili ko.. Ang dami ko pa gustong gawin.. Yung bf sagabal pa minsan sa decision making..
Ngayon madami pa naman ako single friends pero same sayo.. Meron akong group of friends na sila lagi ko kasama sa travel pero nag move na din sila sa ibang bansa.. kaya nakakalungkot na.. wala na masyado magawa dahil walang makasama..
Dun ko narealize na need talaga ng partner sa life.. Yung companion mo sa lahat ng trip sa buhay.. at kasama na din sa mga goals sa buhay..
and ayoko maiwan na single among my friends na single din.. nakakalungkot lalo yun..

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I'm surprised nga how I was able to cope with being alone, that was unthinkable in my youth. When I was in my teens and early 20s I ALWAYS had a guy around (dating or BF) but these "relationships" were always short lived. Dun lang ako sa 5 yr BF ko tumagal na wala naman pinatunguhan

May isang group of friends ako ang last na single kasi yung isa married last year (pero may 2 single mom na walang BF pero sakin pag may anak hindi na counted as single) Sa former office friends ko LAHAT single pa and we are all in our 30s. Sa HS friends ko 3 lang kami na single (pero pareho silang mistress). Sa college 2 na lang kami na single, yung isa hiwalay sa asawa

Anong ginagawa ni Kags???!!!!


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Childhood BFF ko, siya kasi yun madalas mag dala ng food or regalo sa house and always offers to do errands for me (dog food ni fat lab, buy my kimchi, call people or stuff I need when she is out) I just realized I depend on her a lot too...

[misseksaherada]

May isang group of friends ako ang last na single kasi yung isa married last year (pero may 2 single mom na walang BF pero sakin pag may anak hindi na counted as single) Sa former office friends ko LAHAT single pa and we are all in our 30s. Sa HS friends ko 3 lang kami na single (pero pareho silang mistress). Sa college 2 na lang kami na single, yung isa hiwalay sa asawa

Sa high school batch namin konti palang nag aasawa samin.. Mapa babae man or lalaki.. 30s na din kami.. Sa college friends..
Sa college friends ko yung marami na nag asawa..
Sa colleagues marami pa din ang single.. kaso yung kaedaran ko dun mga lalaki.. Nabbad trip ako kapag tinatanong ako sa relationship status ko.. Hahaha.. Plano ko silang unahan.. For bragging rights.. Hahahahahaha [emoji23]
So far oks pa naman dami pa single at pede kasama sa trip..
Pero kapag may ginagawa na ako like travel, maintain ng kotse, pagbuhat ng mabibigat, atbp.. naturally naiisip ko na.. mas masaya siguro kung may bf naman..

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[uls]

guy friends ko advice sakin pareho lahat -- "huwag ka mag asawa" haha

[misseksaherada]

follow your instinct.. kung di mo feel mag-asawa.. wag..
ako late ko lang talaga naramdaman.. saklap nga lang babae ako may expiration..
dati ayoko ng kids lalo na yung ngumangawa.. ngayon naiinggit na ako sa merong anak.. pero nung bata pa ako.. no way hi-way talaga ako.. parang di ko kaya mag pamilya.. ngayon I think ready na ako..
hirap naman makahanap ng good guys..
syempre tulad nga ng sabi ni Miss Cathy.. porket ba may edad na basta basta na lang din ba papatol sa tira? maghanap nga lang ng sapatos pinag iisipan at namimili ng husto.. pag aasawa pa kaya..
sana lang maka meet na soon at sunod sa timeline ng goals ko.. LOL [emoji23]
2020 please be good sa mga singles na looking for long time commitment / partnership..

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[CVT]

Anong ginagawa ni Kags???!!!!


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Agree with you bro....

Bro.Kags - knight in shining armor!!!

[ray_noel]

Yung bf sagabal pa minsan sa decision making..

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Itong mga ganitong pag iisip, ganun din kaya kami mga guys... hahaha... swerte na kung hindi salungat ang partner sa lahat ng decision mo but sometimes they are there for a reason... kasi minsan yung decision is palpak... hahaha... [emoji2960][emoji3577]


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[_Cathy_]

Sa high school batch namin konti palang nag aasawa samin.. Mapa babae man or lalaki.. 30s na din kami.. Sa college friends..
Sa college friends ko yung marami na nag asawa..
Sa colleagues marami pa din ang single.. kaso yung kaedaran ko dun mga lalaki.. Nabbad trip ako kapag tinatanong ako sa relationship status ko.. Hahaha.. Plano ko silang unahan.. For bragging rights.. Hahahahahaha [emoji23]
So far oks pa naman dami pa single at pede kasama sa trip..
Pero kapag may ginagawa na ako like travel, maintain ng kotse, pagbuhat ng mabibigat, atbp.. naturally naiisip ko na.. mas masaya siguro kung may bf naman..

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Swerte mo naman, pero I assume early 30s ka, ako kasi late 30s na

I never thought I would reach this point in my life when I am losing my friends due to distance or marriage. I've been reading a US based forum and apparently that's a common life cycle pala (losing friends)

[dreamur]

follow your instinct.. kung di mo feel mag-asawa.. wag..
ako late ko lang talaga naramdaman.. saklap nga lang babae ako may expiration..
dati ayoko ng kids lalo na yung ngumangawa.. ngayon naiinggit na ako sa merong anak.. pero nung bata pa ako.. no way hi-way talaga ako.. parang di ko kaya mag pamilya.. ngayon I think ready na ako..
hirap naman makahanap ng good guys..
syempre tulad nga ng sabi ni Miss Cathy.. porket ba may edad na basta basta na lang din ba papatol sa tira? maghanap nga lang ng sapatos pinag iisipan at namimili ng husto.. pag aasawa pa kaya..
sana lang maka meet na soon at sunod sa timeline ng goals ko.. LOL [emoji23]
2020 please be good sa mga singles na looking for long time commitment / partnership..

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Miss ex, nandyan lang si raynoel sa tabi2.

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[misseksaherada]

Swerte mo naman, pero I assume early 30s ka, ako kasi late 30s na

I never thought I would reach this point in my life when I am losing my friends due to distance or marriage. I've been reading a US based forum and apparently that's a common life cycle pala (losing friends)

Losing friends sa distance and marriage.. Sad but true.. Yung mga friends ko na nag asawa na pinababayaan ko na.. Kahit nga yung may bf/gf na.. wala ehhhh ganun talaga..
Ms. Cathy don't worry a good husband/wife ay gift kay God. Ang gawin na lang natin let's continue to do our best para maging best version of ourselves.. Para naman magiging gift din tayo sa mga husbands natin.. Yun lang ang kaya natin ma control, so focus tayo sa pwede pa ma improve at magawa pa natin.. Ikaw pa, for sure meron nagkakagusto sayo.. Di ba Ray? Hahahahahaha

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[vinrem]

I'm surprised nga how I was able to cope with being alone, that was unthinkable in my youth. When I was in my teens and early 20s I ALWAYS had a guy around (dating or BF) but these "relationships" were always short lived. Dun lang ako sa 5 yr BF ko tumagal na wala naman pinatunguhan

May isang group of friends ako ang last na single kasi yung isa married last year (pero may 2 single mom na walang BF pero sakin pag may anak hindi na counted as single) Sa former office friends ko LAHAT single pa and we are all in our 30s. Sa HS friends ko 3 lang kami na single (pero pareho silang mistress). Sa college 2 na lang kami na single, yung isa hiwalay sa asawa




Childhood BFF ko, siya kasi yun madalas mag dala ng food or regalo sa house and always offers to do errands for me (dog food ni fat lab, buy my kimchi, call people or stuff I need when she is out) I just realized I depend on her a lot too...

Sa high school batch namin konti palang nag aasawa samin.. Mapa babae man or lalaki.. 30s na din kami.. Sa college friends..
Sa college friends ko yung marami na nag asawa..
Sa colleagues marami pa din ang single.. kaso yung kaedaran ko dun mga lalaki.. Nabbad trip ako kapag tinatanong ako sa relationship status ko.. Hahaha.. Plano ko silang unahan.. For bragging rights.. Hahahahahaha [emoji23]
So far oks pa naman dami pa single at pede kasama sa trip..
Pero kapag may ginagawa na ako like travel, maintain ng kotse, pagbuhat ng mabibigat, atbp.. naturally naiisip ko na.. mas masaya siguro kung may bf naman..

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Don't worry, di kayo nagiisa, may mga nephews and nieces ako, may late 30's, early 30's and mid 30's, until now wala pang asawa, talked to my sister and brother, ayaw pa daw ng mga anak nila mag asawa hehehe.

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[ray_noel]

Swerte mo naman, pero I assume early 30s ka, ako kasi late 30s na

I never thought I would reach this point in my life when I am losing my friends due to distance or marriage. I've been reading a US based forum and apparently that's a common life cycle pala (losing friends)

Miss ex, nandyan lang si raynoel sa tabi2.

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Losing friends sa distance and marriage.. Sad but true.. Yung mga friends ko na nag asawa na pinababayaan ko na.. Kahit nga yung may bf/gf na.. wala ehhhh ganun talaga..
Ms. Cathy don't worry a good husband/wife ay gift kay God. Ang gawin na lang natin let's continue to do our best para maging best version of ourselves.. Para naman magiging gift din tayo sa mga husbands natin.. Yun lang ang kaya natin ma control, so focus tayo sa pwede pa ma improve at magawa pa natin.. Ikaw pa, for sure meron nagkakagusto sayo.. Di ba Ray? Hahahahahaha

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Kayo talaga... hehehe... ito lang masasabi ko...

ang pag mamahal ay di biro...
Kahit sino pwedeng ma bigo...
Pero Kung gusto mo naman ay lalakeng matapang,
Na handa kayo ipaglaban...sa kahit nino man,
Bakit pa kayo lalayo,
Eh andito lang naman ako, laging naka abang sayo...
[emoji7][emoji3059][emoji8][emoji39][emoji41]

Pero Kung ang hanap mo naman ay katawang hong kong celebrity,
Na laging sinasanto ang tsina at si duterte,
Hanapin mo lang ang pangalang kagalingan,
Siya’y iyong hawakan at huwag pakawalan..[emoji51][emoji3064][emoji2357][emoji2960]


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[ray_noel]

Don't worry, di kayo nagiisa, may mga nephews and nieces ako, may late 30's, early 30's and mid 30's, until now wala pang asawa, talked to my sister and brother, ayaw pa daw ng mga anak nila mag asawa hehehe.

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Dont worry din bruh, may relatives din ako... 55-60 age group sila, until now walang asawa.... sabi nila, may purpose bakit sila hindi nakahanap ng partner, kasi sila yung tumututok sa mga parents nila...financially stable naman at masaya sila na tumutulong sa family nila...


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[dreamur]

On a brighter side, I have a couple of senior managers who seem to be happy with their state of single blessedness. They are quite happy and contented with looking where to invest their funds that they are often visited by real estate and insurance agents and bankers. In my line of work though (like Cathy's), it is quite common to see single women holding high level positions that men would feel intimidated.

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Nagusap yun dalawang old maids. [emoji23] ✌🏼️

Then meron tayong 2 binata. Uls and Kags.

Alam na this!!![emoji180][emoji7][emoji8][emoji76]
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[BlancNoir]

Nagusap yun dalawang old maids. [emoji23] ✌🏼️

Then meron tayong 2 binata. Uls and Kags.

Alam na this!!![emoji180][emoji7][emoji8][emoji76]
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double date!!!! hehehe

[shadow]

double date!!!! hehehe

Andyan ka rin pala!!! May the best man win na lang.


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