What Are You Thinking About?

**leonleon** · May 9th, 2017 04:46 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Why is my life such a big failure. I can't have what you want. What did I ever do to deserve this? I'm not a bad person naman

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May nagsabi sa akin noon, the better question to ask is, "What have you ever done to deserve anything good?". Reflect on that.

**Wh1stl3r** · May 9th, 2017 05:10 PM

So many people have it way worse. Think PWDs, burn victims, rape victims, amputees, refugees, people with genetic deformities, SMEs na walang benta kaya ang daming time mag tsikot...

**remzam** · May 9th, 2017 05:29 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Why is my life such a big failure. I can't have what I want. What did I ever do to deserve this? I'm not a bad person naman

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What is it that you want? And what is it that you really need? Those are two different things.

And tama si whistler. I'm not judging you Cathy but baka problema mo wala kang chocolate today, pero yung nasa kalye walang pang kain ng tatlong araw. Baka problema mo wala kang pang gasolina at pang insurance ng kotse mo, pero yung construction worker di alam san kukuha pamasahe sa jeep na 8 pesos. Or baka problema mo "sobrang taba" mo na, pero yung bata sa Baseco buto't balat, hindi dahil nagda-diet pero walang pambili ng pagkain.

(I used to frequent that place. Dati isang instant noodles pagsasaluhan ng isang pamilya of 6. Mura na yun. Madaming sabaw na tubig at kanin. Ngayon, mahal na ang instant noodles para sa kanila. Ang common ulam dun, yung mga tigpi-pisong chips. Yung maraming asin at betsin. Yun ihahalo nila sa kanin para may lasa)

Just things to ponder Cathy. Again I'm not judging. Just giving a different unsolicited perspective from a tsikot friend.

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**uls** · May 9th, 2017 05:52 PM

Originally Posted by Wh1stl3r

So many people have it way worse. Think PWDs, burn victims, rape victims, amputees, refugees, people with genetic deformities, SMEs na walang benta kaya ang daming time mag tsikot...

hahaha

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**uls** · May 9th, 2017 06:19 PM

Originally Posted by remzam

What is it that you want? And what is it that you really need? Those are two different things.

And tama si whistler. I'm not judging you Cathy but baka problema mo wala kang chocolate today, pero yung nasa kalye walang pang kain ng tatlong araw. Baka problema mo wala kang pang gasolina at pang insurance ng kotse mo, pero yung construction worker di alam san kukuha pamasahe sa jeep na 8 pesos. Or baka problema mo "sobrang taba" mo na, pero yung bata sa Baseco buto't balat, hindi dahil nagda-diet pero walang pambili ng pagkain.

(I used to frequent that place. Dati isang instant noodles pagsasaluhan ng isang pamilya of 6. Mura na yun. Madaming sabaw na tubig at kanin. Ngayon, mahal na ang instant noodles para sa kanila. Ang common ulam dun, yung mga tigpi-pisong chips. Yung maraming asin at betsin. Yun ihahalo nila sa kanin para may lasa)

Just things to ponder Cathy. Again I'm not judging. Just giving a different unsolicited perspective from a tsikot friend.

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she's going thru something now

could be lovelife

it seems she has signs of clinical depression

wala siya gana sa mga bagay bagay na she used to routinely do like clean her car and take care of her dog

wala din siya gana sa work or mag work

i told her nga i was surprised she got herself out of bed today to go to the office

sabi nga niya napapansin ng mga officemates niya malungkot at tahimik siya and they're trying to cheer her up and feed her

sabi din niya gusto niya matulog nang matulog

those are classic signs of clinical depression

ayaw naman niya magpatingin sa professional

**forceG** · May 9th, 2017 08:01 PM

Originally Posted by uls

she's going thru something now

could be lovelife

it seems she has signs of clinical depression

wala siya gana sa mga bagay bagay na she used to routinely do like clean her car and take care of her dog

wala din siya gana sa work or mag work

i told her nga i was surprised she got herself out of bed today to go to the office

sabi nga niya napapansin ng mga officemates niya malungkot at tahimik siya and they're trying to cheer her up and feed her

sabi din niya gusto niya matulog nang matulog

those are classic signs of clinical depression

ayaw naman niya magpatingin sa professional

Mood swings, physical & emotional concerns?baka premature menopausal stage, sorry Cathy its just a thought..✌️

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**_Cathy_** · May 9th, 2017 08:31 PM

Originally Posted by forceG

Mood swings, physical & emotional concerns?baka premature menopausal stage, sorry Cathy its just a thought..✌️

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Thank you for making me feel worst. I might as well just DIE already!

**forceG** · May 9th, 2017 08:38 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Thank you for making me feel worst. I might as well just DIE already!

"Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections but instantly set about remedying them -- every day begin the task anew."

Saint Francis de Sales...

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**shadow** · May 9th, 2017 08:40 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

Thank you for making me feel worst. I might as well just DIE already!

Told yah! [emoji39]

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**_Cathy_** · May 9th, 2017 08:43 PM

Sana masaya kayo making fun of someone who is so down already. Maybe I should stay away from the board as well and stick to it. You people have not the slightest idea what I am going through right now.

This is my ONLY outlet. Hindi naman ako nagsasabi sa pamilya ko sa mga kaibigan ko. And then I get mocked for it. For all those who showed concern for me, you have good hearts. I appreciate it