What Are You Thinking About?

[_Cathy_]

i have never laid hands on my wife, its funny when we talk about it now...its easy to shrugged it off, she is less than 5 feet...its easy to make conclusions if it hasnt happen to you, but the first thing i asked myself was, did i deserve it? yes i did, kulang pa yun...i just took it like a man and moved on, btw, that was years ago, after that we had conselling, then we joined a cell group of couples with similiar experiences...now para uli kaming new couple, trials like that when you go through it will make you better...

I don't think you are the type naman talaga who would hurt a woman. But I could definitely say that I am not capable of hurting my BF or husband. I have experienced abuse in my first relationship. I never fought back. It's just not me.

I think the most that I could do would be a slap on the face pero di ako marunong manuntok. My Mom even gets mad at me when I raise my voice on my BF or when I am being pushy. hehe.

[MR_BIG18]

Yes, that's why I said nothing personal. Cuz i don't know the whole story and it was only based your posts.

I'm thinking now, I guess the biggest mistake I would do to hurt the wife is probably to sire children from other women.




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i know bro, like what i said, we have a group right now, sharing our experiences helps others, may tinutulungan nga kami ngayon, the girl is a lawyer and her husband, yung girl ang naki usap sakin to talk to her husband, i just told her, pabayaan mo muna, if i talked to him, he'll just get mad at you, if its just libido, he'll come back, if may feelings envolve, no amount of counscelling will help, just hope for the best...

[MR_BIG18]

I don't think you are the type naman talaga who would hurt a woman. But I could definitely say that I am not capable of hurting my BF or husband. I have experienced abuse in my first relationship. I never fought back. It's just not me.

I think the most that I could do would be a slap on the face pero di ako marunong manuntok. My Mom even gets mad at me when I raise my voice on my BF or when I am being pushy. hehe.

kaw naman, my wife is less than 5 feet 120lbs, that time i was 250lb at 6 feet, slapping me wont get any response

[MR_BIG18]

i know bro, like what i said, we have a group right now, sharing our experiences helps others, may tinutulungan nga kami ngayon, the girl is a lawyer and her husband, yung girl ang naki usap sakin to talk to her husband, i just told her, pabayaan mo muna, if i talked to him, he'll just get mad at you, if its just libido, he'll come back, if may feelings envolve, no amount of counscelling will help, just hope for the best...

just to add, ok na sila ngayon, saw then at chruch last sunday...

[minicarph]

Im also with cathy and shadow, wives who are physical scare the sh!t out of me. Baka minsan pag gising mo putol na.

I think you should consider finding someone new


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[MR_BIG18]

Im also with cathy and shadow, wives who are physical scare the sh!t out of me. Baka minsan pag gising mo putol na.

I think you should consider finding someone new


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hell no, and replace my bussines manager that can cook also

[Jun aka Pekto]

Wow if me wife did the same thing I bet she have a brand new husband now.

Back then? I can't really blame my mom. My dad didn't exactly have a singing voice either. My dad seemed to take it well although I didn't know much of the politics at home because I spent most of my time outside.

My mom is very physical. She's pretty good with a machete and had killed a number of snakes that took refuge in our property (rainy season). No fear at all.

[_Cathy_]

It seems like ang tatapang ng mga asawa o nanay ng mga tsikoteers

[Jun aka Pekto]

Im also with cathy and shadow, wives who are physical scare the sh!t out of me. Baka minsan pag gising mo putol na.

I think you should consider finding someone new

Too late for me. Besides, I don't know if I really would want to marry a woman who was used to having a maid all her life. My mom wasn't and neither is my wife. My wife had to take care of her family's properties up in the mountains and forests. Not an easy life.

When we still lived in New York, there were a surprising number of Filipinas who lived in the rural areas. Their husbands tended to go hunting and fishing and/or farmed. Filipinas back then had a reputation for being very hardy. They didn't flinch at the sight of blood or the handling of disemboweled animals because they were food.

[_Cathy_]

Too late for me. Besides, I don't know if I really would want to marry a woman who was used to having a maid all her life. My mom wasn't and neither is my wife. My wife had to take care of her family's properties up in the mountains and forests. Not an easy life.

My Mom doesn't know how to cook or wash and iron clothes. My dad doesn't seem to mind, only my Lola does (dad's mom) hahaha


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