Imho, my approach to marriage is more equitable in the sense na its more of a partnership where both parties have a say and participate in decisions. Of course there is the person designated to make the final decision i.e. yung most qualified sa dalawa for example sa finances ako, sa bahay (meals, staff, etc) misis ko, maintenance ng mga kotse ako, etc. walang batas. Lol. Gets ko yung tanungin ang misis re employment because it affects not only the man's future but his wife's and children as well. Pwedeng malaki sahod pero tradeoff malayo opisina, will be away from home more often, etc. Pero sana sinabi niya 'will think about it' kaysa sa 'will consult the wife'. In all seriousness, do husbands on the board make big decisions like career changes without input from your life partner? Parang off din yun for me if my wife suddenly says 'i will be resigning. I accepted a job sa cebu will be moving next week' without consulting me.
Yung sa kulay ng wheels, if money spent is 'ours' and the car will be used by the family, then by all means may say ang asawa kahit sa tingin ng iba trivial. Kahit nga anak may say kung ilalagay sila sa likod tas cramped pala. I think every stakeholder should be welcome to participate. Then bahala na yung decision maker to be as objective as possible to arrive at the best decision for everyone. Lahat naman compromise.
Kahit kotse ko pa yun. Dito nga sa tsikot may opinion mga tao if baduy ang nakitang kotse. Tas yung wife kahit baduy na pala, wala say e sasakay din siya dun. Lol. Pag lumalabas naman kami di naman kami kanya2 ng dala ng kotse.
Sa bag at sapatos ng misis ko di ko naman ginagamit yun. Bahala na siya sa trip niya. Modest manamit misis ko pero if too short or whatnot, kahit nung di pa kami kasal, may veto powers ako.
Also, ayoko ng asawang 'yes sir' lang. I need a wife who complements, not serve me.
Disclaimer: i've been married for less than a decade pa lang naman so not a lot of experience to speak of. Times might change baka ending maging diktador din ako sa bahay in the future. Hahahaha.
Servant leadership naman yung turo samin sa Christian belief. Yung inexemply ni Christ. Leader siya pero hindi siya pagsisilbihan, siya actually ang magseserve.
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of course ibang kaso naman yung work na malayo pero saying to the interviewer than he will have to consult his wife re salary is so weak imo bukod sa unprofessional
sa marriage ng parents ko, hindi naman dictatorship ang Dad ko, in fact, we have family meetings (na hindi nga common sa generation ko) pero clear ang gender roles samin. I guess because we are a traditional/conservative family. When it comes to man stuff, hindi nakiki alam Mommy ko. When it comes to women stuff hindi nakikialam daddy ko (curtain, bed sheet, flowers etc) One thing is for sure we all respect and look up to my Dad. Mahirap explain pero pag bilib ka talaga sa tao, masaya ka na siya na mag decision sa lahat e haha.
Sa family namin pinagsisilbihan in the sense na "alagaan" ang lalaki. Paternal Lola ko idol ko yun sa pagiging maalaga! Kasi yung mga lalaki sa family namin (with FEW exceptions) very "alpha" qualities like strong personality, leader, protective type so the least you could do e pagsilbihan/alagaan sila. Little things, like make sure na ready na food and water pag uwi, maayos damit, change their towels, salubong pag uwi, random calls to say I love you, etc. Sa pag tulog massage Dad ko until he falls asleep. Those small gestures as a show of love for my Dad working so hard to provide for us, protect us and solve our problems. Sobrang idol ko kasi Daddy ko, he is perfect in my eyes kaya hindi ata ako maka asawa, ang taas ng benchmarkYung mga guys naman na similar sa Dad ko older na may asawa
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premium audio set-up and nice listening chair. indeed, if money is no object and you have a submissive wife or an audio enthusiasts wife alike[emoji13]
btw, i know the 2 mono power amps, the blue meters are a given[emoji6] though i'm not familiar with the horn speakers...
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oh i see, avantgarde nga pala, one of the icons in horn loudspeakers
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bumalik na pala ang tv patrol. pero sa a2z channel siya pinapalabas.
ang a2z affiliiate ba ng abscbn o tv 5? may abscbn logo naka-display sa background. kasi sisilipin ko sana ang pba na sa a2z pinapalabas pero tv patrol ang palabas.
the lopezes are now in partnership w/ the romualdezes about some tv broadcasting deal so this definitely isn't a coincidence. i doubt they're going to air anything overly critical about the marcoses anytime soon.
They should criticize the Duterte's![]()
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^ I think that's the plan.
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^ ah ok. Blocktimers' channel Pala Ang a2z
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Looks like a certain someone we all know to well here in the forums has resurfaced for the umpteenth time.![]()
He better stay out of politics
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May serial killer ba sa Pilipinas?
Marami din kaya case ng missing person, pero walang imbestigasyon kaya walang serial killer?
O dahil crowded na ang Pilipinas mahirap magtago ng bangkay kaya tinamad na lang mga psychopath sa Pinas?
O dahil walang winter season? [emoji848][emoji848][emoji848]