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[MR_BIG18]

Very interested in this topic right now, it seems the rainy season is also causing quite a few of the people that I work with to lose motivation and are not coping well with recent economic downturns for them. Ako din tuloy nawawalan ng gana minsan, because 2 of my clients are now cancelling their projects with us.

What do you do to boost those feel-good hormones sir Big?

1st is not giving a Pak, dont sweat the small stuff, dont worry too much, life has a way of fixing things by itself, notice that what you worry about, hindi nangyayari..stay away from negative toxic people, yung laging depressed that keeps on complaining, theyll drag you down, to increase dopamine and serotonin, dapat may hobby, something to look forward to..btw, when im down i drink plenty of black coffee, everything seems ok pag may buzz and overcaffienated...



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[BlancNoir]

Yes sir!

Agree with the hobby, something to look forward to!

Lately ko lang na realise na life really is up and down. So long as our down days are not more than the up days, we'll be fine.

[travajante]

Noted, sir.

Obviously got good grip....& handle, sir.[emoji106]

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[bloowolf]

1st is not giving a Pak, dont sweat the small stuff, dont worry too much, life has a way of fixing things by itself, notice that what you worry about, hindi nangyayari..stay away from negative toxic people, yung laging depressed that keeps on complaining, theyll drag you down, to increase dopamine and serotonin, dapat may hobby, something to look forward to..btw, when im down i drink plenty of black coffee, everything seems ok pag may buzz and overcaffienated...



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Alam mo, someone once told me that. If you want to be happy in life, surround yourself with positive, good people. There is nothing to gain in hanging out with negative people. Also, try not to entertain intrigues. It may be entertaining, but a complete waste of time. Last is try not to be angry. Anger is consuming physically & emotionally.


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[travajante]

Alam mo, someone once told me that. If you want to be happy in life, surround yourself with positive, good people. There is nothing to gain in hanging out with negative people. Also, try not to entertain intrigues. It may be entertaining, but a complete waste of time. Last is try not to be angry. Anger is consuming physically & emotionally.


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[emoji106]

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[minicarph]

down lang feeling nyo kasi Ghost month ngaun.


I tell you story at Baka malinawagan kayo

You know the Gospel of Judas, the lost gospel.

It says there that Judas was the 13th demon, or the God of this material world. Gusto nya I-setup si Jesus kaya Niya ni-reveal sa mga Roman, so that Jesus can wield his divine power, maybe zap a few roman soldiers left and right. But Jesus did the opposite thing and got humiliated and killed. And therefore, we are all saved.

saved from what? naintindihan ko na, save us from this material world. You see Lucifer created this world for us so that we can satisfy our materialistic or even carnal desires (i.e. power, career, lust, ) so kung meron ka bago Montero, or nagkarun ka ng pay raise, or ang Ganda ng damit mo na-in-love kayo seksitary mo , thank Lucifer for that.

The unnamed God, the one true God, let's just call him our Father, is not a biological being nor a material being. He sent Jesus or sent himself in the form of Jesus to understand what it is or why it is that we, his creation are always falling.

so the problem is this world that he created for us which Lucifer took from him to disprove him that we will never ascend . we are too attached to it. and therefore, when we can't get what we want in the norms of this world. we fall into depression or getting lost or whatever

so Maslow's Hierarchy na lang



the topmost part is otherwise called, Transcendence. aka Spiritual purpose. eh pano nga kayo maging spiritual eh buong buhay nyo ang akala nyo materialstic world lang ang to gain. diba?

Think about it ....

[minicarph]

and so let's continue. in case you are wondering, wtH is Spirituality? spirts, ghosts, demons or cosmic thinking like astrology , zodiacs, yoga, meditation, and positivity or optimism.

well, dun papasok ang Holy Spirit. you need to know if the Holy Spirit is with you not because you are special or something, but as guide toe next realm, the spiritual realm. so the things that are happening to me and you or to us right now in this material world, we have to look at in a different dimension or sense, the spiritual sense and therefore, dun kayo magkarun ng growth. and that growth will somehow shield you from feeling lonely or depressed or lost or failure or too happy lol

do take note, that growth is another round of challenges to your life pero hinde naman yun ganito na lang, nag walla Pera o wala Love life wala na, di na sikat na, o Dami na Pera suko na.

[sparc179]

Simple, sir...make love more....not war.[emoji111][emoji16]

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Love is too emotional Master Trav, I would rather just not give in to too much of it, tends to be detrimental when overused, haha.

1st is not giving a Pak, dont sweat the small stuff, dont worry too much, life has a way of fixing things by itself, notice that what you worry about, hindi nangyayari..stay away from negative toxic people, yung laging depressed that keeps on complaining, theyll drag you down, to increase dopamine and serotonin, dapat may hobby, something to look forward to..btw, when im down i drink plenty of black coffee, everything seems ok pag may buzz and overcaffienated...

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Great advice, thanks sir Big. Wala kasing oras makapunta sa gun range eh, sobrang putik pa dahil sa ulan. Hopefully, this weekend will allow us a few hours to sling lead down range. Always good to have a strenuous hobby, yung labas ang pawis. Exercise also increases dopamine and serotonin, I note.

Alam mo, someone once told me that. If you want to be happy in life, surround yourself with positive, good people. There is nothing to gain in hanging out with negative people. Also, try not to entertain intrigues. It may be entertaining, but a complete waste of time. Last is try not to be angry. Anger is consuming physically & emotionally.


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Roger that sir Bloo, that's one of the reasons I hang around here a lot as well, haha. Just having smart exchanges between like-minded people is a good start for the day while having a healthy breakfast and fixing my itinerary. Anger is very heavy on all aspects of life, agreed.



Life truly is what you make of it. You can have all the money in the world and still be depressed, but if you learn to appreciate the things you have, good relationships, health and well-being, you've already made it.


Morning good all.

[_Cathy_]

They can see you are a generous person. Not just with money, but more importantly, with your time for them.

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I'm not complaining but I don't really understand bakit sakin gusto ibigay kaya nagkaka issue. I'm not really that generous with them since I don't have a lot to give. Time, hindi rin masyado hahaha. I know my paternal Lola likes me because I look just like my Dad and I don't disappoint her.

philippine laws on inheritance. i think you have perused them already.
they are protective of the compulsory heir.
one may have to give back, some of that which was already heired to him by the then-still-living heir-givers.
good luck.

Yes I know about the laws of inheritance, that's why I don't know why they insist on giving me more that what is due to me.

Binibigay na nga, tinatanggihan pa.
Pag hindi binigay, eh di hindi.

Nvm what the others in contention are thinking.
Buti di qualification ang may anak na. Heheh

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Mali kasi. Of course, crush also told me to follow the law. Malaki din naitulong ng Tsikot sakin when I asked for advice here. Initially, ayoko din talaga mabigyan yung mga anak ng kuya ko since we are NOT in good relations with the mother and we never really saw them growing up, but I changed my mind because of crush and tsikot and told my paternal Lola ibigay na para tapos na.

Ngayon eto naman kapatid ng Mommy ko gusto yung properties sa PH sakin daw since ako lang daw may malasakit. Maybe because long ago I volunteered for the upkeep of the house and my Lola's grave in the future. Pero ayoko makialam sa agri properties.

di kaya para mapilitan si cathy mag reproduce ^_^
cathy im up for adoption, just incase .. hehehe
mom is willing to disown me anytime hahaha

Sobrang pressured ako, 70s and 80s na family ko and they want me to reproduce! Marami ako pinsan na hindi na pwede mag anak. Yung Uncle and Aunt ko dito sa IL, 2 ang anak pero late na nag asawa kaya di na magkaka anak.

Unless you get a prenup, when you are married, all properties become conjugal property of wife and husband.

Remember, after you finally tie the knot with someone ( crush, perhaps?) you change your last name and that will also need to be reflected in all of your real estate properties to prevent future discrepancies.

A case was related to me by a lawyer-friend wherein a property was claimed by 2 parties coming from the same family and having the same exact names ( they both married into the family).

Money and property really does have a way of changing people, even family.

I like you na! Talagang si crush magiging better half ko? When that happens, siya na bahala sa lahat ng real estate ng side ko since that is his expertise I'm sure yung mga villains sa pamilya ko will NOT cross me, takot lang nila kay crush :P

May year ata na if you were married in xx years, only those properties after the marriage are conjugal? Pabago bago naman ata law natin.

[_Cathy_]

that depends.
nasa pilipinas ba ang mamanahin, o nasa labas ng pilipinas?

Yung properties na Lola ko sa PH, that's what my eldest Aunt wants transferred to me. Yung Aunt ko naman from TN, she doesn't care anymore so she is giving me her share (pero wag ko daw ipaalam sa iba)

My eldest Aunt in SF told me during our trip that she will have her living will modified and remove my youngest Aunt. She joked that she will give my youngest Aunt share to me. Dunno if she is serious but for this US trip she gave me cash and spent for my trip to Vegas. She also plans on taking me to NY but I discouraged her. Stupid me, naubos na stugeron 75 ko and I can't fly without it.

[Little Missy]

Yun din ang alam ko. Yung mga properties after they got married lang ang conjugal.

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[sparc179]

I like you na! Talagang si crush magiging better half ko? When that happens, siya na bahala sa lahat ng real estate ng side ko since that is his expertise I'm sure yung mga villains sa pamilya ko will NOT cross me, takot lang nila kay crush :P

May year ata na if you were married in xx years, only those properties after the marriage are conjugal? Pabago bago naman ata law natin.

You mean you didn't before madame? LoL, just pulling your leg.

But please don't let your emotions for crush cloud your better judgement. As I already mentioned, money changes everybody and not all of us have the foresight to know what will happen in the distant future. Calamities could occur, sickness and disease can also change one's decisions. Just because you love and trust someone it doesn't mean that when the time comes, they will sacrifice everything for you. People have their own needs too, even indirectly, for other people in their lives as well.

I know for a fact, and the wifey agrees, that if given a choice between her and our children, I would choose our kids because their whole futures are still ahead of them.

[MR_BIG18]

Love is too emotional Master Trav, I would rather just not give in to too much of it, tends to be detrimental when overused, haha.



Great advice, thanks sir Big. Wala kasing oras makapunta sa gun range eh, sobrang putik pa dahil sa ulan. Hopefully, this weekend will allow us a few hours to sling lead down range. Always good to have a strenuous hobby, yung labas ang pawis. Exercise also increases dopamine and serotonin, I note.




Roger that sir Bloo, that's one of the reasons I hang around here a lot as well, haha. Just having smart exchanges between like-minded people is a good start for the day while having a healthy breakfast and fixing my itinerary. Anger is very heavy on all aspects of life, agreed.



Life truly is what you make of it. You can have all the money in the world and still be depressed, but if you learn to appreciate the things you have, good relationships, health and well-being, you've already made it.


Morning good all.

Sa lahat ng hobbies na nagawa ko....mtb was the most happy ive been, we usually take off around 530am, sa sobrang excited im awake at 3am most times, it really makes you feel like a kid again, going to far off places with your bike...there are times sa sobrang pagod you want to call home para pasundo..my longest ride was 160km on a all mountain heavy set up, pque to tagaytay-alfonso-indang-trece, daang hari-pque loop...plus there was a typhoon and heavy rains that day...crazy..

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[travajante]

Sa lahat ng hobbies na nagawa ko....mtb was the most happy ive been, we usually take off around 530am, sa sobrang excited im awake at 3am most times, it really makes you feel like a kid again, going to far off places with your bike...there are times sa sobrang pagod you want to call home para pasundo..my longest ride was 160km on a all mountain heavy set up, pque to tagaytay-alfonso-indang-trece, daang hari-pque loop...plus there was a typhoon and heavy rains that day...crazy..

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Why & when did you stop, sir?

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[misseksaherada]

I wonder kung merong TSIKOT sticker dati? Wala lang curious lang baka napagkamalan ko lang na from tsikot yun..

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[ninjababez]

I wonder kung merong TSIKOT sticker dati? Wala lang curious lang baka napagkamalan ko lang na from tsikot yun..

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meron pero maliit lang

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[sparc179]

Sa lahat ng hobbies na nagawa ko....mtb was the most happy ive been, we usually take off around 530am, sa sobrang excited im awake at 3am most times, it really makes you feel like a kid again, going to far off places with your bike...there are times sa sobrang pagod you want to call home para pasundo..my longest ride was 160km on a all mountain heavy set up, pque to tagaytay-alfonso-indang-trece, daang hari-pque loop...plus there was a typhoon and heavy rains that day...crazy..

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MTB'ing was one of my fave activities as well back in the day. After the Pinatubo eruption almost all of the roads were like off road tracks and courses. It was a mountainbiker's dream. Sadly, I broke my clavicle coming down a steep ridge at the Bamban hills one time and since then riding is a bit of a pain for me. I had a first-gen Diamond Back chromoly frame, it was heavy as hell but could really take a beating.

Grabe yung ride na ginawa nyo sir Big, di ka ba nilagnat kinabukasan? That's what usually happens to me after a long ride in the hard rain.

[MR_BIG18]

Why & when did you stop, sir?

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4 or 5 years back, It was replaced by a different joy, taekwondo a childhood sport of mine, now my daughter's, she trains 4hrs, 3-4x a week, we compete frequently, mostly inter schools/cities on the weekends, last PH nationals we bagged the bronze for her age group..i became a stage dad..

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[_Cathy_]

You mean you didn't before madame? LoL, just pulling your leg.

But please don't let your emotions for crush cloud your better judgement. As I already mentioned, money changes everybody and not all of us have the foresight to know what will happen in the distant future. Calamities could occur, sickness and disease can also change one's decisions. Just because you love and trust someone it doesn't mean that when the time comes, they will sacrifice everything for you. People have their own needs too, even indirectly, for other people in their lives as well.

I know for a fact, and the wifey agrees, that if given a choice between her and our children, I would choose our kids because their whole futures are still ahead of them.

hahaha! I trust crush's decisions completely, kaya ko nga siya love because I respect and look up to him. My Mom is that way with my Dad also though my Dad stays out of financial matters from my Mom's side. Crush is multiple times in better financial standing than I am so he has nothing much to gain from me

I don't have a child yet but everyone says the same (re children first) But the bible says spouse first and this will be better for the children daw?

[MR_BIG18]

MTB'ing was one of my fave activities as well back in the day. After the Pinatubo eruption almost all of the roads were like off road tracks and courses. It was a mountainbiker's dream. Sadly, I broke my clavicle coming down a steep ridge at the Bamban hills one time and since then riding is a bit of a pain for me. I had a first-gen Diamond Back chromoly frame, it was heavy as hell but could really take a beating.

Grabe yung ride na ginawa nyo sir Big, di ka ba nilagnat kinabukasan? That's what usually happens to me after a long ride in the hard rain.

Just dont stop biking if that happens, do you notice vapors/steam coming from your body when biking in the rain? Thats the body's way of protecting us from the cold, producing more heat, if youre wet and you stop, dun ka lalamigin, it will sip into your back and lungs, expect fever the following day..

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