need advice and tips regarding "pakikipagbalikan with ex"

[ejr]

Tsikot.com does not allow txt/sms spelled words on the forums.

Also it would be advisable to break up your post into short paragraphs. It would result in your post being read more and with less tsikoteers bleeding from the eyes & ears trying to read a long single sentence mixed with SMS/TXT spelled words.

nadale na din ako nito (sir ghosthunter), english-tagalog daw dapat eh aleman ang naisulat ko.

ala eh, sir ghosthunter kamusta na ga po kayo?

[wren]

First you have to ask yourself is she really worth getting back? Baka naman pag kayo na eh balik nanaman sa dati - selos, mistrust, etc.

Second, this time around, are you serious? Hanggang saan mo ba gustong dalhin yang relationship na yan? I'm asking because you shouldn't spend the next four years of your life stuck in a relationship that is going nowhere. Sayang ang oras.

Are you mature enough to handle a serious relationship as well? If not, I'd say enjoy single life. Meet new people.

i agree with this...

[empy]

this is why you never drunk dial

[shadow]

*TS, more than anyone else ikaw ang nakakaalam kung ano dapat ang gawin, ikaw ang may nakakakilala sa GF mo, gawin mo kung anong tingin mong tama...

ang lungkot ng mga topics ngayon about love kung hinde makikipagbalikan eh paano manligaw....

*TS, mag kwento ka na lang kayo sa other thread na "is physical intimacy important to a relationship?" :hysterical:

[iRevoLution_mo]

To Lucius:

Yun na nga din naiisip ko na move. Naka luhod ako while giving her the roses. At oo nga bro yun na din gagawin ko from now on, hindi ko na pinapakialaman mga faults niya or anything negative all positive na iisipin ko “mamahalin ko siya at mas mamahalin pa at mahal niya ko na akin lang siya at ako sa kanya lang” I felt guilty then sa ginawa ko na hindi pagdinig sa side and explanation niya, parang sa court kailangan pa muna idaan ang na akusahan sa “due process” bago siya bigyan ng pataw na kaparusahan o consequence.
Thanks bro.

To Amihan:

Thanks bro. from time to time then naman kausap ko siya, simula lang nung nangyari puro text na lang. ill do my best. Update ko kayo.

To The_wildthing:

Nung una naisip ko na yun, then I realized that what matters most for me is the feeling na mahal ko siya, being jealous is an immature thing, and mistrust is a wrong thing in a relationship, totally removed na lahat sa akin yon dahil sa nangyari.
Regarding that taking this relationship to the next step. Yes. Kasi sobrang tagal na din kaming naging friends and as parang magkapatid na before since highschool pa, same pa kame, siya unica hija at ako din unico hijo kaya din kame lagi nagkakasundo, dun lang talaga ako sumablay sa nagawa ko.

Meeting new people is ok. But a new love.. . . para sa akin ang hirap. Saying din naman kasi ang dami pa naming ginawang planning ahead.



thanks bro.


To Ronin blade:

As of now naisip ko na din yung humanap ng kapalit, hindi din kasi kaya eh, sobrang attached lahat ng bagay sa paligid ko sa ex ko. And recently I was with some girl na pinakilala sa akin, ok din maganda at from exclusive for girls school, sabi nila sa akin para daw talaga wala ako pagselosan, problem lang wala ko feelings sa kanya eh.



thanks bro.

[vhenok]

Hopefully magkabalikan...if you do, pa-member mo sya dito sa Tsikot hehe...

update mo kami kung ano mangyari sa Thu...gud luck bro!

[iRevoLution_mo]

Update:

Last night, out of the blue habang nanonood kami ng game biglang nag text si ex, tinatanong ako kung nakapag dinner na daw ako, i answered "diba hindi na ko nag didinner? got used to it na." then i asked her kung nasaan siya?, she answered "eto pauwi pa lang galing 1611 sinamahan friend ko may problem kasi" then she asked me kung gusto ko ba daw ng chicharon, oo na lang ako, then sabi niya "say ahh" parang pa sweet na susubuan ako. then sabi ko "ahh..anghang" sabi naman niya water oh? mamam na. bigla ko sinabi "lahat na lang galing sayo ah. ok na laway ko as water" then bigla namin napag usapan kung anung oras ba talaga dismissal nya, sabi nya ang alam sa bahay 9pm pa daw pero 7pm talaga, reply ko "ang layo sa nwebe nun ah, hehe" then hindi siya nagreply an hour passed pauwi na ko, bigla siyang nag text asking me "kamusta ka na dyan?" then hindi na ko nag reply..

[shadow]

*TS, to go down on your knees and beg her to accept you again is pathetic IMO to say the least, walang ka naman ginawang kasalan na malaki eh..? and even so hinde kailan lumuhod...sa movie lang ginagawa yan for dramtic scene purposes....

for me the right thing to do is for both of you to talk about it (relationship) as two adult individuals...

btw, how old are you na ba? I guess based on your last post on how the way you both texted bata pa kayo....take it easy..marami ka pang makikilala..enjoy life dude...

[empy]

^ok yan ah....some couples have phone ***....you guys have "phone feedings" :bwahaha:

[Lucius]

Good good good. Nice developments bro. Keep her hanging for a while. Make her want more. And when you think it's the right time na, give her the prize

[shadow]

^ok yan ah....some couples have phone ***....you guys have "phone feedings" :bwahaha:

hinde ba pareho lang yan ***=feeding? ay....swallow pala dapat...hehehhe :hysterical:

[GroundEffex]

Talk things over before you reconcile. It's like painting a metal na walang primer and as you know kapag walang primer ang pinipinturahan na metal mas madaling kalawangin. Ampaw kumbaga,so basically madaling magkakaroon ng corrosion and dun magstart ang problem. Unlike pag may primer mas maganda at mas tatagal ang condition ng paint.. Getz mo?

[pakupakupaku]

The best thing about break up is the makeup's... just hope we LEARN from our mistakes, specially if "LOVE" is included in the parameters.

[Flagg]

I say:

1.) Inggit lang sayo si empy & shadow kasi sa tanda nila, isa lang alam nilang "feeding".

2.) Do Lucius' down on your knees thing.

3.) Pinapaikot ka lang nyan, so once she's on her knees, do your thing. :naughty2:

4.) After #3, search, lotsa nice chicks around.

5.) Improve your conversation skills. You don't say "anghang" You say, "Sarap, meron pa?"

HTH

[jundogg]

ano ba ang email add nya?
maiforward nga ito, tingnan natin kung patawarin ka nya

seriously, you've learned from your mistake/s.
do whatever it takes to have her back.

good luck!

iparinig mo yun theme song ni bumble bee - Baby Come Back
:hysterical:

OT: kakarindi yun, nun kapanahunan ng Transformers 2007, paulit ulit kong naririnig sa office yun.

[VtEC]

Update:

Last night, out of the blue habang nanonood kami ng game biglang nag text si ex, tinatanong ako kung nakapag dinner na daw ako, i answered "diba hindi na ko nag didinner? got used to it na." then i asked her kung nasaan siya?, she answered "eto pauwi pa lang galing 1611 sinamahan friend ko may problem kasi" then she asked me kung gusto ko ba daw ng chicharon, oo na lang ako, then sabi niya "say ahh" parang pa sweet na susubuan ako. then sabi ko "ahh..anghang" sabi naman niya water oh? mamam na. bigla ko sinabi "lahat na lang galing sayo ah. ok na laway ko as water" then bigla namin napag usapan kung anung oras ba talaga dismissal nya, sabi nya ang alam sa bahay 9pm pa daw pero 7pm talaga, reply ko "ang layo sa nwebe nun ah, hehe" then hindi siya nagreply an hour passed pauwi na ko, bigla siyang nag text asking me "kamusta ka na dyan?" then hindi na ko nag reply..

nalito na ako nyan..una gusto lumuhod then nagpalitan ng txt pero dinaman nagreply , ano ba talaga kuya???diba dapat kung ang intensyon mo e makuha mo sya ulit bakit dimo sya nireplayan?or may pumasok ulit sa isip mo about the 'trust thing?di sa ano paman brod, bakit ganon, ang paalam 9pm actual pala 7pm dapat pauwi na sya?and isa pa, mukhang di naman sya apektado sa break up nyo a.just asking,

i say, leave her alone.find a new one.i smell fishy.

[HyBrideVo]

*Maalaala Mo Kaya music playing*

:tvcomedy: :popcorn: :soda:

[shadow]

I think we are near the climax of the movie where the leading man is down on his knees and asking for forgiveness while crying his hearts out.....:popcorn:

[Syuryuken]

Inggit lang sayo si empy & shadow kasi sa tanda nila, isa lang alam nilang "feeding".

kaya pala marami ng alam sa kamunduhan ang dalawang yan :old:

:hysterical:

[spongee]

kaya pala marami ng alam sa kamunduhan ang dalawang yan :old:

:hysterical:

nagbigay ka advice syur????????????????OH NO!!!