regarding sa "i'm just not normal again", i was refering to myself. introvert kasi ako minsan

regarding sa "taming" part, well, do everything opposite of what you did nung period na nagbreak kayo. hmmm... let's make it simple then.

1st phase: seclusion phase, make her feel how painful it is for her without you. being cold only means that she felt bad of what happened between you THUS, it also means there's a high possibility of you being together again. the key is that you must be the first person to move on so that thoughts of losing you will echo in her.

2nd phase: okay, bengal tigers like eating whatever is big, fresh and moving. just think of your gf as a tiger that is certainly almost impossible to tame. now, since you already know what she likes since you two have been in a relationship, offer her the right stuff to meet her demands. invite her to some kind of private meeting and impose that it's only a friendship/peace offering dinner, etc. don't talk about your past yet, just say that your sorry about what you did and just say "let's move on, we can't be like this forever ya know". then when you feel your relationship is gradually healing, make up for what you did by doing her some favors or serenade her with the song "Just Once" or "how deep is you love" or any song that's appropriate.

final phase: learn from your mistakes and talk it over with her. tell her what you felt during the time when you were away from her and tell her that you miss her, you made mistakes and losing her is your biggest regret and other BOLA stuff you can think of. and try adding some humor in you conversation.

-over and out