need advice and tips regarding "pakikipagbalikan with ex"

[chua_riwap]

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Oo nga......

[iRevoLution_mo]

not gonna happen again mods.

thanks to chua and safeorigin..

na enlighten ako sa mga sinabi nyo.. mga matured persons na nga kayo. unlike me.

share ko sa inyo yung gagawin ko na move:
like what safeorigin said, aun il sure do that. and im planning to go over her house on thursday kasi wala siyang pasok that day, and give her a large bouquet of roses with all different color's and in with the words formed by white roses saying "one last chance?"

okay kaya yun mga bro?

[chua_riwap]

not gonna happen again mods.

thanks to chua and safeorigin..

na enlighten ako sa mga sinabi nyo.. mga matured persons na nga kayo. unlike me.

share ko sa inyo yung gagawin ko na move:
like what safeorigin said, aun il sure do that. and im planning to go over her house on thursday kasi wala siyang pasok that day, and give her a large bouquet of roses with all different color's and in with the words formed by white roses saying "one last chance?"

okay kaya yun mga bro?

Ayos yan Bro.

Ngayon aamuhin mo siya ng husto. Tiyaga lang..........

[iRevoLution_mo]

hindi na po talaga. .

i hope enough na itong nangyayari sa akin to serve as a lesson, kasi sa kanya pa lang ako napaiyak, never encountered na ako umiyak when it comes to this kind of thing.. and i found out na talagang mahal ko siya

yeah mga bro update ko kayo time to time.

thanks ulit

[Lucius]

Get down on your knees

[Amihan]

I hope you and your ex get back together. Sayang naman.

From your account, I get the impression that you have complaints about your girlfriend (in the same way that she has her own complaints about you....hey, that's what relating is all about). My suggestion is for the two of you to take advantage of this opportunity (I'm assuming you will reconcile after much wooing) to talk about your relationship issues. Tingin ko lang, there are problems bubbling under the surface and your break-up was a consequence of perhaps, not communicating enough or, not communicating effectively (though I have to agree with the other posters here that you were reckless in sending those angry text messages).

When you are both calm and ready to talk about what happened, try to hear each other out. When she told you, "di na kaya", mabigat yon!

Lesson learned here is that a break-up is not necessarily, the best solution to relationship issues, especially if you truly love and value each other. You don't have to walk away (or threaten to do so) every time you get into each other's nerves. You may win the argument but lose the woman. Sana, hindi pa huli para sa inyo.

Wooing her back is an important first step in shifting your relationship to a more mature level. I'm glad that you have the courage to admit your part of the blame. You deserve some credit for that, too, kahit damage control mode ka ngayon.

Good luck.

[Lucius]

Bro we're on the same situation. Ako I hear so many things, so what diba. If the girl is yours naman dapat di ka na mag-alala. If she really does things with other guys, just let her. Karma lang yan. But think first, trust your instincts. If feel mo totoo yung mga nasabi sayo, ask her subtle questions first. Dinerecho mo kasi, kahit naman sino masasaktan dun. Dapat nag-consult ka muna samin dati, oh di sana hindi sumasakit puso mo hahahaha

[VtEC]

Get down on your knees

whoa, bro ganyan kadin ba?

[Lucius]

whoa, bro ganyan kadin ba?

DEINS! Hahaha nagwowork lang yan sa mababait. Di naman ako mabait so bakit ko gagawin. Usually, opposite ang nangyayari if you know what I mean

[Syuryuken]

linsyak kang bata ka sa susunod wag ka ng iinom ha

pinakamagandang gawin mo ngayon ligawan mo ulit ipakita mong taos sa puso mo ang pagsisisi sa nagawa mo, punan mo ang mga araw na hindi mo siya nakita

[russpogi]

not gonna happen again mods.

Edit your first post and PM them to me so I can edit your first post. Gets?

[the_wildthing]

First you have to ask yourself is she really worth getting back? Baka naman pag kayo na eh balik nanaman sa dati - selos, mistrust, etc.

Second, this time around, are you serious? Hanggang saan mo ba gustong dalhin yang relationship na yan? I'm asking because you shouldn't spend the next four years of your life stuck in a relationship that is going nowhere. Sayang ang oras.

Are you mature enough to handle a serious relationship as well? If not, I'd say enjoy single life. Meet new people.

[roninblade]

i think "in vino veritas" also applies to one's feelings so pwede din tama instincts mo nung lasing ka.

baka withdrawal symptoms lang yan nararamdaman mo. hanap ka nalang ng kapalit. nothings gets you over the last relationship like the next one.

;)

[wren]

First you have to ask yourself is she really worth getting back? Baka naman pag kayo na eh balik nanaman sa dati - selos, mistrust, etc.

Second, this time around, are you serious? Hanggang saan mo ba gustong dalhin yang relationship na yan? I'm asking because you shouldn't spend the next four years of your life stuck in a relationship that is going nowhere. Sayang ang oras.

Are you mature enough to handle a serious relationship as well? If not, I'd say enjoy single life. Meet new people.

i agree with this...

[empy]

this is why you never drunk dial

[shadow]

*TS, more than anyone else ikaw ang nakakaalam kung ano dapat ang gawin, ikaw ang may nakakakilala sa GF mo, gawin mo kung anong tingin mong tama...

ang lungkot ng mga topics ngayon about love kung hinde makikipagbalikan eh paano manligaw....

*TS, mag kwento ka na lang kayo sa other thread na "is physical intimacy important to a relationship?" :hysterical: