Men by nature polygamous?

[badkuk]

i'd say that, by nature, some animals truly are polygamous. the difference is that we do consider the consequences of our actions and live by a set of moral values.

imho, go ahead and sleep around if you want -- so long as di ka nakakasakit o nagsasamantala.

[creepy]

Polygamy means having more than one wife... I think most men don't really want more than one wife, but they want more than one ___ partner...

[finchy18]

its nature but man can control it.

[niky]

The animals which are non-polygamous? The ones where the females eat the males after mating. :lol:

Men truly are polygamous. But you have a moral duty (di ako papasok sa religion dito, morality lang!) to care for your chidren by your partner. So, in certain social situations, you must remain as monogamous as possible.

If you're really rich, though... heck... spread the love around. :lol:

[rlp1099]

mga dude here's my take on this

hard wired na sa ating yan

there's no denying this

evolutionary, cultural , envrironmental forces have assured that

OT:

BUT how about our fairer halve's being indiscreet?

Yes indiscreet and it comes in many forms

lets not be fooled with our wanting to put the girl next door on the pedestal and think that they would never cross the line

Inifidleity among women exists but it doesn't mean they're ploygamous
Women can be as cunning and deceiving as their male counterpart

we just have to be just a little more enlightened before we we start letting our hormones -same hormones our ladiy friends have- get the better of us

[oldblue]

lets not be fooled with our wanting to put the girl next door on the pedestal and think that they would never cross the line

Inifidleity among women exists but it doesn't mean they're ploygamous
Women can be as cunning and deceiving as their male counterpart

may forum nga na ganito before, not here in tsikot, but it's discussing how men brag about their exploits but they failed to see that their partners are even more cunning. ang term pa nga eh silent but deadly coz with women daw they can still act like they're loving and sweet pero may kalokohan na pala. kayang-kaya kayo pagsabayin as if nothing's odd. Unlike us men, na madali mahuli coz parati may alibi or excuses.

there is truth to this. I have 2 friends na ganito ang situation sa asawa nila. their wives had a quick office affair years ago, but now, the first one had two children pa and the other friend is expecting their first child. the reason of the affair, napapabayaan sila ng mga friends ko during that time.

[city]

men and women cheat if unsastisfied.

[city]

The animals which are non-polygamous? The ones where the females eat the males after mating. :lol:

Men truly are polygamous. But you have a moral duty (di ako papasok sa religion dito, morality lang!) to care for your chidren by your partner. So, in certain social situations, you must remain as monogamous as possible.

If you're really rich, though... heck... spread the love around. :lol:

hahahaha.

[badkuk]

The animals which are non-polygamous? The ones where the females eat the males after mating.

i think dolphins/porpoises/killer whales choose a single mate for life...not sure what happens if the other dies though

[paolorenzo]

...the first one had two children pa and the other friend is expecting their first child.

Sa kanila kaya ito?

[ian_rex]

i beg to disagree.it is only on the mind. ego-driven masculinity. but that's only my opinion.

[margaux]

From my own perspective.....
It's normal for guys to be polygamous.... I have friends na ganyan, even "some" married men. Fidelity is rare nowadays....
pero I think meron din kinalaman ang attitude..

[ian_rex]

i guess, Fidelity is a premium. i share ko lang ito (dito ko rin sa tsikot yata nakuha ito e):

Don't throw away the 90% that you already have!
By Bo Sanchez
>From his book: You Have the Power to Create Love

ADULTERY happens when you start looking for what you don't have.

"Bo, this girl in my office is a real looker," many a husband will say.
"But it's not her Wynona Rider features that got me. I'm head over heels
with her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender-- so many
things that my wife is not."

Sure.

Guys, trust me on this. Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman who
will be more charming. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Be a better cook.
Have greater *** appeal. Be a more efficient housekeeper. And you will find
a woman who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your
wife ever did. Because no wife is perfect. Because a wife will only have 90%
of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband looks for the missing 10%.

Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself drawn to the
pretty clerk who has a cherry laugh no matter what she says: "I broke my arm
yesterday, Hahahaha..." Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and
pajamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young
sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels,
and a red pencil-cut skirt. Or because your wife is the quiet type (a rare find),
your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the
makings of a talk show host like Oprah.

But wait! That's only 10% of what you don't have.

Don't throw away the 90% that you already have!

That's not all. Add to your wife's 90% the 1000% that represents all the years
that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together.
The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments
you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. But
faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have.

But I'm not just talking about marriage. I'm talking about life!
About your jobs. About your friends. About your children. About your prayer
groups. About your lifestyles.

Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks through
the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what he's missing? "They
have got more leg room! Oh my, their food is served in porcelain! Wow,
their seats recline at an 80% angle and they've got personal videos!" I
guarantee you'll be miserable for the entire trip!

Don't live your life like that. Forget about what the world says is first class.
(Do you know that there are many first class passengers who are miserable
in first class -- because they're not riding in a private Lear Jet?)

My main message: If you start thanking God for what you have right now,
wherever you are... is first class!

You have wealth under your nose. Thank Him.

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hindi ako magmamalinis, back when i was younger, mahilig din ako sa adventures. but it has gotten mundane. magulo ang buhay. pero ngayon takot na ako. baka bumalik ang karma...

[margaux]

Wow.....That's an inspiring message. That is actually true. A matter of attitude as what I have mentioned on the last part of my last post.

[empy]

yes.


we are dogs

[ian_rex]

yes.


we are dogs

ok then but dogs are known for their loyalty.

[margaux]

ianrex: do you really mean that??

[ian_rex]

yes. dogs are the most loyal animal in the earth. i should know because i'm a dog owner.

[margaux]

I'm a dog owner as well. That's why people define them as man's best friend. Okay, enough with dogs.... as long as the guy is loyal by the time they're married, there's no prob. I hate married people who still flirt. No offense meant....

[ian_rex]

that is because they are willing to risk 90% over the 10%. stupid of them. :D