Men by nature polygamous?

**ian_rex** · January 28th, 2006 09:16 AM

i beg to disagree.it is only on the mind. ego-driven masculinity. but that's only my opinion.

**margaux** · January 28th, 2006 09:42 AM

From my own perspective.....
It's normal for guys to be polygamous.... I have friends na ganyan, even "some" married men. Fidelity is rare nowadays....
pero I think meron din kinalaman ang attitude..

**ian_rex** · January 28th, 2006 10:10 AM

i guess, Fidelity is a premium. i share ko lang ito (dito ko rin sa tsikot yata nakuha ito e):

Don't throw away the 90% that you already have!
By Bo Sanchez
>From his book: You Have the Power to Create Love

ADULTERY happens when you start looking for what you don't have.

"Bo, this girl in my office is a real looker," many a husband will say.
"But it's not her Wynona Rider features that got me. I'm head over heels
with her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender-- so many
things that my wife is not."

Sure.

Guys, trust me on this. Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman who
will be more charming. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Be a better cook.
Have greater *** appeal. Be a more efficient housekeeper. And you will find
a woman who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your
wife ever did. Because no wife is perfect. Because a wife will only have 90%
of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband looks for the missing 10%.

Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself drawn to the
pretty clerk who has a cherry laugh no matter what she says: "I broke my arm
yesterday, Hahahaha..." Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and
pajamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young
sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels,
and a red pencil-cut skirt. Or because your wife is the quiet type (a rare find),
your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the
makings of a talk show host like Oprah.

But wait! That's only 10% of what you don't have.

Don't throw away the 90% that you already have!

That's not all. Add to your wife's 90% the 1000% that represents all the years
that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together.
The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments
you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. But
faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have.

But I'm not just talking about marriage. I'm talking about life!
About your jobs. About your friends. About your children. About your prayer
groups. About your lifestyles.

Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks through
the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what he's missing? "They
have got more leg room! Oh my, their food is served in porcelain! Wow,
their seats recline at an 80% angle and they've got personal videos!" I
guarantee you'll be miserable for the entire trip!

Don't live your life like that. Forget about what the world says is first class.
(Do you know that there are many first class passengers who are miserable
in first class -- because they're not riding in a private Lear Jet?)

My main message: If you start thanking God for what you have right now,
wherever you are... is first class!

You have wealth under your nose. Thank Him.

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hindi ako magmamalinis, back when i was younger, mahilig din ako sa adventures. but it has gotten mundane. magulo ang buhay. pero ngayon takot na ako. baka bumalik ang karma...

**margaux** · January 28th, 2006 10:16 AM

Wow.....That's an inspiring message. That is actually true. A matter of attitude as what I have mentioned on the last part of my last post.

**empy** · January 28th, 2006 11:28 AM

yes.

we are dogs

**ian_rex** · January 28th, 2006 11:54 AM

Originally Posted by M54 Powered

yes.

we are dogs

ok then but dogs are known for their loyalty.

**margaux** · January 28th, 2006 11:56 AM

ianrex: do you really mean that??

**ian_rex** · January 28th, 2006 12:02 PM

yes. dogs are the most loyal animal in the earth. i should know because i'm a dog owner.

**margaux** · January 28th, 2006 12:06 PM

I'm a dog owner as well. That's why people define them as man's best friend. Okay, enough with dogs.... as long as the guy is loyal by the time they're married, there's no prob. I hate married people who still flirt. No offense meant....