How would you react?

[VtEC]

If you are familiar with maury show, this is related.
Anyway, heto ang scenario,
You are married for 8yrs and was gifted of 4 siblings.Then your wife made a confession. On that 8yrs of marriage she had an affair and one or two of the siblings might not be yours, HOW WOULD YOU REACT?




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[oldblue]

i will just ask her if the affair is over? if she answers yes, then I'll get mad, break everything in the room, then calm down, approach her with droopy eyes and ask her again: "is it really over, pls. tell me?" if she answers yes again with tears and she seemed so sincere. I'll pause for a while, smile at her, touch her cheeks and tell her: "I forgive you."

then in the next days to come, I'll visit my travel agent, spend some of our life savings to book a travel package to all the place that I wanted to go. I will travel in style and pick any random girl na ma-type-an ko along the way, to come and spend with me, my money and my new found freedom.

[Lucius]

Hmmm... if after nung test and sinabi ni Maury na... "Kap, you ARE NOT.. the FATHER!".. Matuwa pa ko cos a woman who can't stick to one she married, then she doesn't deserve to have me as her husband. And to think na may seed sila nung kalaguyo nya.. Sakit nun sobra pero ako siguro easy lang maka-move on na ko. Kunin ko yung sakin na anak talaga.

Kaya ngayon mas ok yata may pre-nup hahahaha

[FullThrottle]

Hmm hard to say... ewan ko siguro mapapatawad ko naman misis ko pagkatapos ng :burp:



tapos yun namang lalaki :nolurk:

[VtEC]

Hmmm... if after nung test and sinabi ni Maury na... "Kap, you ARE NOT.. the FATHER!".. Matuwa pa ko cos a woman who can't stick to one she married, then she doesn't deserve to have me as her husband. And to think na may seed sila nung kalaguyo nya.. Sakit nun sobra pero ako siguro easy lang maka-move on na ko. Kunin ko yung sakin na anak talaga.

Kaya ngayon mas ok yata may pre-nup hahahaha

Ha ha ha ha ha ha, kuhang kuha mo Kap.

[bbt]

ako ok lang, kasi hindi ko naman talaga SIBLING yung anak ng asawa ko hehehe

[niky]

Hard to say.

In all honesty, can any of us say that we would forgive our wives readily?

But there's one thing there... I would not leave the kids. Anak mo yan, whether or not they're your own flesh and blood... Who you consider family isn't based only on who's related to you by blood, but by the life you've shared together (kaya nga may asawa, di ba? Otherwise we'd all be marrying our cousins!). If, after two to four years with a kid, you don't have that bond... sayang.

Kung gusto niya (wife) umalis... it's her perogative. But if she wants to stay and work things out... even if we can't be husband and wife, or even just friends in the end... at least our kids will have both a father and mother.

[mazdamazda]

:cry:

:faint:

Katakot ang ganyang scenario... I'd get away from it all for a few days... but I would forgive her eventually. No sin is too big for forgiveness.

[pobreparin]

malamang magwawala ako....and might not talk to her for a couple of days..then after I calm down, I'd probably talk with her about the matter....ask what made her do it....forgiveness might come after some time...not instantly.....who knows, baka matuloy pa rin ang relationship namin,di ba?I will just let time heal the heartache....

one thing I'm sure though is that hindi mababago ang pagtingin ko dun sa bata...walang kasalanan yung bata sa nangyari.....I will still treat him as my own....

[Galactus]

Parang mahirap ma-visualize yung scenario...dead na dead kasi si misis sa akin, ehehehe

Yung Maury Povich show na yun, parang scripted naman. Ginaya lang si Jerry Springer

[uls]

:starwars: :starwars:

Vader, you ARE the FATHER!!!

[1D4LV]

at 8 years, siguro naman napamahal na sa akin yung mga kids. so whether they are mine or not, i have already treated them as my own.

now as for my wife, as long as the affair is over, then i am ready to forgive her.

masyado kasing stereotyped ang society natin eh. ang lalake, pag nagkaanak sa ibang babae, even though he is married, is ok. pero ang babae, hindi ok.

i had an affair years back, and i am still lucky that my wife forgave and accepted me back. and kung may scenario na ganito sa wife ko naman, i think i will still forgive and accept her back.

[Jun aka Pekto]

If you are familiar with maury show, this is related.
Anyway, heto ang scenario,
You are married for 8yrs and was gifted of 4 siblings.Then your wife made a confession. On that 8yrs of marriage she had an affair and one or two of the siblings might not be yours, HOW WOULD YOU REACT?

I'd take a leave of absence and do some soul-searching. Depending on the circumstances, I may or may not take her back.

In any case, I definitely wouldn't discuss it here because it's a situation that should be reserved for a marriage counselor.

[yuichi]

2 things...

1. aamin na rin ako na may 2 akong anak sa kabila.
2. tatanungin ko kumpare ko kung may iba pa siyang anak

[_Qwerty_]

depende yan eh... may mga taong talagang matatawag na martyr.. happened here sa opis namin.. yung isa kong employeeng lalaki.. 3 na anak nila.. then sa text text.. may na meet na iba yung asawa nya.. tapos may nangyari.. ang malupit.. sumama yung asawa nya don sa lalaki.. tapos after a few months bumalik sa kanya.. dahil sa sobrang pagmamahal.. tinanggap pa rin nung employee ko.. nagsama sila ulit.. kaso buntis pala yung babae.. tinanggap pa rin nya.. binigyan nang pangalan yung bata.. tinuring na sariling anak.. ngayon nagsasama pa rin sila..

bottomline.. mahirap magsabi kung ano talaga ang pwedeng maging reaction hanggang hindi nangyayari talaga sa atin.. depende siguro kung gaano nyo kamahal ang mga asawa nyo.. pero mahirap talagang lulunukin pag nangyari yan.. pero bilib ako don sa employee ko.. sabi ko nga taas ang kamay ko sa kanya.. kung sa iba yun.. baka dinemenda pa yung asawa nila.. pero sya tinanggap nya at tinuring pang anak yung bata..

[Flagg]

Masaya pala maging MILF hunter... no obligations kahit kailan...

[bougartt]

I'd give all my kids a DNA test..

I'll leave her. No questions asked.
The kids should stay with me. (EXCEPT FOR THE ONES THAT ARE NOT MINE)

[cutedoc]

if that happens to me...

1. ill thank my wife for being honest, nope i wont hit her or anything, my mistake is i wasnt able to provide, that is why she looked for what is missing, in a way i have some fault, her fault she didnt tell me in the earlier phase so it coulod be prevented, proper communication is essential.

2. if their infidelity is over, then be it, just say that you trust her that it is over, and let us all move on, but forgiveness isnt something that is given outright it has to be earned.

3. surely she knows who is yours and who isnt, then again, love all your kids as if they are your own and love them equally.

4. starting now, let us talk, with sense, no secrets from now on, your guilt could have triggered you from confessing, would you want your guilt to kill you eventually (you are very serene while delivering this message, you sounded very forgiving but firm)

5. love her more, love her like you never did before.

...in the end its so easy to give unsolicited advice, yet if this thing really happens to any of us, either we could hit her hard, walk out and get drunk, drive somewhere with no direction, crying seems to be futile as more anger is unleashed...

[170kphlang]

hindi ako magpapakahipokrito, initial reaction...? the cops should arrest me on what i'm about to do...

[badsekktor]

ewan ko... im not the type of person that easily forgives and forgets..... hindi ko ma-imagine kasi kung ako eh faithful al this time kahit na meron mga problema tapos ganon gagawin ng wife!

maaring magkasama pa rin pero i dont think the relationship would be the same