It looks like for some, hindi lang sa job hunting, pati sa dating world school matters?

I read this post on another forum about a guy who is thinking of taking a second course because he always gets rejected when girls find out that he's not from a "top school". I am not gonna include the usernames and link, search niyo na lang sa alasjuicy

BTW yung engr friend ko na mild mannered nainis na sakin kaka basa ko ng reddt na naughty subs LOL! Tigil tigilan ko na daw because it's poisoning my mind because that's not how normal people are, yun din naman sabi ng ibang guy friends ko. I can't really say kasi mga 20s usually andun e we're over a decade older kung talaga bang napaka casual na ng s3x ngayon

PHR4R is close to forcing me to get another degree

I am an engineering graduate complete with masters on IT. I work on a specific side of IT as a Data Analyst and Engineer. I am on top of my field and is actually licensed to practice this job on multiple platforms and countries. Yet pag sagot ko sa phr4r, people always ask "Are you from Big 4?" I answer no then immediately the chance goes away. Im no slouch and can keep up a convo yet I am always gatekeeped because I didnt graduate sa Big 4. Im interested in taking a law degree since being a lawyer is my dream but I think if my goal is to study law just to be a part of a Big 4 school then Id rather not go back. Anyways rant over. Share your biggest gatekeeps sa Phr4r hahaha
This guy is SPOT ON, kung prospect/date, but for ONS, it doesn't make sense to me because personally if I were looking for a ONS, I would want to be anonymous. Ang liit liit ng mundo especially sa MM, I have tons of examples of how shocked I am na my friends and family are connected pala in some way. Good thing I don't ONS, wala ako ganyan problema

Getting a law degree from a big 4 school still doesn’t work and I’ll tell you why. Manila is a very small place when you go to the big 4 for college. It’s an environment where you’re not more than two degrees of separation to the cool kids. She’ll be like “do you know so and so?” And you should answer back along the lines of “yeah I know her she used to date my friend and we hung out before” blah blah.
This girl from Ateneo explains why she prefers top schools din for ONS

Speaking as someone from the blue school, I get it because I tend to be picky too. Just to give some insight as to why some people are like that even if ons lang is because of vibes and security. This isn’t to say that someone can’t vibe with someone depending on their background or you’re a bad/dangerous person if you don’t go to any of those schools, but the chances are significantly higher. The same way some of you guys refuse to sleep with a BBM/Duterte supporter, some of us would prefer to sleep with someone that we at least know isn’t deplorable. Education can’t dictate everything, but it does have a great deal of influence on someone’s value system. Going to the blue school, per example, I’m assured that a good deal of the student population is as liberal as I am. Even the language a ***ual partner and I will converse in will be more or less assured depending on the school one goes too. Also, at least if it’s Big 4, I am more likely to trust someone based on affiliation. There’s a safety net so to speak. If something happens, as a girl, I can find them. The world is very, very, very small for people like us. Aside from this, let’s please stop pretending *** is just ***. Do y’all not talk to your partners before or after? Do you not try to at least be friendly with them? It required too a level of connection, even for a night, to be satisfying. Maybe that’s just me though.
Natawa ako dito, what some guys would go through to get laid LOL

Gusto ko yung takeaway mo is magpapakahirap ka mag aral ulit for free k**t*t. Imbes na “ok cool edi wag. Hanap ng mas compatible”. For me if yan ang unang tanong, tapos di ka big 4 edi next, no big deal.

Mas kita mo character ng tao when you tell them no. E kung pikon ka at gagawa ka ng post just because di ka maka”score” what does that say about you?

Tl;dr mas mura mag ayos ng ugali vs get a degree for landi