
Originally Posted by
shelu
i can really relate on this. when my daughter told me, "daddy, si kuya ba, ang landi sa school, bading na bading". i almost fell out of my chair. to hear about my first born being on the other side of the fence is unacceptable. here i am, a uniformed personnel who graduated from the academy, whose dream is to have a son appreciate the beauty of the cadetship program. every year, i brought my son with me during alumni homecomings but to no avail. i felt he is a disappointment for me. further aggravating the situation is a "kunsintedor" mother who keeps insisting, wala na tayong magagawa, ganyan na talaga yan. it took me so long to accept that there are things beyond our control, and this is one of those. he is now a senior college student. all i ask from him is never, never ever cross-dressed dahil ikakamatay ko sa sakit ng puso yon. it is just so sad that most of those who graduated from the academy have their children followed their footsteps by joining the cadetship program and no one from your family. at the end of the day, wala na talaga tayong magagawa.