I don't agree with adoption because think adopted children should be given the chance to have a normal father and mother figure. It is traumatising enough to be given away by your parents. Then you have to deal with gay parents pa (2 fathers or 2 mothers).
I can't speak for all straight people but even in adulthood I am uncomfortable seeing gay couples be intimate eg hugging or kissing. I can't imagine how that will affect the psyche of a straight child.
i'm ok with having gay or lesbos people around me.
masaya rin naman sila kasama.
ang ayaw ko lang yung gusto nila sabihin sa mundo at isaksak sa kukote ng mga tao na OK LANG ANG MAGING BADING!
ayus na yung magladlad sila pero huwag ng magdemand ng ganito at ganyan!
+1 i totally agree!
Masaya talaga silang kasama. There was a time na may nakasama kaming bading sa bahay because of my dad's business mostly happy moments even nagagalit father ko sometimes sa mga palpak na trabaho yun bading lang nakakapagpatawa sa father ko kaya nawawala agad yun temper nya. [emoji4]
I think it's easier to accept if it's your children. Makikita mo na man yun transformation and you'll have inkling na rin na bading anak mo. Dahil you see them grown.
What's worse for me. If it's one of your parents.
Yung mga OA magreact dahil pwede na daw ikasal yung mga LGBT, di ata nagegets na state recognition lang yung nangyari sa US. Hindi pa rin sila pwede magpakasal sa Catholic church.
It's more about giving gay couples the same rights as straight couples.
Whether apologist or hater, discussions will be much more meaningful if people didn't screw up facts.
BTT: personally I'd still prefer to have my children straight, but that's just my preference, just as I'd prefer my kid to like cars and badminton. But kung iba ang gusto, I won't force my wants on them. As long as they're good people who play their part in helping build the nation, I don't mind their ***ual orientation.
i don't think so. catholic church is holier-than-thou. in the early ages, the church caused married women to be burned at the stake suspected of having illicit affairs, or condemned to wear letter "S" around their necks. if time would come LGBT could get married in church, that would be the time priests could marry and the priesthood would not be exclusive to men anymore. this thing about gay marriages will make the catholic church insignificant. i couldn't care less.
i can really relate on this. when my daughter told me, "daddy, si kuya ba, ang landi sa school, bading na bading". i almost fell out of my chair. to hear about my first born being on the other side of the fence is unacceptable. here i am, a uniformed personnel who graduated from the academy, whose dream is to have a son appreciate the beauty of the cadetship program. every year, i brought my son with me during alumni homecomings but to no avail. i felt he is a disappointment for me. further aggravating the situation is a "kunsintedor" mother who keeps insisting, wala na tayong magagawa, ganyan na talaga yan. it took me so long to accept that there are things beyond our control, and this is one of those. he is now a senior college student. all i ask from him is never, never ever cross-dressed dahil ikakamatay ko sa sakit ng puso yon. it is just so sad that most of those who graduated from the academy have their children followed their footsteps by joining the cadetship program and no one from your family. at the end of the day, wala na talaga tayong magagawa.
i can really relate on this. when my daughter told me, "daddy, si kuya ba, ang landi sa school, bading na bading". i almost fell out of my chair. to hear about my first born being on the other side of the fence is unacceptable. here i am, a uniformed personnel who graduated from the academy, whose dream is to have a son appreciate the beauty of the cadetship program. every year, i brought my son with me during alumni homecomings but to no avail. i felt he is a disappointment for me. further aggravating the situation is a "kunsintedor" mother who keeps insisting, wala na tayong magagawa, ganyan na talaga yan. it took me so long to accept that there are things beyond our control, and this is one of those. he is now a senior college student. all i ask from him is never, never ever cross-dressed dahil ikakamatay ko sa sakit ng puso yon. it is just so sad that most of those who graduated from the academy have their children followed their footsteps by joining the cadetship program and no one from your family. at the end of the day, wala na talaga tayong magagawa.
Being gay doesn't mean na he can't do anything sir. Try to see all the good things in your son. He may not excel in the macho scene but he definitely has his strength in other aspects. Guide him in being a decent kind of gay. To carry himself with dignity. I know a gay that is more MAN than most men. Bading nga pero dala nya lagi yun bayag nya as we say. He walks his talk. He commands respect and has a high position in his line of work. Doesn't cross dress. Yun kapatid nya kasi na straight lagi syang sinasabihan na bading ka na nga magaasal palengkera ka pa. Do something with your life kung hindi people will mostly look down on you. Kawawa ka sa huli. Yun nagising yata at napaka suplada ngayon maiilang kang lapitan pero napakabait kung maging kaibigan mo. Pag private times medyo nagtitili sa family gatherings lalo na sa mga pamangkin nya dun naglaladlad talaga. Kakatuwa personality nya parang magkaibang tao. On and off pagka suplada.[emoji4]
i'd probably do my darnest best to get them to be straight...but it's hard to fight one's true nature, baka lalo pang makasama pag pinilit maging straight. Ang importante, they become decent people. Being gay/lesbian is one thing, being a slut is another. OK, you're gay/lesbian, you have a right to be happy...pero wag naman yung me bagong BF/GF every month. Ibang sayad na yan![]()
I agree. Hayaan lang basta huwag mag ala BB Gandanghari! Nakakarimarim!!!
I have a gay cousin who is a professor. You probably cannot tell by just looking at him because he dresses and act very respectably. He is not hiding it though. My mother told this story of my grandfather mistaking him for my mother because he was wearing hair rollers[emoji12]. They are almost of the same age. He is supporting my aging aunt and his niece from a cousin of mine who died. I guess it all boils down to how they are raised.
Sakin i can't really say what i'd do, i mean ngayon siguro i would say that i'd try to turn him straight pero i think you won't really know what you'd do until you get to that point.
Most of the gay people i know are the queer types, halos lahat ng friends ni misis are gay. Alam nilang lalake sila pero iba lang preference nila sa partners nila, they're not like the ones who demand for their own bathrooms, they dont cross dress, they have the same jokes as men do - like kung male/female ba yung driver ng ibang sasakyan, di sila yung malaswang klase ba.
My sister, at one point in her life tried it out but came out straight naman, curiosity maybe, not necessarily genetic? Although for some nga lang, find it to be what they want.