Fake License...

[_Cathy_]

Cathy, I'm 24. (and the eldest, if it matters) Dad passed away. I don't think she's ever been on drugs, her attitude has just always been... bad.



Unfortunately, we can't afford it (and now really only have one car after she wrecked our Carens)

I'm sorry to hear about your Dad. Maybe your Mom could not handle your Dad's passing. You seem mature, I guess you had to grow up fast because of your Mom's attitude

Since you only have one car left, make sure that it is never left at home. Don't let her drive ever again. Assert yourself with your Mom, like I mentioned, since she can't behave like an adult, you have to take control.

[dr. d]

with that passing of her life partner,... perhaps you mom needs psychiatric help. why not try...?

[_Cathy_]

with that passing of her life partner,... perhaps you mom needs psychiatric help. why not try...?

I thought about this as well but some people get worse with prescription drugs. Probably try counseling like CEFAM first.

[cast_no_shadow]

TS

Mentally is she fit? I'm sure you can asses her state.

whats the reason for her not getting a legit DL? may kaso ba siya? or pinagtataguan?

you even said "She really never knew how to drive"

serious jail time ata hanap ng mother mo? hindi niya palagi kakampi ang swerte kaya i think wag niya sagarin.

hopefully hindi niya masaktan sarili niya and hindi makadisgrasya ng kapwa.

meron na tayo anti drunk driving law.

[dodongo]

TS

Mentally is she fit? I'm sure you can asses her state.

I do not think she is. She is the type of person who does not last long at a job, due to "office conflicts" or "office politics".

with that passing of her life partner,... perhaps you mom needs psychiatric help. why not try...?

I thought about this as well but some people get worse with prescription drugs. Probably try counseling like CEFAM first.

I think the problem is that she doesn't or cannot admit to herself that there is something wrong.

whats the reason for her not getting a legit DL? may kaso ba siya? or pinagtataguan?

you even said "She really never knew how to drive"

serious jail time ata hanap ng mother mo? hindi niya palagi kakampi ang swerte kaya i think wag niya sagarin.

hopefully hindi niya masaktan sarili niya and hindi makadisgrasya ng kapwa.

meron na tayo anti drunk driving law.

Hi cast_no_shadow,

She used to have a legit license, albeit she got it through a fixer. It was confiscated, her well-connected friend offered to get it for her. Turns out he gave her a fake license, the middle initial on the said license is "Malacanang"

What I mean by "really never knew" how to drive", is that, while she can operate an A/T car, she does not know proper driving etiquette and does not bother to follow the rules of the road all the time.


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[remzam]

since isa na lang kotse nyo sa bahay, and you being the adult sa house, make sure ikaw na parati gumamit ng auto nyo. wagm o na iwan dyan. gawin mo na personal car during weekdays at family car pag weekends. or kung di pwede, iwan ko kotse sa bahay pero dalhin mo yung susi parati. pati spare iwan mo sa office mo.

[CLAVEL3699]

Hi cast_no_shadow,

She used to have a legit license, albeit she got it through a fixer. It was confiscated, her well-connected friend offered to get it for her. Turns out he gave her a fake license, the middle initial on the said license is "Malacanang"

What I mean by "really never knew" how to drive", is that, while she can operate an A/T car, she does not know proper driving etiquette and does not bother to follow the rules of the road all the time.


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You cannot afford na magkaroon sya nang Driver but may well-connected friends sya? medyo conflicting ang story mo.

And wala syang work? Ano kinabubuhay nyo ngayon? or sya?

Bakit mo pinababayaan magdrive ang Nanay mo kung alam mo na hindi sya marunong sumunod sa traffic rules? Hindi mo pwede sabihin na anak ka lang... you are 24yrs old.

[CLAVEL3699]

since isa na lang kotse nyo sa bahay, and you being the adult sa house, make sure ikaw na parati gumamit ng auto nyo. wagm o na iwan dyan. gawin mo na personal car during weekdays at family car pag weekends. or kung di pwede, iwan ko kotse sa bahay pero dalhin mo yung susi parati. pati spare iwan mo sa office mo.

Or get the f-ucking drivers license for GOD Sake... alam mo na palang fake bakit hindi mo pa kunin.

[uls]

Parang cougar / matrona si mama mo.

yeah thinking the same thing

profile:

she's probably in her early 40s

maybe attractive

spoiled brat upbringing

self-centered, pleasure-seeking, di pa sawa sa partying

[Syuryuken]

Totoo kaya ang kwento na eto... alam na naman nyo na fake ang license nang nanay nyo pinababayaan nyo?

bakit hindi na lang kumuha nang totoong license noon pa.

hmmmm....

Or get the f-ucking drivers license for GOD Sake... alam mo na palang fake bakit hindi mo pa kunin.

puso mo

mas madali kayang kumuha ng pekeng drivers license sa recto kesa makipila sa LTO

[jut703]

You cannot afford na magkaroon sya nang Driver but may well-connected friends sya? medyo conflicting ang story mo.

Some people have a lot of connections pero walang pera bro. Di naman kailangan puro alta sociedad yung mga connections, minsan simpleng employee of a government agency is enough to "lubricate" some processes.



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[CLAVEL3699]

puso mo

mas madali kayang kumuha ng pekeng drivers license sa recto kesa makipila sa LTO

Potek!!! Alam nang fake eh.

24 yrs old... hindi ba pwedeng tumayo sa sariling mga paa at ipaglaban ang tama kahit nanay pa nya yan...

He/She really cares sa nanay nya gagawat gagawa sila nang paraan kahit mag-away away pa sila... Hindi ako naBAD TRIP sa nanay eh sa ANAk ako naiinis.

[CLAVEL3699]

Some people have a lot of connections pero walang pera bro. Di naman kailangan puro alta sociedad yung mga connections, minsan simpleng employee of a government agency is enough to "lubricate" some processes.



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Ang nakalagay sa kanya is Well-Connected Friends... Iba na ang dating nun.

[dodongo]

yeah thinking the same thing

profile:

she's probably in her early 40s

maybe attractive

spoiled brat upbringing

self-centered, pleasure-seeking, di pa sawa sa partying

You got it uls.. except for the age, off by a few years.

Ang nakalagay sa kanya is Well-Connected Friends... Iba na ang dating nun.

Your logic is off. Don't you know anyone well-connected, or at least well-connected to certain circles, in this case, LTO, or what have you? Does that mean that you have the means to get a driver?

Potek!!! Alam nang fake eh.

24 yrs old... hindi ba pwedeng tumayo sa sariling mga paa at ipaglaban ang tama kahit nanay pa nya yan...

He/She really cares sa nanay nya gagawat gagawa sila nang paraan kahit mag-away away pa sila... Hindi ako naBAD TRIP sa nanay eh sa ANAk ako naiinis.

Or get the f-ucking drivers license for GOD Sake... alam mo na palang fake bakit hindi mo pa kunin.

Your demeanor is also off. Be professional, you're a f-ucking mod for "GOD Sake".

As I've said, my family is not really whole or typical. And I would not want to create any more problems for all of us.

RESPECT:
It means valuing each others point of View. It means being open to being wrong. It means accepting PEOPLE as they are.

Medyo conflicting ang sinasabi mo.



///* Anyway, I just wanted to share this because I thought I might find a way for her to legally get the punishment she deserves. (At least 1 year suspension)

[falken]

Never let her get the car keys. It's time your family perform an intervention and force her to seek therapy.

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[cast_no_shadow]

TS

you have no choice but to man up and take control of the family.

For starters accompany her to get a legit DL this will spare her from getting into dipper sh*t.

Lets say ako naabala ng mom mo to add up she's drunk with no valid DL no chance in hell na papayag ako sa areglo i'll make sure she'll never be behind the wheels again.

Kung kakayanin mo, never ever let her drive again alone. If someone can accompany her or be her designated driver? much better.

Seek professional psychiatric help.

Im sure you love your mom (who doesn't?).

Hopefully you can sort things out.

[CLAVEL3699]

Your demeanor is also off. Be professional, you're a f-ucking mod for "GOD Sake".

As I've said, my family is not really whole or typical. And I would not want to create any more problems for all of us.





///* Anyway, I just wanted to share this because I thought I might find a way for her to legally get the punishment she deserves. (At least 1 year suspension)

ayaw mo kayo magkagulo pa pero gusto mo sya legally punished? Bakit hindi mo na lang tulungan ang NANAY mo pamamagitan nang pagmamahal nang isang anak... intindihin mo at kalingain.

Iba na ang gusto mong mangyari... punishment for your mother?

hindi ako f-ucking MOD, f-ucking license ang sinasabi ko at hindi ikaw.

[_Cathy_]

Some people have a lot of connections pero walang pera bro. Di naman kailangan puro alta sociedad yung mga connections, minsan simpleng employee of a government agency is enough to "lubricate" some processes.



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I have to agree with this. You don't necessary need to be well off to have connections.

*TS, I really hope you can sort things out with your Mom. I assume she had you early if you're 24 and she's still in her 40s. Maybe you can ask the help of your grandparents or even your paternal grandparents. Mas mahihiya Mom mo when they intervene.

Follow everyone's advice - do not let her drive. Bring the car daily.

[CLAVEL3699]

I have to agree with this. You don't necessary need to be well off to have connections.

Anong connection meron ka kung hindi ka mayaman? Fixer?

[_Cathy_]

Anong connection meron ka kung hindi ka mayaman? Fixer?

Some people have well off friends from school, work or hobbies. There are parents that prioritize sending their children to the best school and that is where you first start to form your network.