ALERT: Tragic Story

**gpufrancisco** · January 21st, 2010 12:04 AM

Originally Posted by tanatej

Mr. redorange, please do not apply your American values to this situation kasi nasa Pilipinas kami. If you feel cozy and safe with your American cops and justice system to say those things then well and good. Sadly enough it does not make our country any safer than yours.

Ang sinasabi ko lang naman ay dapat nag-effort yung kasintahan niya na sunduin siya dahil ALAM NG LALAKI NA PUPUNTA YUNG KASINTAHAN NIYA SA CLUB AT MALAMANG GAGABIHIN NG UWI. Dahil sa kawalan ng initiative ng lalaki manundo "kasi may pasok pa siya eh" or "kasi may exam pa siya eh", napahamak tuloy ang babae. HE HAD THE CHANCE AND THE ABILITY TO DO IT BUT CHOSE NOT TO.

Now if the situation were that the BF told her GF NOT TO GO OUT, and she still went out WITHOUT HIM KNOWING, then went home inebriated and started stripping in the taxi, then I can say na di nga kasalanan ng BF yun dahil he didn't allow her to go yet tumakas pa rin siya. BUT since may basbas ng BF, then all the blame falls on him. He had the chance to prevent something bad from happening to her at least sa paguwi, but chose to sleep over it instead. Kung gusto may paraan, kung ayaw maraming dahilan.

May mga tao siguro na attitude talaga nila sa buhay is "bahala na", or que sera sera. I'm not about to tell you what to do with your life, pero if you really care about the people who matter most for you, please take the initiative and the extra effort to protect them and make sure they are always safe. Trust me, they would always appreciate it and will only strengthen your relationship with them.

Sorry, but i don't get your point. These horrible things happen REGARDLESS of where you are and who you are. From my understanding, Redorange's reply simply means that he wants his wife and daughter to be independent. --- for them to be able to take care of themselves even if they are females and even if he's not around. Even I would like to make sure that my Girlfriend is independent and that she could take care of herself even if I'm not around. Let's face it, we won't be around for them forever. If you ask me, i would very much prefer that she knows how to do things on her own rather than always relying on someone to do things for her. And trust me, that would help her in the long run.

In any case, i do hope the victim is okay.

**Lucius** · January 21st, 2010 12:29 AM

Originally Posted by gpufrancisco

Sorry, but i don't get your point. These horrible things happen REGARDLESS of where you are and who you are. From my understanding, Redorange's reply simply means that he wants his wife and daughter to be independent. --- for them to be able to take care of themselves even if they are females and even if he's not around. Even I would like to make sure that my Girlfriend is independent and that she could take care of herself even if I'm not around. Let's face it, we won't be around for them forever. If you ask me, i would very much prefer that she knows how to do things on her own rather than always relying on someone to do things for her. And trust me, that would help her in the long run.

In any case, i do hope the victim is okay.

May kulang na letter sa username nya...

Letter "g" yata

**Lucius** · January 21st, 2010 12:30 AM

Originally Posted by gpufrancisco

Sorry, but i don't get your point. These horrible things happen REGARDLESS of where you are and who you are. From my understanding, Redorange's reply simply means that he wants his wife and daughter to be independent. --- for them to be able to take care of themselves even if they are females and even if he's not around. Even I would like to make sure that my Girlfriend is independent and that she could take care of herself even if I'm not around. Let's face it, we won't be around for them forever. If you ask me, i would very much prefer that she knows how to do things on her own rather than always relying on someone to do things for her. And trust me, that would help her in the long run.

In any case, i do hope the victim is okay.

May kulang na letter sa username nya...

Letter "g" yata

**sgt_taga** · January 21st, 2010 12:51 AM

hmmm... can't help but think that this whole thing could have been prevented. daming chance para maiwasan yung mga nangyari but i guess the decisions made by the girl were just plain bad. wonder how old she is.... hmmmm

**gpufrancisco** · January 21st, 2010 01:02 AM

Originally Posted by Lucius

May kulang na letter sa username nya...

Letter "g" yata

huh? sorry, i don't get it.

**dokdondon** · January 21st, 2010 01:18 AM

Just a piece of advise for those taking cabs especially the girls; I always tell my GF before when we were in college to:

1. always know the plate number before hopping in the cab and
2. tell someone the plate number, driver's name (if possible) by calling....
making sure that the driver hears that she has given me some some info on the cab (plate number, color or company)

So..
Call someone and make sure the driver heard that you told your BF/husband or anyone that this particular taxi is bringing you home. (Even you don't have a cp load, just pretend you called someone)

This way the driver knows you informed someone about the cab and would not even dare of doing something "illegal".
I think this is better than just knowing the plate number.

Again, make an effort that the driver knows that you know the plate number of his cab and that you have told someone else.

**MarcRio** · January 21st, 2010 02:48 AM

Tama tama..

Tama si dokdondon.

**rai711** · January 21st, 2010 03:11 AM

Bottom line kawawa yung girl. Sana kung hindi ka man nasamahan ng bf mo sana nagpalipas kana lang ng oras sa friends mo, sana hindi mo din ginawang bihisan yung taxi. Kahit sinong driver siguro matetemp na lumingon saiyo (worst come scenario ma rape ka nga)baka akalain pa mababang lipad ka kaya next time doble ingat po. Sana mahuli yung ganung mga masasamang loob.

**shadow** · January 21st, 2010 09:07 AM

21st century na, gender equality, women empowerment etc..now that meron nangyaring masama sa babae eh ipasa na ang kasalanan sa BF. meron pa pala naiwan ang utak sa panahon ng '70s.

meron pa palang hinde nakakaintindi na people actually have their own lives to attend to and not just revolve around their girlfriend's.

at the end of the day you are still the only one responsible for yourself. huwag ipasa ang sisi sa ibang tao.

**claRkEnt** · January 21st, 2010 09:52 AM

my suspicions on this based on the story... i think tumakas sya sa bahay para gumimik. thus all her calls inspite of being near her place are always to his BF. ayaw nya mabisto sa bahay na nasa labas sya. (same reason why she changed her clothes sa cab)

Comes from a rich family. Tambay din kasi ako before sa Bigasan street na yan where a friend lives.