ALERT: Tragic Story

**redeemed** · January 21st, 2010 09:53 AM

Originally Posted by dokdondon

Just a piece of advise for those taking cabs especially the girls; I always tell my GF before when we were in college to:

1. always know the plate number before hopping in the cab and
2. tell someone the plate number, driver's name (if possible) by calling....
making sure that the driver hears that she has given me some some info on the cab (plate number, color or company)

So..
Call someone and make sure the driver heard that you told your BF/husband or anyone that this particular taxi is bringing you home. (Even you don't have a cp load, just pretend you called someone)

This way the driver knows you informed someone about the cab and would not even dare of doing something "illegal".
I think this is better than just knowing the plate number.

Again, make an effort that the driver knows that you know the plate number of his cab and that you have told someone else.

+100 ako dito. ok to. masabi nga din kay kumander. txt lang kasi ginagawa nya.

hmmm, pwedeng ganito siguro ang script kahit wala ng load to make a call, 1.00 na lang.. sakto pang-txt:

kumander: ling, dito na ako sa taxi, abangan mo na lang ako sa gate. plate # is pxs 143. "your in good hand taxi" ang name ng taxi. kulay puti. ok... dyan na siguro after in 30mins... sige, bye!

**moejun2** · January 21st, 2010 09:55 AM

agree, and what redorange said was equally true. it IS NOT the boyfriend's responsibility to care for the girl like a shepherd does to his sheep (what an analogy). tenataj or whatever your name is, wake up! it's 2010 already. and i have news for you - continue pampering and treating your girl (or wife) that way and let's see what happens if (i'm crossing my fingers here) something happens to you.

i always tell my wife that she has to learn to fend for herself while i'm not with her. i won't always be around to protect her. so far she's added prudence, safety and caution to her vocabulary.

**oliver1013** · January 21st, 2010 10:03 AM

Ang tunay na may kaslanan hindi BF hindi yung babae at lalong hindi yung pamilya ng babae, kundi yung OPERATOR NG TAXI, dapat dinidisiplina niya yung mga driver niya!!

**redeemed** · January 21st, 2010 10:03 AM

Originally Posted by claRkEnt

my suspicions on this based on the story... i think tumakas sya sa bahay para gumimik. thus all her calls inspite of being near her place are always to his BF. ayaw nya mabisto sa bahay na nasa labas sya. (same reason why she changed her clothes sa cab)

Comes from a rich family. Tambay din kasi ako before sa Bigasan street na yan where a friend lives.

yeah. ito rin suspicions ko... bakit nga naman di yung family ang tinawagan. nagpalit ng clothes para di obvious na galing sa gimmick... at sasabihin lang na galing sa bahay ng kaibigan... or sa bf. malilintikan pa si bf pagnagkataon kasi madaling araw na pinauwi.

**xtremerider** · January 21st, 2010 10:25 AM

IMO... We don't need to prove who's fault why the incident happen. I hope this serve as a reminder to everyone...Kung mag iinom, wag magpaka lasing pero kung magpapakalasing dapat may mag hahatid...

**roninblade** · January 21st, 2010 10:26 AM

i guess i'll put in my 2cents worth here as well...

based on the story, all wrong decisions were made by the girl. the boyfriend had little to no fault at all despite tanatej's attempt to put some blame on the guy. you can't coddle and spoil your loved one's like that, tanatej. it's better to teach them to make smart decisions so they can take care of themselves even if you're not around.

i'm just glad the girl's mistakes didn't cost her her life. hope she learns from this and doesn't get too traumatized mentally and emotionally.

**wondersuman** · January 21st, 2010 11:27 AM

heto opinion ng isang nanay: i have a 22 year old daughter. mabuti na lang at hindi mahilig gumimik itong anak kong ito. pero kung sakaling gigimik ito at gagabihin/uumagahin nang uwi i will make sure na susunduin ko ito. if not, i will ask her na makitulog na lang sa bahay ng kaibigan nya at sa umaga na lang umuwi. i too was a victim of a taxi hold up many many years ago. niliko ng driver yung taxi sa isang madilim na kalsada. tinutukan ako ng baril ng driver. tapos kinuha bag ko at pinababa ako dun sa madilim na lugar na iyon. traumatic for me and it took me years bago makasakay uli ng taxi. one time kinailangan ko mag taxi at bandang alas onse na ng gabi nun. i asked my son na magkita na lang kami sa glorietta para may makasabay ako sa taxi. nasa trinoma kasi sya noon at may event na inattendan. so i just cannot imagine how this girl could be so brazenly brave at umuwi mag isa nang ganung oras. may anak akong lalaki who is 19 years old. madalas umuwi nang late. todo todo ang emote ko sa kanya pag uwi. nagco commute lang kasi yun. heto lalaking anak ko na ito pero kinagagalitan ko kapag ginagabi nang uwi. bakit hinahayaan ng magulang itong babaeng ito na lumabas at umuwi nang dis oras ng gabi? duda ko dito eh hindi alam ng mga magulang nya ang pinag gagagawa nya. kawawa naman ang mga magulang nya

**redeemed** · January 21st, 2010 12:16 PM

Originally Posted by wondersuman

heto opinion ng isang nanay: i have a 22 year old daughter. mabuti na lang at hindi mahilig gumimik itong anak kong ito. pero kung sakaling gigimik ito at gagabihin/uumagahin nang uwi i will make sure na susunduin ko ito. if not, i will ask her na makitulog na lang sa bahay ng kaibigan nya at sa umaga na lang umuwi. i too was a victim of a taxi hold up many many years ago. niliko ng driver yung taxi sa isang madilim na kalsada. tinutukan ako ng baril ng driver. tapos kinuha bag ko at pinababa ako dun sa madilim na lugar na iyon. traumatic for me and it took me years bago makasakay uli ng taxi. one time kinailangan ko mag taxi at bandang alas onse na ng gabi nun. i asked my son na magkita na lang kami sa glorietta para may makasabay ako sa taxi. nasa trinoma kasi sya noon at may event na inattendan. so i just cannot imagine how this girl could be so brazenly brave at umuwi mag isa nang ganung oras. may anak akong lalaki who is 19 years old. madalas umuwi nang late. todo todo ang emote ko sa kanya pag uwi. nagco commute lang kasi yun. heto lalaking anak ko na ito pero kinagagalitan ko kapag ginagabi nang uwi. bakit hinahayaan ng magulang itong babaeng ito na lumabas at umuwi nang dis oras ng gabi? duda ko dito eh hindi alam ng mga magulang nya ang pinag gagagawa nya. kawawa naman ang mga magulang nya

thank you for sharing ma'am. traumatic din po pala ang nangyari sa inyo. importante talaga ang clear communication sa family... parents-son/daughter relationship... malamang nga po, hindi alam ng parents... kawawa naman.

**Tifosi** · January 21st, 2010 12:23 PM

Originally Posted by claRkEnt

my suspicions on this based on the story... i think tumakas sya sa bahay para gumimik. thus all her calls inspite of being near her place are always to his BF. ayaw nya mabisto sa bahay na nasa labas sya. (same reason why she changed her clothes sa cab)

Comes from a rich family. Tambay din kasi ako before sa Bigasan street na yan where a friend lives.

This would probably explain why she chose to call her BF and not her family. Malamang sa malamang tumakas nga siya. Ano ba naman yung magpaalam siya at kung di payagan eh well sorry na lang.

Enough has been said about teaching our loved ones about personal safety being their responsibility. Suwerte ko na lang na ang misis ko eh street-smart and likes to err on the side of caution. It's all about making smart choices. Unfortunately the girl in the story made a wrong decision. Suwerte na lang talaga niya na she didn't lose her life at sana eh she learns a thing or two about responsible choices.

**shadow** · January 21st, 2010 12:34 PM

Originally Posted by Tifosi

This would probably explain why she chose to call her BF and not her family. Malamang sa malamang tumakas nga siya. Ano ba naman yung magpaalam siya at kung di payagan eh well sorry na lang.

Enough has been said about teaching our loved ones about personal safety being their responsibility. Suwerte ko na lang na ang misis ko eh street-smart and likes to err on the side of caution. It's all about making smart choices. Unfortunately the girl in the story made a wrong decision. Suwerte na lang talaga niya na she didn't lose her life at sana eh she learns a thing or two about responsible choices.

kung yana nga ang reason, ano kaya sasabihin niya sa family niya ngayon? nadulas lang siya? :rofl: